| chase |
07-10-2006 10:36 PM |
Generally BBWs don't "approve" of feederism. They don't want to be told they need to lose to be sexual creatures and they don't want to be told they have to gain either. I suppose I should say We, lol. The general consensus on feederism is that it's an abuse of power, and that it's unhealthy to gain a lot of weight for a fetish. There are exceptions, of course, but nearly every discussion among my BBW peers that I have observed or participated in goes along those lines.
Using food on your tours and as graphics really annoys the BBW community. We're just fat, okay. We don't hoarde burgers and eat twenty at a sitting. We don't get horny at the thought of a donut. We probably eat the same as you, in fact I know I actually eat less as a general rule, then my 165 lb, 6' ex-husband, lol.
Talking "down" to the girls is not going to get you true Fat Admirers-you know, the ones that stay members..they will be pissed off at you for making fun of the women they love, and will run far far away...you have to figure, they are already made to feel like freaks for wanting fat girls as much as fat girls are disdained by society, so the last thing they want is more of that from a porn site. Signups you do get with those "piggy" "nasty" etc tactics are more likely freakshow seekers who will not rebill.
There are a smaller ratio of fat girls who feel comfortable enough to pose, so I believe the content pool is a lot smaller. Due to this, there is a lot of overused content circulating. Finding a good, unique content source can make ALL the difference in the world.
People tend to think the lines between plumper, chubby, BBW, and SSBBW are a lot blurrier then they really are. Many many guys like a chubby girl with some meat on her bones. But those same guys may be repulsed at the thought of a SSBBW or even a BBW my own size. By the same token, a guy who gets off on a very very very large woman will find a girl like me too small, so you can imagine what he thinks of your barely chubby model who just has a bit of a chub roll on her belly-but only when she's sitting, lol. The markets blend a LITTLE, but not nearly as much as I see webmasters blending them.
And, my biggest pet peeve, is seeing busty women called BBW. Busty is Busty, BBW is fat. A slim woman with big tits is not a BBW. I see it all the time, expecially on camsite categories..in fact, I see petite women in there trying to place a listing in every single category, but that's another rant, haha. Most fat girls have big tits, it's true, and most BBW fans like big tits. But you don't have to have big tits to be a BBW, (like myself), and not all big tit fans like BBW either. They do exist separately, though they often compliment each other. Oh, and generally it's NATURAL big tits that BBW fans like, not fakies. They abhor fake, plastic porn.
That ought to get you a basic handle on the situation.:thumbsup
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