ok, she's BUTT UGKY - what would it take to make you LOVE her
 

Curious - ok, got a girl - she's BUTT UGLY - physically you can do WAY WAY BETTER


what would it take to make you interested in her - fall for her - head over tail

what kind of background does she have to have?
money?
experiences?
how she treats you?
How you feel with her?
How good she is in bed?

do tell - there HAS to be more than JUST looks out there in what turns a guy on

Money turns me on :)

well if she's THAT unattractive, I doubt id ever love her like that

wow - that's a statement on how shallow you are :2 cents:

Does she fuck hard and have brains?

If yes, then go for it.

edit, nevermind :1orglaugh

I read once that what makes us love someone is the way they make us feel about ourselves...

i dont think you can make it happen the notion of "falling head over heals" ... there has to be something "there" be it her personality or that "feeling" she gives you or some shit like that.

but that's my point - is there more than JUST physical appearance in attraction if you remove the physical to near zero

A good cook and a decent personality helps

physical attraction is a necessary thing to start off a relationship imho. If she is that hideous I seriously doubt I'd have any sort of physical attraction to her regardless of how nice/smart/wealthy she is

ha ha ha ha ha ha ha. :1orglaugh :1orglaugh :1orglaugh :1orglaugh

I like listening to people talk about "LOVE." It's better than a movie. :1orglaugh :1orglaugh :1orglaugh

How well she treated me, how we got along, and how intelligent she is.
I already know beauty fades fast and I do not want to be with some chick when I am old that is as dumb as a rock or I can not converse with.

Cause I know I sure in the hell aint good looking and for some odd reason all my girlfriends and my fiance have been on the hot side, yet aside from one psycho rag from hell all have been very intelligent and we got along well.

5 Heineken and a Joint...

Come here Muffin ;-)

If she is butt ugly there is just no chance for anything like that too happend. She doesnt have to be perfect but I got my standards.

Brains, delicious braaaiiins.

uh oh - we just bought both 20 mins ago... and we're here alone - cept for skufty

Well physical appearance is the first initail attraction but yes is the answer ...

If you are with this person and hang with her and shit like that then you can see below the physical appearance and the inner soul and shit like that...

the inner soul and shit like that make you look beyond the outer facade and thus you fall for her ...

So yes is the answer

spit or swallow. thats the Q

My Precious :upsidedow

How she treats me, and other people, a good listener. She has to be independant too. :)

What if she weighs close to 4bills?

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. What may be hideous to one is a treasure to someone else.

Absoultly friggin right who is to say what hiddeous really is iv'e been with a few girls i thought looked pretty good an my brothers shot her down than again some girls they say look good an i tell'em no fucking way So you really do need that attraction:thumbsup

I'll second that :)

you are talking about yourself? what a girl would need to be interested in you?

amazing web development skills...

I don't think it's really shallow. There has to be *some* physical attraction for things to work.

Lots and lots of cash would help though :)

What can you possibly demand to a woman in terms of looks mang??

relationships need to be built on more then just looks

how you treat each other...whatyou both want out of life.

howyou will take care of each otehr going through life....etc etc

dont expect much of an answere here though..in my experience most people here are screwed in the head over relationships....maybe too much porn

they all want britney spears look alikes who take it in the ass and love threesomes...while the clean the house and take care of the kids

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Well... there has to be *something* for me to gravitate towards in the first place... butt ugly might not do it but if it's I "could do WAY WAY BETTER" then maybe she's got "something" ?

Or do you mean like really butt ugly and you're just stuck working closely together every day... and somehow you start seeing through the butt ugliness, and seeing that she's got a sense of humour that makes me laugh, just a little dark... and she's read many of the same books as me... shares the same attitudes about things and peoples and philosophies... has the same quirky taste in movies... likes the same kind of art... has thought about her opinions before forming them... won't take shit from me even if I'm a supervisor type... makes a hell of a good supper... gives and takes what I like to take and give in bed... acts like a goof-off buddy when we're together... makes me think when she talks, shuts me up when I don't think before I do... introduces me to new or better ways of seeing the world, people around, and myself... is honest when my cooking sucks... makes me comfortable enough to talk about anything... trusts me... makes me unable to lie to her about anything... same taste in music... and on like that?

Is that what you mean? Could something like that happen?

This thread means nothing without a pic - how butt is ugly?

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I know it was already quoted, but it really needed to happen again.

Close your eyes and think of the time you spend, and you'll know the answer. It either IS or IS NOT how you'd like to see your own life unfolding.

Look at it that way, and it may be surprisingly easy to make a decision. Then come back here and play with the monkeys.

Show me the money ;)

She must be expert on all household chores then. :)

Grey goose, lots of it!
WG

If shes butt ugly i dont think its gonna happen, no matter how well she treats you. Why settle for less?

I just had a Hallmark moment :winkwink:

Seriously, that was beautiful!

without looks you don't have a relationship as much as a friendship...

I think what he means is that if the person you're with is unattractive to an extreme, you can still love their personality, although when it comes to physical contact, it makes things much more complicated and even if sex is not all of it, it is still a part of it. Therefore, if there is that part missing its not better then being with someone with no personality... Its a whole all together; it has to be balanced and that doesnt make ppl shallow. It is simply a question of balance. :2 cents:

It's not about money, good in bed or any of that.

It's how she treats me and the type of qualities that make her unique.

I have dated many women that you wouldn't look twice at, perhaps even call ugly, but they were special to me because we connected on different levels. Spiritually, Mentally, perhaps she worked at best buy and I wanted the new flip phone, or she could have had a dad that owned a subway and I could get free subs while in college :Oh crap Just Kidding, its all about how they treat you and what makes them special. :)

btw, I don't think Jman is ugly :winkwink:

I don't know about others, but I find that the way I think about people affects their attractiveness to me. It's much easier to overlook small physical "flaws" when you truly enjoy someone's company, be it as friends, or lovers. Nobody is perfect, those who expect perfection are ALWAYS disappointed, and that's most certainly no way to start a relationship. Such things are always doomed to fail.

It's amazing sometimes that you find the person that you wanted was there under your nose all along :)

this sounds like an ugly person is writing this....

my laundry, my house cleaning, frequent blowjobs, her daddy's big inhertance, and unlimited trips to thailand and leaving her at home.

nope....... remember, our species is here to survive plain and simple. Meaning food & sex. No deep meaning, we all look at the appearance before we make a move.

A half bottle of vodka every day and she will be beautiful to you.

agree with you, Brad...:thumbsup

as long as there is good chemistry between us, it won't matter if the girl is ugly. If you love someone, she will always be beautiful to you even if she is ugly to everybody else....