MSN transfers through Trillian are SLOW!!!!
 

Why are file transfers over trillian so damn slow?
is there a setting I am missing somewhere?

and icq transfers dont even go.


I have a router, but dont know if its a firewall or anything.

It's because clients like Trillian (I use Gaim, has the same problem) don't support peer-to-peer transfers, and thus have to transfer your shit through MSN's server... As far as I know anyway.