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Ok... That's Sad. You're saying "I'm bad in bed" using other words
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no, that's saying the obvious, having sex while drunk is not as good as having sex while your sober... how are you suppose to be at your prime when you can hardly stand up straight? shit even
YOU should be able to agree with this. sex just isn't as enjoyable for me when I'm half pissed. the only real point in going to a bar is to hook up, and people pay ridiculous amounts of money on overpriced alcohol in the process. i don't like dancing, i don't like overpaying for shotpoured drinks, and i don't particularly enjoy drunken sex. so whats the point in going and doing any of this?
hell, even the smoothest player in the bar strikes out every now & then, and i'm far from smooth. i figure when i'm actually trying, i pick up an avaerage of every 5th or so time i go out, at an average of 150 - 200 dollars on drinks in a night, and the quality of the pickup is never gaurenteed, as a matter of fact its usually not that great. i have no intention of ever seeing the girl i pick up again anyways, so i'd rather put the 200 bucks i'd spend on a trip to the club on a callgirl, save my body the alcohol abuse, have an hour of enjoyable sober sex with someone who is guarenteed to look good, who is a good fucking lay, and when i'm done my business, she fucks off afterwards! perfect! in the end i save myself a few hundred bucks, that alot of other people would have wasted away chasing stupidly after a natural urge. which they easily could have saved themselves by putting a little thought into things, and scrapping their unfounded morals. if all i wanted to do was go out and get drunk with friends, i'd buy a case of beer and have a bbq or something...
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Ok... You really have issues. I can only speak for my self (yeah, I'm a woman) I don't care about money (unless I make it my self) I've never ask for somaone who paid for my drinks if ou want to buy me some, then you are a gentleman but It doesn't mean anything else. If the only womans YOU met are scheming, manipulative, materialistic snakes then you're not looking right.
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You're right, I do have issues with women. As far as friendships go, i get along well with alot of girls. You probably won't believe me, but i actually do have several good female friends. That doesn't change the fact that I am
COLD AS ICE though when it comes to intimacy, and i don't have a problem admitting that. I just can't bring myself to open up emotionally to anyone anymore, i've been fucked over too many times and seen too many other people go through the same thing. I'd much rather drop a couple hundred dollars a month, and live happily knowing that i am
TRULY independant. I've detached myself from neediness, i have no use for a life partner at the moment. all i personally want out of a relationship is sex anyhow, so why lead some innocent (i use the word innocent loosely) girl on? i can get what i want, she doesn't get emotionally drawn in, and i don't have to worry about any backlash when i push her out the door. nobody or no thing holds me back...
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For you: Womanly is cooking and cleaning? You must be still living in the 50's Make sure you get the wood for the fireplace then...
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i'm not saying that i want a homemaking slave, i like cooking for myself, and cleaning up after myself is easy enough. however i see a distinct trend of 'peggy bundy' syndrome in alot of women these days. watch some married with children if you don't know what i'm talking about. if i am going to be pulled into a relationship where i am expected to give, i expect a little something in return. why should i be at all chivalrous, when all its going to get me in the end is the same nagging it gets every guy i know...
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That happends when the wife takes care of the house and kids (if they have some) then she CAN'T work.
"by women who did nothing for them" If the wife wouldn't have staid in home, the HE wouldn't have been able to biuld that empire.
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maybe I should move to argentina! I don't know how things work down in the southern hemisphere, but here in canada the woman in a relationship basically has to be a degenerate crackhead before the man is given any credibility in a breakup. when it comes down to the he said she said, the woman always gets the upper hand. the majority of women know this, and it is used to an unfair advantage pretty often. again i stay away from relationships for this reason. i can't believe how many innocent guys i've seen get their ass kicked because some flustered chickcried wolf. i'm not saying all women do this, i'm just saying it does happen, and on a fairly regular basis. i just don't ever want to be put into this situation...
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SURE 'cause they'll FAKE IT when you're bad.
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well isn't that the typical female attack on male sexuality. you're mad at me so you're going to try to break my spirits by telling me i'm bad in bed. i'm surpised you didn't tell me i have a tiny dick too! it's pretty laughable that this is what you resort to, when you know nothing about me. fortunately for me this sort of weak attack doesn't hurt my feelings any. i know i'm decent in bed, i know i don't have a small cock, so grow up. these are immature snaps made by someone who feels they have nothing else to resort to. i'm not going to stand here and say i am the world's all time greatest lay, but i know i can perform. my turning to the world of escorts is only something i have been into for the last year or so, after more shitty relationships and wasted hours than i ever cared to put in. i'm telling you this in total honesty, life has never been more free of worry...
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Good luck to you finding you significant other
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I think you missed the entire point.
I WANT NO SIGNIFICANT OTHER AT THIS POINT. Sure there are alot of people who go on to have loving, long lasting relationships, but for the most part (far more than the 50% that you think) those loving relationships turn into loathing forced acquaintences. The
LAST thing I want to do is be stuck in a loveless relationship with some bitch who I once thought was a perfect angel, because I had a kid with her or something. to be stuck under any expectation at all is too much for me...
I've lived a happily without attachment for some time now, and i don't particularly feel any need for it. Call me what you will for it, I am happier on my own. I don't want to be drawn into the headaches and hassles that a relationship inevitably bring into your life, and part of keeping that distance involves knowing that nothing is expcted of me. I know with a callgirl, nothing is expected except prompt payment. that i can handle, because money isn't an issue. people say "it's better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all" well i call bullshit on that. well i am alone, and i've never been happier...
this whole mentality may sound pretty fucking evil and demented to you, but believe me, its as much for the benefit of women as it is for me. The last girl i dated was a friend of my stepsisters's, she fell in love with me, but i didn't her. what i love is snow, and when snowboarding season rolled around and i broke it to her that was leaving her behind at school so i could fuck off riding and getting drunk with my buddies, she was devastated. she was genuinely hurt, which though i didn't share in her feelings of attachment, still hurt me too, knowing that i had the power to hurt someone the sameway i've been hurt before. i don't want to have to deal with that either...
maybe this is the cowards way out, i don't care. i'm not going to bother arguing it anymore beyond this point. arguing with a woman is like arguing with a brickwall, i am not going to win either way. i've stated my whole case, and i think its solid. so there you go, hate me if you will...