Life can be funny sometimes
 

Life can be funny sometimes

This evening my brother was involved in a major car accident, he is two years younger than me, if you were to look at the car you would think that he would not have survived.

I rushed down to the hospital at 7:00pm to see him and he was pretty bad, lots of internal bleeding, broken foot and knee, deep cuts to his arm and legs, broken pelvis and bleeding to his spleen which may have to be removed, whilst my brother and I have never been that close, I stayed by his bed whilst they were prepping him for surgery trying to calm him down and ensure him that everything was going to be ok, they gave him lots of morphine so he was talking about things that were very strange, but in that whole time, my life was flashing before me and it hit home that we really do have to make the most of our life?s today and not tomorrow as tomorrow it could be all gone. We sometimes bitch and complain about crap, but at the end of it all, if we all have our health and loved ones, life is good so let?s make the most of it.

I was there for six hours in the trauma ward with him and seeing some of the other people in there that we brought in really hits home.

There have been things in my personal life that I have not been happy with nothing to do with porn or my work, just personal things with female partners and other things, I am going to change all that, right here, right now.

Family should also be #1 priority bro, stick by him help him out and work out your problems. My dad and I are very close and its something I make sure that stays that way

Ah yeah, i know what you mean.

I dont really have any problems as such, just some things that i have been tolerating that should not be, just going to make some changes there.

life is too short . . .

i hope your bros okay man, family is important, he'll appreciate you staying!

That's a good realization. Family and health are indeed very important.

My wishes go out to your bro mate

sorry to hear that, I hope everything turns out okay for him

Thanks everyone.:thumbsup

I am glad your bro made it out alive mate...


Keep your chin up, a smile on your face, do the honest things and follow your gut... Everything will work out great :thumbsup

Damn Batts, sorry to hear that. I hope your brother makes it through everything ok.

Batts, this is a difficult time in your life, i t ink. Hope you will pass it alright.

i really hope your brothers doing good man!

All the best for your brother, you and your family! Very well said about which are our priorities in this life...

Being with our family all the time is the best luck we have in this world, this is the place where we sure belong:)

Hope he gets well soon. I've realized a while ago that nothing in this life really matters besides family.