personal problem!
 

right, im a bit drunk... this guy has been cheatin on his his girlfriend (my friend) for months, not with the same girl. With practically any girl, even rough as fuck, ones. Tonight i confront the fucker, he nuts me, pretty much breaks my nose, i go over to the cops standing about 20 metres away and report it, with blood pourin out of me. They cuff him, but then i think, i dont really want her to find out about him being a scumbag this way (theyve been together for like 4 years), so i retract my statement and then we both get taken to our houses seperately.

Pick your choice of what i should do, bear in mind i have witnesses to him cheating.,.......

A) Tell his bird, she thinks its love! i think

B) Try and keep it quiet, if he tries to talk to me, take him aside and tell him to fuck right off

C) wait and kick up a fuss in public, this is worse for the girl, but also worse for him!!! i dont want to hurt her reallybad tho


so anyway, what the fuck should i do, i have tissue in my nose, it might be broken, ill get it checked n the morning

Evan

You should fuck his gf. Make her feel better.

it's none of your business :2 cents:

Should have let the charges stand and the chips fall where they may. Other than that, stay out of his fucking biz.

your going to break the guys laws, we never tell on each other.. come on now. admit it.. you want to bone her.

well i see it as my business because i dont like my friends being made fools of. Everyone knows he cheats on her, except for her. She is being made to look an idiot, she has blind faith in him, shes probably the cleverest persopn ive ever met, but not when it comes to boys

errrrrrrrr nope

im not a Neanderthal

Ev

hey, not the first time I see a chick like her... real sorry but I'd just let it go and see a dr.

GAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAH i cant tell her, ill get him back one way or another, mines a slow game, maybe buy him a pint and put cyanide in it, or summin along those lines

im still bleeedin for fuck sake, if hes broke my nose i will not be happy

I would have charged him..fuck that shit..his girl will find out sooner or later

why didnt you beat the hell out of him when he hit you?

dunno really, bit shocked, im not a violent person

never been hit in the face before

Ev

You should tell her! She should know so she can decide to stay with him or not. No one can make a proper decision if she doesn't know all the facts.

Especially if she's your friend then you owe it to her to tell her. How would you like it if he fucked someone without a condom and gave her an std or even worse AIDS.

TELL HER NOW!!!!

Don't be a neanderthal and believe in this "we don't tell on our fellow men bullshit". Do what's right!

There's nothing worse than living in a lie. If you don't tell her she's basically living in a lie. It hurts to tell her, and it will hurt her, but its better in the long run.

....I don't think you should do anything!! But if I was in your place I'll brake his fuckin dick off for braking my nose!
And about the girl.. I don't do anything! It's her biz BUT if you want to show her that you care or something like that.. I don't recommend to do it cause girls forget so fast!! specially when you stand in their way when they THINK they are right!!

Advise: Between you and me! If you like this girl.. I don't think it's a good idea to tell her about her bf or even talk to someone about it!!


The best thing to do is to advise her that her bf is not good for her (I know girls don't like advises) and if she asked why.. tell her that you don't know.. and stuff like that!! CHANGE THE SUBJECT!!!
So when she know about him!! she will know that YOU told her.. I think it's the PROPER way.. :winkwink:
(if you want to tell her you might lose her and if you don't she will complain about it later -trust me-) -better way is to show that you don't know anything-

Good Luck :pimp

so basically you picked the shitty guy over your friend... nice friend you must be. :2 cents:

is it my place to tell her though? TBH so many people know. BTW she isnt a good friend, its just she is sooooooo naive about it.

Evan

Tell the thruth now .. you want the dudes GF .. thats why you do not wanna lok like the bad guy .. right.

Just tell the chick the whole story ... better hse get hurt now then later .. you should have stayed out of this one man.

fuck that, tell the girl what happened.

As she's not a good friend: it's not your business.

But, it's also not your business to lie for him. So, if she asks what happend to your funny looking nose..

You retract your statement? Jeez... And have them deal with it. Control your own life. And when you care about this girl, tell her. If not, shut up, and leave the guy alone

Its your mistake.. It will be your fault you didn't told her sooner.. You even let the bastard broke your nose.. Sorry but.. I would tell her right now and kick his ass, not for her but for my broken nose :)

this is a delicated situation, i'm not going to get into it.

Here is what i would have done.

The guy is an asshole and the girl is a good friend. You should have had your priorities straight and told her straight up what was going on, bring someone she trusted along and have them back up what you're saying.

Then it is up to her to make her own choice whether she will believe the two of you or not.

As for the guy,i would have let the charges stick. fuck him, you owe him nothing, especially after he knocked you in the nose and fucked a good friend over.

absolutely!

I think that it's not your business. Support and help your friend if she will ask you for help, that's all.