The condom problem
 

One of my biggest fears is of STD's. I do NOT want to be getting any of those. People glorify the condom like it's THE answer, but to me it's just a slight improvement or actually in most cases for me, the contrary. I mean, sure I really respect its ability to prevent pregnancy (and STD's from intercourse), but I don't consider a real sexual encounter with someone to be one where I just stick it in and that's it. Maybe I'm crazy but I swear most people do have foreplay and all that good stuff which includes plenty of oral, but regardless if most people do, I DO... and a condom really serves me no purpose there accept to make my bj's less enjoyable and ensure that I don't give HER any STD's which I DON'T HAVE, and at the same time leave me venerable to get them from her which is exactly what I DON'T WANT. So I think, what... am I supposed to use a "dental damn" or whatever the hell they call it? Good grief that's absolutely ridiculous. Putting all this plastic and rubber between me and my partner... I may as well just get it on with a plastic doll or limit my sexual activities to mutual masturbation; both of which seem possibly more enjoyable that ruining the sex with all this bull shit.

Anyway, what do y'all think on the matter? Am I the only one that loves burying my face in my girls pussy and am I the only one that considers a worth while sexual encounter to include things like that? What the hell does every one else do? One of my good buddies is completely happy with gettin' all liquored up, finding a drunk super slut, strappin' on his jimmy and just stickin' it straight in, fuckin' then bouncin' outta there without even knowing her name. In fact, that's what he prefers to do, so condoms are perfect for him. I swear there's gotta be a lot of people like me who like to get all crazy with sex, so tell me... what do you do and what do you think about all this? I'll tell you my best solutions later, though they are probably somewhat obvious.

I don't lick snapper on the first night,I usually wait until the third date

too long to read,i hate them also but better with them:)

yeh, i mean i always wear 'em with random chicks, but what good is it at protecting against stds if you're just gonna get shit from lickin' the puntang.

use condoms....

i understand... my post is too long for anyone to actually read. and that's all good. i'm not arguing against using condoms and i do use them all the time, but i also like to lick the kitty and condoms do nothing for me in that department. i guess if a chick has an std and ur close enough to be licking it chances are u would figure out something is funky pretty quickly eh? hopefully not before actually lickin' it, blech! how likely is it to get an std from lickin' it anyway? seems like it would be pretty easy to get an std that way.

Don't lick the stubble..it might draw blood