Would you help a friend???
 

Say you had a friend whos husband is away in the Marines, he is somewhat a deadbeat dad, he spends money on shit he shouldnt be buying, so Kelly can't afford to buy her daughter toys for christmas, WOuld you buy the kid some toys or let them deal with it on there own?, I have known kelly for 16 years and she is like a lil sister.

For some nookie? Hell yeah.

:1orglaugh :1orglaugh :1orglaugh

Anything for the kids.

Seriously though, if they are still married there are all kinds of peeps who help out military families during the holidays.

If it was a friend I had known for 16 years and was like a sibling to me, then I would buy their child toys. I would likely grumble and bitch about it in my mind, but I wouldn't let the child go without.

I'd also suggest they to as JTF mentioned, and find out who helps military families.

Yea I should have said it would be very nice of you.

:)

Yes of course, that would be very nice of you :thumbsup

that would be something very nice of you to do. if you are financially capable of doing so, i would say its a must for a good friend

only if you get the poon

The money isnt a problem, just wanted to see what other people thought of the subject, AND NO I WILL NOT be sleeping with her, ive known her way to long.

thanks guys

I would help her, btw you know her for 16 years.

lol :1orglaugh

Buying her kids some toys is fine man. Hell I would invite them to the xmass dinner and all that crap too.

great idea I agree

I would do it just to ensure the kid had a good Christmas.

You could use the good carma . It makes up for us always keeping the sushi staff late for our midnight dinners.

Bro your a good guy - get the kids some toys - it may just guilt the dad into opening his eyes a bit

Why not? I see no other answere. Or is there an obstacle that i don't know?

WE NO OPEN CHRISTMASS DAY

It's relevant you consider your friends and a nice gesture man :thumbsup

Pete, you would make a really cute Santa! hehehe
Buy the kid some toys! Nothing over the top.
It's the thought that counts and I'm sure that both friend and child
will appreciate it.
Thats what friends are for, to help you out when your in need.
Remember, tis the season to be giving to the less fortunate.
:)

Hell yes I would. You have known Kelly for that long, I think it gives you the right..... I wouldn't go buying Kelly diamonds or anything, but for her kid, hell yes. Christmas is ALL about the kids.. so hell yes, go for it. Don't give it to them like some pity thing though, you have known Kelly long enough to "just do it to be doing it" sort of thing. I don't see anything wrong with that at all. :thumbsup In fact, I think it is very noble of you to think about her kid... :)

What I would do if it were me, buy her a bunch of small things she likes, Barbies, Artsy stuff, whatever she likes... kids LOVE opening lots of packages, I know mine do. My 8 yr old would rather have 30 small things than one big thing. And I agree, don't go over the top... just the smaller things. My daughter loves anything to do with Bratz, Barbies and things like that..... as most little girls do.

If he's in the military and not supporting his wife and kids, then she needs to go and talk to someone. The military is VERY strict about servicemen taking care of their families.

If you have known her for 16 years and are good friends...I would say yeah, be a good friend and help out...thats what friends are for

if its for the kids then yes, you should help out

Thanks everyone

for sure, its for the kids.

I would help her, but i would also tell him to smarten up to.

The children deserve a beautiful Christmas. :winkwink:

Why not you'd be a good man to help out a friends family! :thumbsup

I'd probably pretend that I can't decide for myself like I'm stupid or something, then make a thread about it on GFY to hype my image up a bit and get a couple of sig views in the process.

This thread is boring

Pete-Kringle
If you buy the kids gifts either give them to the mother or write Santa on them. No need to cock fight with the father

Good point. And don't fall for the "My 2 year old really wants a 64 inch widescreen TV" bit. My brother tries that every year :thumbsup

your hearts definitely in the right place pete, and right in tune with the christmas spirit. just make sure that your that those kids get their toys and the money doesn't go elsewhere.

and when "daddy" gets back from the marines you should give him i nice talking to, obviously he's got a screw loose if he's more worried about providing himself with material things and not toys for his own children on christmas.

Anything to brighten up a face of a kid :)

Go for it.Friends help each other out and that's what they do best.

Sign of not only a friend and a gentleman, but of a man.
Definitley do it, 'tis the season.

Christmas is for kids, so they should have some toys:)

Yes I would buy toys for them!