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u-Bob 06-06-2006 03:50 AM

Should gay couples be allowed to adopt children?
 
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streetux 06-06-2006 03:53 AM

my vote "NO"

Barefootsies 06-06-2006 03:53 AM

Yes.

:2 cents:

heidi hunni 06-06-2006 03:55 AM

why the fuck not? there are just as capable as a straight couple to bring up kids my friends as lesbiens and one of them has a 6 year old daughter and she loves having two mums! plus she makes her own mind up about life by jokingly saying a boy in her class is her 'boyfriend' saying that they should have the same sort of checks as a straight couple though to see if they are suitable parents.

BusterBunny 06-06-2006 03:56 AM

if my dog can get a credit card in the mail why the hell not....

headless ghost 06-06-2006 03:59 AM

why not?
I just saw a story on TV where a straight couple wanted to sell their kids in Mexico.

E$_manager 06-06-2006 04:15 AM

i think yes. Because there are many children without family, so why someone do not adopt them? No matter whether it is normal couple is gay. The main point is that a couple should be good.

E$_manager 06-06-2006 04:21 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by streetux
my vote "NO"


you are in minority. Explain why!

en21 06-06-2006 04:25 AM

yeah baby.... why not

Gentle_Ben 06-06-2006 04:31 AM

For sure! And Bush's recent tirade on gay marriages is ridiculous. He's such an idiot. I think its most likely a tactical ploy to take attention away from other things while election time draws nearer.

CaptainWolfy 06-06-2006 04:31 AM

yes, why not..

Senka 06-06-2006 04:31 AM

Do not forget, all that we count - by the normal means of life - the kept balance views of society. Life progresses, and necessary to know how not to be afraid of and to reexamine its views Gay and lesbians they were always and they will always be.But children in their families will feel themselves by valuable children, only in that it occurs, if society ceases to receive homosexuals as waning people.

E$_manager 06-06-2006 04:33 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by headless ghost
why not?
I just saw a story on TV where a straight couple wanted to sell their kids in Mexico.


:disgust

Sammy4u 06-06-2006 05:18 AM

Of course they should be able to.

thricer 06-06-2006 05:19 AM

I just voted

minusonebit 06-06-2006 05:26 AM

Yes. Most of them would make BETTER parents than the straight parents we see now.

AtlantisCash 06-06-2006 05:34 AM

i say no, fuck gays; stupit none people.

Manowar 06-06-2006 05:35 AM

sure, why not

Manowar 06-06-2006 05:40 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by AtlantisCash
i say no, fuck gays; stupit none people.

:1orglaugh :1orglaugh you are funny

AtlantisCash 06-06-2006 05:50 AM

thanks :P

Lycanthrope 06-06-2006 05:50 AM

No, but my reasoning has nothing to do with religion or "morality".

While I agree that a gay couple can be just as good (or as bad) parents as straight folks, subjecting a child to the teasing, harassment and hate that he/she will no doubt recieve in school and elsewhere is simply unfair to the child.

Joe Citizen 06-06-2006 05:55 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Lycanthrope
No, but my reasoning has nothing to do with religion or "morality".

While I agree that a gay couple can be just as good (or as bad) parents as straight folks, subjecting a child to the teasing, harassment and hate that he/she will no doubt recieve in school and elsewhere is simply unfair to the child.

Perhaps we should ban interracial marriage on the same grounds?

nancycash(dot)com 06-06-2006 05:57 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Cristie
i think yes. Because there are many children without family, so why someone do not adopt them? No matter whether it is normal couple is gay. The main point is that a couple should be good.

I totally agree with this comment.

mOrrI 06-06-2006 05:59 AM

I've voted also :D

Lycanthrope 06-06-2006 06:13 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Joe Citizen
Perhaps we should ban interracial marriage on the same grounds?

I know you like stirring shit for the sake of stirring shit, but please tell me how interracial marriage equates to child adoption by same sex couples.

J. Falcon 06-06-2006 06:22 AM

Has anyone seen Six Feet Underon HBO where the gay couples raises 2 orphan brothers? Really good show.

DutchTeenCash 06-06-2006 06:23 AM

Were gonna have this gay parents get gay children issue again right?

fyi: I think thats bs

Joe Citizen 06-06-2006 06:25 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Lycanthrope
I know you like stirring shit for the sake of stirring shit, but please tell me how interracial marriage equates to child adoption by same sex couples.

Well the children of interracial couples would also be subject to teasing and harrassment by other children.

As you've stated, children getting teased is reason enough to deny people civil liberties.

Maybe we should make it illegal for handicapped couples to marry? More teasing.

pussyluver 06-06-2006 06:30 AM

Time to move on past the hate and other bullshit the kids might be subjected too. Enough gay couples do this and it will become acceptable. Just like every other adoption the child should not be sent to a home where drugs or violence are a problem.

Gays should be miserable like the rest of us and get married. Then they can enjoy divorce court too and pay support. Why stop there add kids and child support. Who knows maybe 1 or 2% of them will find true happiness.

Lycanthrope 06-06-2006 07:01 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Joe Citizen
Well the children of interracial couples would also be subject to teasing and harrassment by other children.

Then you should have said "interracial couples having childen" not "interracial marriage". Marriage does not equal having children. Since my daughter is 1/2 Asian, I'm pretty sure I'm not against it. I am, however, not in favor of a same race couple adopting a child of a different race. Whether you like it and / or want to believe it or not, there are cultural difference between races and a child deserves to know his culture.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Joe Citizen
As you've stated, children getting teased is reason enough to deny people civil liberties.

If that is what my answer meant to you, then by all means think it. Yes, adults may do as they please, but children need to be protected. So yes, I am of the belief that the welfare of a child should be placed before an adult's desires and his or her liberties.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Joe Citizen
Maybe we should make it illegal for handicapped couples to marry? More teasing.

Again, I don't believe I've ever said "disallow this or that type of marriage", but as my other child is disabled and I know what his limitations and abilities are, yes, I would be totally against people with his level of disability having children or adopting.

Sinstar 06-06-2006 07:07 AM

Gay couples can't raise kids worse than my parents... or half of your parents. Or am I wrong? Either have qualifications for everyone, or no one. No reason to discriminate. I don't see how being gay can make you any worse a parent than anyone else.

Pleasurepays 06-06-2006 07:24 AM

another issue where just believing in something simple like the notion that a child needs a father and a mother means your a bigot, a nazi, a homophobe and god only knows what else.

Amysworld 06-06-2006 07:47 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by headless ghost
why not?
I just saw a story on TV where a straight couple wanted to sell their kids in Mexico.

They DID sell one. It was sad :(

ed146 06-06-2006 07:48 AM

As I child, I would not want to walk in on one dad behind another dad. I would be traumatized for life.

NO F WAY :mad: :mad:

Holly Lez! 06-06-2006 07:49 AM

Should straight people be allowed to post? NAH lol... Seriously is it me or is this board more obsessed with gay issues then me who is gay???

Love Sex 06-06-2006 08:01 AM

100% no for men 50% for women - because young children dont and wont ever comprehend why the same sex couple is together until they are old enough. By that time they are old enough they are either tramatized to an extent or accept the facts.



not knocking anyone or saying it is a bad thing just my opinion.

BoyAlley 06-06-2006 08:20 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by streetux
my vote "NO"

I vote you're a bigot....

BoyAlley 06-06-2006 08:21 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Love Sex
100% no for men 50% for women - because young children dont and wont ever comprehend why the same sex couple is together until they are old enough. By that time they are old enough they are either tramatized to an extent or accept the facts.

Yes, it's much better for them to be raised in orphanages, or thrown from foster home to foster home to foster home.

That's WAY healthier for them.

Idiot.

BoyAlley 06-06-2006 08:22 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Nakedsword Holly
Should straight people be allowed to post? NAH lol... Seriously is it me or is this board more obsessed with gay issues then me who is gay???

Half of them are a bunch of closet cases Holly.......

BoyAlley 06-06-2006 08:25 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Lycanthrope
No, but my reasoning has nothing to do with religion or "morality".

While I agree that a gay couple can be just as good (or as bad) parents as straight folks, subjecting a child to the teasing, harassment and hate that he/she will no doubt recieve in school and elsewhere is simply unfair to the child.


YES, it is MUCH better for the child to subject them to life in an orphanage, or a life of never having a real "home" or "family" because they're being rotated through foster homes.

That's WAY better than having the kid get teased at school because his/her parents are gay. Kids in school will NEVER pick on the kid for being a foster child or living in a state care facility.

ALL kids get picked on for ALL sorts of reasons.

G-Rotica 06-06-2006 08:25 AM

Why not? They can't do any worse than my alcoholic father that beat my mother in front of me on a regular basis.

BoyAlley 06-06-2006 08:28 AM

Let's not forget, statistically speaking, most gay couples that have foster children, or adopt in states where it is allowed, adopt black babies, many of which have special needs.

WHY? Cuz the "good wholesome heterosexual white folk" that choose to adopt don't want anything to do with a handicap n1gger baby. You want nice, healthy, white babies.

Gays are used to being a minority, and those that seek to adopt in this political climate, do it to provide care and love for a child that nobody seems to want.

pocketkangaroo 06-06-2006 08:32 AM

I'm kind of torn on the issue. On one side, I don't know if society is ready for it. As others have mentioned, they will go through a tougher time growing up because of the ridicule. You are also dealing with two men or two women and the child may not get the full upbringing that a man and woman can provide.

On the other hand, it is time for society to accept these situations. Perhaps this would be one step closer. The reason it is taboo and ridiculed is because we let it be. The thought of a woman running a major company 40 years ago was laughable, but now it isn't even a big deal. Heck, African Americans hold some of the highest offices of power in the country when they couldn't drink from the same fountain 60 years ago. So maybe this is a step to open society up more.

BoyAlley 06-06-2006 08:33 AM

A GREAT documentary for those of you who wish to know what gay adoption really looks like:

www.WeAreDad.com

Sarah_Jayne 06-06-2006 08:46 AM

Heck, I am fat and would get turned down in the UK because of that. My father, his brother and his grandfather were all adopted and I have a lot of respect for the process. It is much more important that good parents are found regardless of their sexuality. It is also equally important that older kids are adopted at a higher rate.

GTS Mark 06-06-2006 08:52 AM

There are alot of capable and caring gay couples out there.

Go watch the movie "The Birdcage" with Robin Williams ya homophobic bastards ;)

DH

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Love Sex 06-06-2006 09:01 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BoyAlley
Yes, it's much better for them to be raised in orphanages, or thrown from foster home to foster home to foster home.

That's WAY healthier for them.

Idiot.

seems your afraid of some others aspects on the issue. you should reread my post. FYI i state this because several people i know have been raised like this.

Fabien 06-06-2006 09:05 AM

What do you think the kid will do when older hehehehehehehehehehehe


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