Sleeping with someone else in the bed...
 

I've been single for so long that I can't sleep with my new chick in the bed, even when i drug myself to sleep. I'm trying to just persist and hope I can adapt, anyone have any similar experiences? Will I adapt or never get sleep? :pimp

You'll adapt...

you will adapt without noticing that....

I have the same problem...just not too often, unfortunately. You will adapt eventually though.

That's because your chick has a dick.

:2 cents:

no long-term relationship for me for more than 10 years, I can't sleep with a girl in the same bed even if my life depended on it, not to mention that sometimes I snore so fucking loud that she'll wake up deaf

ya know, in the end you'll be the opposite, you'll not be able to sleep unless she's there (assuming it's a she). I'm like that now, I just can't sleep without my GF there. I know whatcha mean about the snoring thing though, I think my partner is must be catatonic from some drug just to get to sleep through my roaring like a chainsaw. Maybe they get used to it as well....

Do whatever works for you.

Sure you CAN adapt. You can adapt to almost anything. But if you don't want to, don't.

We have 2 beds side by side - hers fullsize, mine queen sized.. we learned early on that for us to be happiest, we shouldn't be in the same bed when trying to sleep.

Between moving, snoring, sheet stealing and all.. it's definitely easier to get deep sleep without another in the bed.

U'll get used to it... people tend to adjust themself automatically

I'm really curious to know if you're still banging hookers on the side or completely faithful?

And is she aware of your past rampages with hookers?

you will get used to it...
no way arround.

i know exactly what you are talking about - i prefer to have 2 bedrooms

Just kick her ass out of your room, or throw her out of the window. :)

i flail like crazy in my sleep. i don't understand it. i'll goto sleep in perfect position, and by morning my blanket is tossed, i've turned a complee 180degrees, hunched up ina corner, thrown my pillow across the room, and contorted my body into the strangest position you could imagine. i must be the most violent sleeper on earth. but you put me in bed with someone else and ill cuddle up and pass out into the most peaceful sleep ever. i knew a girl in highschool who would call me up every now and then just to come over and sleep with her. if i made even the slightest move it was shutdown city, i couldn't understand it at all. all she wanted to do was get stoned and cuddle, no kissing, no fondling, nothing. crazy chick...

I can't even sleep in the same room as somebody I am not 'in love' with. Otherwise I just doze but never get deep. Now, if I am in love and have that 'connection' thing going then I sleep great and it is hard to go without when it isn't there.

what size bed do you have??
get the "big" kingsize"!!! (i think it's called the california one)

I can't sleep in the same bed with someone. Drives me crazy. I realize I must be able to get used to it or I wouldn't have gotten any sleep for the 3 years I was with my ex-husband. But I don't sleep well AT ALL with someone else in the bed w/ me,

:1orglaugh :1orglaugh :1orglaugh

Get a bigger bed.

i have bought a second bed for me,when my current girl moved in :-)

sometimes yes sometimes no but when i move in with a girl ill definitely need my own little place to retreat too

It is need a time to adapt

It doesn't really matter as liong as she's a hot chick. :)

You will adapt my brother. Stay the course........

But in the meantime, drug yourself to sleep at night.

I am totally different..If I cant feel Deeprub in the bed with me.. at least his feet. legs or toes .. I can not go to sleep for anything.. when he went to phoenix for 3 days I was soooo sleep deprived lol :1orglaugh

i had that for awhile
i used to just bring my stuff down to the couch and slept there if some chick was over
but i got over it, just takes awhile

Make a habit of napping together after sex, and also try to have sex right before bedtime. In a few days you'll be all synched up.

2hp

ull certainly adapt

Nice..I'll tell the cops Reynold from GFY told me it would work :thumbsup

opposite here - I find it hard to sleep without a life size snuggly pillow man!

You can adapt, sure you can..:)

i would think you should be able to adapt. if not, go see a psychologist. :)

In a King Size bed you adapt wayyy easier ;-)

Its why people that have been together for a very long time eventually sleep in seperate beds, they finally say fuck putting up with someone hogging the bed, farting, snoring, etc.

im the same way. i cant sleep with anyone else in the room...its weird. im sure youll get used to it

got a whole 2.5 hrs sleep last night.. yay

yes dude i really agree with you! :thumbsup

get a bigger bed

although I gotta admit most girls love to rub their cold feet against you and that sucks

May be you picked the wrong chick?

maybe she's not the right one for you!

It's annoying in the beginning, but you will adapt for sure, it just takes some time...but you won't sleep as well as alone if you don't get a bigger bed long term. For some reason, girls never have a normal temperature in bed, either their hands and feet are really cold or they heat up like hell...so make sure to get a lighter bedspread if you don't want to get fried at night.

ask him to sleep on the couch!

Maybe you should have her sleep with a strap-on, that way you can trick your mind into thinking a ladyboy is near, and you will sleep like a baby. :thumbsup

Give it time.... you will get over it. I'm the same way.

I enjoy a bed to myself, but have got used to sleeping with somebody. Took time but now it is ok.

I like a bed to myself too. I don't care to adapt. Get two beds.