what to do when your girlfriend says she forgot the safeword?
 

ok, you have a GF and you have a safeword.

she loves fake rape scenarios.

you have a safeword.

then she tells you she forgot the safeword.

do you proceed if she says no?

thoughts

discuss

keep giving her the hot stick!

you're pretty big into the safewords lately eh sleazy?

i bet her safeword is CHEESEBURGER .. that outta get you off her

Huh... OK......

There's going to be a point to this somewhere....

:1orglaugh

I don't like to hurt ANYONE, ESP a woman and ESP a woman that I'm into - not my nature - but i DO love makeing someone happy and will do what it takes to achevive that

damn - women seem to love this fake rape/choking/bondage extreme shit - and not the freaks you would think would love it - EVERYDAY normal looking women that are scared at first when I talk about it but then come back 2-3 days later and sheepishly ask if they can try it cause they can't get the idea out of their head

every one I've ever played it with goes NUTS over it and can't stop talking about how much they enjoyed it

What did you make the safeword?

It should be something she won't forget, like her middle name.

Stop is not a good one, because stop doesn't always mean stop.

If you've got her gagged, give her something to signal with.

lol - i got this picture in my head of someone GAGGED trying to say the safeword and the person standing over going - I can't hear you

tell her what the safeword is, then if she says it stop.

Put that way, it wouldn't necessarily be a bad thing. :winkwink:

You can always use a small squisy ball or something like that. If she drops it then it's stop time. Unless you've gone and mounted her on a cross or something, then you've a conundrum on your hands. :)

-N

Dammit Sleazy.. You got some magnetism there man! :winkwink:

I can imagine the reaction if I proposed this - she'd come back three days later and stick a gun up my ass and ask "Are you a fucking sadistic pervert or what??" :1orglaugh

I'll just blame you Sleazy :pimp I like a quiet life...

knock the bitch out with a good punch. then you dont have to worry about any safe words!

haha, that's just wrong.

right on brother.

Assume she is teasing you and continue to ass-fuck her while pulling her hair, whipping her ass, spitting on her back, talking about her mother, and calling her by your ex's name .....

Won't happen again ...

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you know - the first girl i suggested it to I expected her to freak out - she LOVED the idea. I found it was more my fear than theirs about it.

every one I'd tried it with since has gone nuts over the exreeme shit.

some of it still freaks me out - i don't like to hurt people - but when you see just how MUCH most women enjoy this stuff you'll understand

You would be surprised how many women like to get choked and violently fucked. Not just rough fucked, but violently fucked.

The number is greater than 50%.

WAY higher than 50% by my experimenting.

sooo many LOVE to get choked

don't know if it's over 50%, but it's definitely there. never used a safeword before in my life though.

i was very timid about the idea at first - and slowly got into it. but to be honest - i suggest you try it.

it really lets you explore your darker side knowing the other person has the power to turn it off anytime they want

Use the tap to signify stopping.

You see it in porn.

3 months ago i would have said there is no way you have a gf you ex fat bastard... but kow that you are lean and sexy... i say you just punch her in the face and move on....

Lololol that's a wide imagination you have there... "a girlfriend"... lololol!

dude - sooo many HOT women LOVE big guys it's crazy. I did better at 100lbs heaver than now.


the most common thing i would hear is that they loved to feel TINY with a guy

i didn't understand it but I took advantage of it

I used to think it was less before too Quiet, but in the last 5 years I see I was wrong. There's something about the total and complete loss of control that choking a woman during sex gives them. They like to be dominated, completely. At least some of the time. And sometimes they like the sweet sensitive sex. But the thing is, they make a booty call to the guy that can deliver whichever mood they are in.

Someone needs to bump this one in the daytime. I'd love to see more female input.

perfect advice :thumbsup

SacX hit the nail on the coffin.

reality is - guy or girl - if your partner can't cut the mustard - eventually you go somewhere else

turn up the volume on the tv....

So true. I suggest anyone still holding to the sweet sensitive sex side needs to find his inner thug.

http://www.ericreiche.net/gallery/Fu...just_do_me.jpg

Just Do it :)

If someone choked me during sex there would be no need for a safeword. His swollen balls would be clue enough that I wasn't interested :)

But seriously, if she's at the point where she can't remember a word.......I think it's time to stop.

Fuck her harder for not paying attention when you told her the safe word.

When does she tell you that she forgot the safeword? Before you start getting it on, or during? Either way, tell her the safeword. And NO, you don't proceed.

I've never tried anything like that nor had the desire to try anything like that.

Next time you have to make it a word that Jman will not easily forget somthing like tattoo maybe lol........... j/k


seriously though man I have heard quite a few women tell me the same thing. I had one chick tell me that she would love it if some hot guy jumped her ripped all her clothes off and raped her in the alley. A little extreme if you ask me.

Yes, we get the point... you get laid.
Everytime I come to GFY it's another sex thread.

Thread is badly lacking in pics.


http://www.fetishopolis.com/kap-images/skkap192.jpg

We usually use a head nod rather than a safeword - since we use all types of different gags in shoots.


http://www.fetishopolis.com/kap-images/skkap193.jpg

funny situation :1orglaugh

Sure THis is GFY!
People here complain when they see a religios thread and complain that it is about sex.

hummmmmm, i think that means proceed with caution...


Mr. Romance

i dont get too kinky

we dont have safewords

find out which of her friends knows the safe word and invite her over??

i don't fucking know.

oh man. i'm VERY curious to find out exactly what you do in your rape scenarios/rough sex.
do tell!
:)

Let me guess.. Your safeword is :

"Ok, I'll remove the batteries".

Back on topic, I say use judgment. If right there, just finnish. If you think she is about to pass out, pause for a second, tell her the safe word, make she doesn't want to stop, then your good to go!

be for real, there isnt a safeword, your really raping her.