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Originally Posted by BlackCrayon
(Post 11437849)
you say you don't oppose porn or pornographers, you just say it isn't for you yet you speak at functions put on by those who are as they say 'loud and vocal opponents of porn'.
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I don't oppose pornographers. I advocate helping those who wish they could stop consuming it. This may blow your mind, but some people feel it has become a problem in their life and they would like help. I advocate taking away the fantasy behind porn for those who would like to experience reality.
Today I met a man who is close to losing his marriage and his job because he looks at porn all day. He says he wants to stop but keeps giving in to the allure.
I told MY reality today. There will soon be a video up (not sure if that will be a few days or a week or ?).
You may be surprised, but none of those involved with ********* advocate anti-porn legislation for LEGAL porn. Passing laws to tell people what to do does not result in a change of heart. Christians are just as attracted to porn as anyone else, probably more so. None of them WANT to be attracted to it, so people like ********* make it their "mission" to provide help. People have to WANT said help. It's not forced down anyone's throat.
The things I know about the porn industry strips away some of the fantasy. That's what I intend to do: deliver reality. Don't take that as an attack on anyone in the business, because it is not.
There were more than 500 people in attendence today, and I dogged on myself, not anyone else. I also defended the porn industry at one point. How so? Like this: after the event was over a group of men came up to ask questions. One of them started talking about how the porn industry targets consumers as early as age 9. I told him he was wrong about that. I explained that people under 18 do nothing for serious pornographers because, for one thing, they don't have credit cards.
He said, "Yeah, porn companies still want them because they can steal their parents' credit cards To which I responded with, "No, underage consumers are NOT wanted. If a kid steals his parents' credit card and signs up the parent will undoubtedly charge back. Charge backs are not very conducive to keeping on good terms with visa to process the transactions of the billions of other men in the word who are of proper age to consume."
The man eventually saw my point, and so did everyone else in the circle. I told them all that, despite what their churches tell them, legitimate pornographers do NOT target children and are NOT involved in child porn".
Once again, I have no intentions of trying to take away the rights of anyone and am in fact opposed to such things. But I have no problem telling the stories of my experiences in the business. I've been in it since 1997, so I've seen a lot of things that help those who want it.
