More chick advice for you fellas from Chase...
 

You know how girls say it's the little things, but when you do what YOU consider "the little things" you don't get the reaction you were hoping for?

Here's an example of what we mean...

Last night my ex-husband came over and we were sitting outside together, and when we hugged goodbye, he held me a really long time, and he whispered "Your hair smells really good." Yeah, simple, little thing. But it totally melted me. I felt so beautiful with that one simple little sentence.

Did he bang you after that?

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Only on GFY... :1orglaugh :Oh crap

Well, our situation is a little different than your typical bf/gf or married couple. If I wasn't crammed into my mom's house with 9 other people, he would have, lol.

I would have with even being crammed in your moms house with 9 other people.


Does that make you melt?

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Thanks for that. Will pull one of those next time i hug my woman.

Im definitly going to try the hair smells nice line :):thumbsup

thanks for sharing :) subtle things like that can go a long way

You can do all the little things in the world, but if you do them on a regular basis women don't appreciate them and then need more to make them happy. Its been my experience to treat them poorly and once in a while do something sweet for them. The relationship will be better and last longer that way.

it took 3 minutes........

In a sad way, you are 100% right. The guys who go out of there way everyday to do great things are the ones that get burned. Girls take it for granted and leave. It's when you don't do the little stuff at all and come out and do it occasionally when they stay. You give them a feeling like they are changing you.

Being a nice guy and doing sweet little things gets you nowhere with women.

...interesting thread!! you got a good husband then.. he knows how to melt girls.. :winkwink: you better open your eyes.. :pimp

She didn't mention he was really dry humping her(pretending to hug passionately) and came in his pants :1orglaugh its the little things a Guy needs

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If you think it won't help, maybe you are dating the wrong kind of woman.

Not that I know if it applies to the two of you, but I am wondering if it is the same guys who set extremely high physical standards are the ones who get treated like shit when they are "nice guys". The average looking girl next door is much less likely to be a bitch then that stunner. Of course there are exceptions, like Elli, Sunny, Vanilla, etc. But in everyday world, girls who get constant feedback don't "have" to be nice to get attention and keep it. It's the average looking chicks who rely on personality to carry them through.

I do know there is a kernal of truth in what you are saying. I've been guilty of it in the past..letting a super sweet guy go for some loser. That's youth, inexperience, and lack of wisdom. Date older women and you won't find that so much, either.

See, it depends on the kinds of girls you are dating. Now, that's not to say you should be dating women you aren't attracted to. But chances are good you will have to kiss more frogs to find your princess if you are hooked on young, drop-dead gorgeous girls.

Now, I don't know if you are familiar with my history with my ex, but we have really been through some shit..drug abuse, money problems, trust issues, parenting issues, you name it. But the fact that he shows me he loves me so much in simple ways like what I related in my OP, keeps me from just moving on with my life. And thank God for that, because he's resolved the vast majority of his issues, and I'm working on my own baggage that had a hand in the demise of our marriage, and it would by far be the best thing for our children for us to get back together. I am old enough now to know how lucky I am to have someone who thinks I am as wonderful as he does.

WARNING ....MEN ... do not deviate from above wording.

Just hugged my g/f and told her that her pussy smelled good ... she smacked me! WTF?

ahahaha that rocks

i told my GF her fart smelled good.. she slapped me too!

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I bet u gave it up real quick after he said that.

Lol..I would get smacked as well