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  • auscguy
    Confirmed User
    • Oct 2002
    • 111

    #1

    Have you ever dumped someone?

    Its 1am here in Australia and I feel like shit. I just dropped my gf of 18 months, I havent been happy for ages and it was always gonna happen, I just didnt want to hurt her.
    I've never dumped anyone before really and didnt know how hard it would be, she didnt stop crying.
    What made it worse, she hasnt got her licence yet so her parents had to come pick her up, and they live 2 hours away. I feel like the biggest asshole, I know that in the long run it was the right thing to do for both of us but doesnt make it any easier.....
  • Klen
    • Aug 2006
    • 32234

    #2
    Nop no need for that yet.

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    • bausch
      Confirmed User
      • Jul 2006
      • 3017

      #3
      No, I'm too clingy and needy, I don't think I could dump someone. They would have to dump me first. Unless they cheated on me.

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      • Cyndalie
        Confirmed User
        • Jan 2002
        • 3615

        #4
        Usually i just ignore them until they go away.
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        • cardinalvices
          Confirmed User
          • Dec 2006
          • 2084

          #5
          well not everything in life is about fun and joy.
          Some things may hurt like scars. But scars heal in time, so will your soul..
          If you are not happy and she is, then this is not love. You shouldn't be thinking that you dumped her, you released her. You want her to be happy, but not with you.. I'd say you made a smart move man.

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          • 4Man
            Confirmed User
            • Nov 2006
            • 3830

            #6
            I did not.

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            • Spunky
              I need a beer
              • Jun 2002
              • 133978

              #7
              It's tough but if you aren't happy,why continue to be miserable

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              • auscguy
                Confirmed User
                • Oct 2002
                • 111

                #8
                Originally posted by cardinalvices
                well not everything in life is about fun and joy.
                Some things may hurt like scars. But scars heal in time, so will your soul..
                If you are not happy and she is, then this is not love. You shouldn't be thinking that you dumped her, you released her. You want her to be happy, but not with you.. I'd say you made a smart move man.
                Thanks, you are spot on when you say I want her to be happy, I want her to find a guy who loves her for her and makes her happy, just didnt think it'd hurt this much to do it.

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                • reynold
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                  • Oct 2002
                  • 51271

                  #9
                  I've been there several times, mate. She'll get through with that, for sure..

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                  • nAtuRaLbEautY
                    Confirmed User
                    • May 2006
                    • 6107

                    #10
                    yeah, must have been several times. it's better to dump someone than to go on with the relationship even though you know that it's not gonna work out...
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                    • evildick

                      #11
                      Originally posted by Cyndalie
                      Usually i just ignore them until they go away.
                      LOL. That's my technique as well. Eventually they stop calling.

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                      • Martha_WildCash
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                        • Nov 2005
                        • 231

                        #12
                        Originally posted by evildick
                        LOL. That's my technique as well. Eventually they stop calling.
                        i guess im gonna have to try that one
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                        • E$_manager
                          Too lazy to set a custom title
                          • Apr 2006
                          • 13557

                          #13
                          May be you should first start to ignore her, make her hate you, so that it would be easier for her to apart from you?
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                          • shekinah
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                            • May 2006
                            • 8452

                            #14
                            dumping someone really hurts and will consume more time to accept it

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                            • corvette
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                              • Oct 2001
                              • 7880

                              #15
                              you did what you had to do

                              did the same think 1.5 years ago, it was rough
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                              • CaptainHowdy
                                Too lazy to set a custom title
                                • Dec 2004
                                • 94193

                                #16
                                Originally posted by Cyndalie
                                Usually i just ignore them until they go away.
                                Brilliant...

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                                • Rochard
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                                  • Dec 2001
                                  • 75775

                                  #17
                                  Sometimes doing the right thing hurts.

                                  Yeah, I've dumped many people. But to this day the biggest surprise was my ex-wife. She was stunning, beautiful, and no one I've dated since has been as much fun. I couldn't have been happier but there was one thing.... I couldn't accept. I drew a line and she was unwilling to meet me half way. Instead two weeks later I packed my stuff and asked her to drive me to the airport. Talk about a long ride.....

                                  It happens. Not sure if I made the right choice or not, but I have to live with it.
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                                  • en21
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                                    • May 2006
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                                    #18
                                    only time will heal
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                                    • rodney25
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                                      • Jun 2005
                                      • 7090

                                      #19
                                      If you think it's not working anymore, then she has to let go of you..


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                                      • GAMEFINEST
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                                        • Nov 2006
                                        • 14474

                                        #20
                                        dnt be a weak link......be a JEdi
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