Is there a shared host that will let me have a control panel?
 

so I can add domains and emails whenever I want?
Shared at firs tto try it out and then when I grow more move it all to my own server?

I actually have my own server with a host, but I dont have a control panel so whenever I buy domains I have to email it to them and wait for them to put it up, and its a pain to configure emails with them too.
I pay .35 cents a gig with them too.

have you checked out dreamhost?

I havent checked out anyone yet

Though are plans are managed - our servers do come with a simple proprietary control panel that provides for domain / email / database management if you desire to do these things yourself.

This may be a little more than what you are looking for at the present time, but our Ultra-lite dedicated server (hit me up for specs) is $49.00 / Month. I'll waive the setup fee.

http://desirespace.com provides control panels with shared and dedicated hosting