need to successfully send out my 40k opt-in list
 

I have a free-dating site that had 40,000 members, but it has been offline for a while. I am re-launching it and need a way to be able to send out an email to everybody, notifying them of the re-launch.

these are 100% opt-in and yes they signed up to my site. no bullshit, no scam! I just need the best way to get these emails through without being blocked.

hire one of the companies that does legal bulk mailings like: http://www.campaigner.com/

That'S the problem though, i don't wanna give my lists to just anybody

hale YESSSSS

true true but I doubt there is any other way unless you spend a lot on software and then have to risk the money to see if it works or not

minimum 6-month committment

I just need it for 1 month max maybe 2 if even

What's wrong with mail merge?

any feedback on it you can give me?

40,000 emails aint shit

that was nice

yea exactly. so I am looking for the right solution to get them out =)

40,000 members is enough of a head start for me to rebuild a nice user base from