So I had lunch with my old college boyfriend...question for you...`
 

He found me online, does mortgage brokering now. Is married with a baby, one on the way. Told him I was coming to visit Chicago. He asks me out to lunch.

So I meet him for lunch. Great time, great chat, etc. Really nice to see him again.

We part ways after lunch.

an hour later I get a text from him saying how awesome it was to see me again, I'm exactly how he remembers 'hot' and that we should get together again.

I told him if we went for cocktails instead of lunch then he would have remembered me exactly from before too... 'drunk' LOL. (after all it was college)

He apparently remembers alot of things so he says. hmmm

Wants to hook up for a drink when I come back downtown before I leave town.

So, is this appropriate to meet him again? I'm kinda thinking not now.

men!

Pie ? :helpme

make sure his wife doesn't find out..

ask him to bring his wife... you'd like to meet her, too. :-)

hey, that's my line!!:mad:

Ask him for a threesome with you and his wife.

Ditch the zero and get with a hero... yo

Word to your mother

iceicebaby :pimp

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:1orglaugh

Do that :) See if he would still do it.

ditto!:thumbsup

That has trouble written all over it.

:thumbsup :thumbsup

Wife? Kids?

I'd hate to be that one out-of-town fling that he confesses to his wife about 2 years from now.

you are a slut
you are a slut
hey guess what? YOU ARE A SLUT!

wtf are you thinking of even questioning that? stop trying to break homes apart, the guy is married and has kids.

yes lets just go get drunk and "not fuck", ya ok, few drinks in the both of you and he will be pounding your ass.

its only appropriate if you want a fling with a married guy....

Ugh he's a dog. I feel bad for his pregnant and probably unsuspecting wife. Don't help him do what you know he wants to do, which is be bad. LOL. Yo're better than that. :thumbsup

Its just not right.
The guy sounds like slime trying to relive his youth.
My wife has lunch or cocktails with any old flings and she better move in with him.
Just my take.

Now, Elli!
I never told my wife that I don't have, about the one out-of-town fling that you and I didn't have...
:-)

Fitz

Oh PLEASE!

I agree that it's playing with fire and should be avoided (for your own sake, lovely Lori!), but let's be fair here. HE is the committed one and the one that holds the responsibility to his wife and family. To accuse a woman of "breaking homes apart" is ridiculous. Are we to believe that this poor, hopeless guy is just going to get sucked into a fling? Or does it seem pretty clear what he is looking for? Afterall, it was his "you're still hot we should do it again sometime" text that started it.

I think he smells like a BAD FISH.

yeah, ask if the wife wants to come along









then bang her too

Loser alert, loser alert!! She hasn't even done anything, how is she a slut. Give the girl a chance fuck. Yea she knows deep down what the answer is but at least she's here trying to get some advice.

You suck! :1orglaugh

hhaha i love setting off females, IT IS SO FUCKING EASY! :1orglaugh :1orglaugh :1orglaugh

Just think of how it would make you feel if it were the other way around...there's your answer.

Fuck off! Lori is not a slut! She is one of the hardest working women in the biz! :mad: :321GFY

Where does it say she is trying to wreck homes? Jesus christ dude fucking chill out!:mad:

Ya meet up with him, let him get stoned drunk. Then make him think your going to have sex with him. Have a little fun with the guy.

fuggit. Just hook up. Dont worry about the wife. It doesnt always lead to bad things. You never know she could be a big bitch and the kid could be a mutant.

Anyhow if he's doing this, I'm sure it's not the first time he's done it and it will only catch up with him so I say go for it anyhow...

giggidy!

Lori,
If you have no qualms of your significant other meeting an 'old' fling, that he's obviously still 'smitten' by - while you're X months pregnant - then I say go for it. However, if you do go, I just want you to know YOU ARE PLAYING WITH FIRE. :) Do the right thing, ask him to take his wife or say you can't make it.

I'd say if he's sincere about meeting up for drinks and is just 'reminiscing' he won't have a problem bringing the wife who's caring for his child and carrying his second one - afterall, she needs some time away from the house too.

If it feels good DO IT:winkwink:

Just not right. You can get along with your ex but not to the extent of going to bed with him. He's married and has kid(s) already. I don't think its appropriate.

He wants you drunk so he can lift your trunk! If that's what you want, then go for it otherwise tell him to:321GFY

so would you be willing to do this in front of the camera and get paid for it?
what the hell?
might as well get paid for it!
this could be the start of a brilliant carrer.

Don't go there. If anything ever happend (affair) it would devistate his family. Affaris are deadly. Unless you have experienced an affair directly, you can never understand the pain that his wife will endure WHEN she finds out. Affairs are always exposed at some point. It will not matter to her if she finds out 10 years later, that info will still be fresh to her and her pain will not lessen because she found out at a later time.

Stay away from this sitch. You will end up getting hurt as well. It is a slippery slope.

I know how badly his wife would feel if anything happend. I had a long term girlfriend (12 years) that cheated on me. I recently left her. I have never felt, and probably never will again, so hurt and devistated. Again, unless it has happend to you, it is hard to understand.

just my 2cents.

seems it should of been pretty clear what he was after just by the fact that he was searching for you online.

little fling never hurts anybody :)

How woud you feel if the shoe was on the other foot:2 cents: :thumbsup

ROFL :1orglaugh :1orglaugh !

If you wanna fuck him, then fuck him. It?s natural? monogamy is so fucking retarded. Just make sure it?s what YOU want to do.

I'm not sure whether or not you are simply poking fun at this thread. If not, you couldn't be more wrong.

Personally, I lost my house (I left, she is still there). I lost what was to be my future family. Pushed to the brink of insanity (from her gaslighting). Some people contract STD's from their cheating partners (including HIV - which hurts and KILLS!, I was lucky and did not get anything from my cheating whore). My family was stressed out because of everything. I have lost friends (or they have lost me). It goes on and on.

So, if it does not hurt anybody you could try an experiment. Get into a lont term relationship or get married (make sure you are in love and have that 'squishy' feeling). With a little luck here your partner will cheat on you. Then you can come back here and tell us if you feel hurt by any of it.

mmmm K

what I was thinking...

If you really want to meet up with him, ask him to bring his wife along b/c you want to meet her too. If he says no, then you know what he wants from you.

Sweatheart...I love you but you are NOT that naive! LOL

You know very well that this guy is after a lil sumptin sumptin

DONT GO!

No.
Or Yes, but tell him you want to meet his wife, so invite her along as well.

Get over yourself. Only three percent of observed mammals are monogamous. Just three percent. The other ninety-seven percent fuck when they wanna fuck, no partner for life bullshit. Guess which percentage humans are in =)

"lets get together for a drink" lol :1orglaugh

He definitely wants a piece of you.

G

I agree with you 100% nicely said. If he is fishing for trouble then it is his own doing but yes i think you should either ask him to bring his wife or watch the # of drinks you have :)

Get over myself, huh? Because you know everything and have first hand experience in the matter.

Boy, if every person that has had to deal with an affair only had your statistical information they would feel a whole better about themselves. My life was turned upside down. People who go through this lose homes and families are broken up. Tell the kids that have to be a part of this that statistic.

congratulations, you have no clue. :thumbsup

if it was your hubby...would you want him there?


:)

Homewrecking is awesome! Especially when he's got a wife and a kid on the way...

:mad:

bullshit dickhead - :321GFY