Why do people settle to be with someone who totally do not fit them?
 

Isnt it great when you meet a chick that gives you a deepthroat whenever you feel like it, will get up at 3:30 am to make you something to eat after a long night of sex, then after she makes you food roll you a blunt to smoke for when you are done eating?

This is the current girl i am with, i love when a woman takes care of their man, i never date these "i dont give blowjobs" bitches and i have no idea why anyone does.

I also have no idea why people settle to be with someone that are complete losers. I have a buddy who announced yesterday that he is going to propose this year to his girlfriend. They have been together for 5-6 years since high school and she has gained probably 40 pounds since then, has the personality of a cashew and constantly complains. He on the other hand is fit, outgoing, and relatively good looking.

I have no idea why people settle for these kinds of women, are people really THAT desperate? i guess so.

Take a good look at your woman, does she cook for you? does she fuck you the way you want to be fucked?

if the answer is no to either of these questions then why the fuck are you with them?

"LOVE"? love is pure bullshit when you are blinded by a fat bitchy girlfriend.

Those are lost souls that need to be saved by us.. :pimp

The same reason people settle with a job they hate...

Afraid to be alone. A lot of people are very needy and codependent :2 cents:

Exactly where the word "LOSERS" came from. :pimp

People settle because things are almost always great in the beginning and think things will go back to the way there were but they never do.

I gotta get me one of those Russian girlfriends!

and they dont want change now

or if married..to pay her off

that's a good question...

some people don't have great expectations from life :)

So you base the viability of a relationship on how willing she is to give head? Okay, there's nothing wrong with that for a girlfriend .. but when it comes time to getting serious, I hope you raise the bar a little :)

jesus.. so do i..

R

theres much more to a relationship than a servant.

Had the perfect girl while I was in college...japanese, she cooked her ass off and rolled the fattest blunts, her favorite were royal blunt raps....especially chocalate....

thanks for the memories :pimp

No way ...

I totally agree

I guess because people are afraid of exploring the unknown.

Maybe what you're looking for in a woman isn't what your friend is looking for in a woman. Different strokes for different strokes. He loves her, he wants to spend the rest of his life with her. Can you say the same about who you're with? He might end up on the better end of the deal :)

Love is blind, and sometimes pure bullshit, this is why the divorce rate is so high, it is because people base their entire lives around someone then oneday finally realise that they are not happy.

You are supposed to marry someone who compliments who you are and someone you can be yourself around, not with someone because you dont know any better.

I do not even think this girl knows who he really is, he changed his entire personality just to suite her, which is a main reason why they will not last.

I have been in love but never wanted to get married, i dont need marriage for me to tell i love someone, maybe one day i will, after the fact i have expierienced more of life. I would never want that feeling when i am old of "what did i miss" and i think getting married can do this to alot of people.

:1orglaugh i am very very picky about my women someones willingness to go out of their way to make me happy is a major factor in dating.

I always take good care and treat my girlfriends well so it is only normal that i expect the same in return.

it is a great feeling when you have a woman that can take care of you.

We tapped for a couple of hours and my stomach was hungry, i was just gonna grab something out of the fridge but she offered to make me something.

she serves up my grill cheese and starts rolling me a blunt, what a woman.

Love is a commitment. Pure and simple.
Those who cannot commit to the challenge of spending a lifetime with somone... should never get married.
Those who think they can commit to the challenge... Should never get married.
Those who KNOW they can and are confident that their partner can as well, should consider marriage if it suits them.

It really doesn't matter, fat, ugly, stupid... if love is there and the commitment is there... it is well worth the effort.

Otherwise, people need to stop kidding themselves. Sure, you can "love" someone and not have a commitment, but it's almost doomed from the start. If what you seek is "love", but you can't commit to the person... Be very sure that they are in the same place, otherwise you risk really hurting the person you supposedly "love". You might be better off, persuing something with no emotional attachment... maybe a blowup doll.

simmer down steve...

You talk like a young boy.
I guess there is no scense in explaining to you anything.
You just answere me: Would you care about your gf the way you want her to care about you??

You are going to take it very hard when you guys break up! she will be doing all that for some other guy!

However to answer your questions, a lot of people just settle and dont like change.

I think thats a major factor in any "real" good relationships, going both ways of course.

I think about my family and there isn't any one of them that I wouldn't go the extra distance for if they asked. The same goes for any close friends of mine.

Agree, what i meant :) :thumbsup

at least he doesn't have to worry about other guys trying to bang her... or at least he thinks... if not Love, then maybe security?