Majority of women need kids?
 

Im a guy and as of now 23 I really cant see myself having kids, have never had a desire but all the girls ive dated have had atleast some desire and I want to know is it impossible to find a good girl that doesnt want one

i want kids - as i get older (33 now) i find i want them more and more - not lots - one or two - but i want them. I could even raise someone else's if the girl loved me and they were young enough - but the more I think about it - the more I want them.

Maybe because they want someone to take care of.

we just had our second last month...

kids rule*








*except when they're crying, shitting, or eating,

in the near future, i want to have a family of my own and raise good kids. but for now, i have to work hard and prepare for the future.

And there's no better way to secure your future and realize your life's dreams, than posting on an internet porn message board for a nickel a pop. Congrats.

Give it some time and you'll want some.

I can't see myself having kids for now, maybe two to four years from now.

like they say, you can't imagine life with kids, but when you do have them, you can't imagine a life without them

Babies rule. They also drool.

I would never want kids, first of all because I don't want to give birth and go through the pain of giving birth. I am nearing 30 and I still don't want them at all, to be honest I don't even like playing with other people's kids. I just don't really like kids. And giving birth is no picnic, not all women want to go through that. I know that definitely don't want to, whether you give birth or get a c-section, it's not a picnic and I don't like enduring any type of pain.

Plus I don't want to dedicate my life to someone else. I want to be free and happy and enjoy my life without being obligated to anything. I want to be able to live freely and travel or leave the country whenever I feel like, and it's hard to do that when you have to take care of kids, you can't be spontaneous and just go for a few weeks to another country.

My boyfriend actually wants kids one day but I don't wany any at all. I was never motherly and never thought kids were "cute" the way a lot of people just "oooh" and "aaaah" over kids, I always felt nothing when looking at kids.

I don't want a baby right now either! dont know if I ever will...

that's true

Fair enough, though kids add to your life as well....a lot and for me that's worth more than 100% freedom and a trip all over the world. But again, I totally understand your post

my GF doesnt want them . . but i'm feeling a bit paternal now :(

I want to have my own children too but not now.

i like kids and i am not afraid of that pain...but i am too young to think about them...when i will be 30 i will think about having one...

Yes, but men don't have to give birth. I would like to see a man in hours and hours of agony and pain pushing a baby out. that's something I would like to see. It's easy for men to want kids, all they have to do is have sex which is not very hard. They don't do any of the hard work, such as pushing it out.

I am afraid of needles and just thinking about an epidural (huge needle sticked up your SPINE) during childbirth already scares the bejeesus out of me.

The majority of women (and men) shouldn't have kids :disgust I think there should be extensive testing and laws for procreation. Regardless of a person's "natural instincts" to parent, some, if not most people are not fit to be parents. :1orglaugh

Thank you for acknowledging that you should never ever bring a child into this world! :thumbsup

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Children are great; you can teach them to hate what you hate.

id love to have a child before im 25

I really like babies and if i ever have one that will be great. But it isn't something that i need in order to make my life complete,as most women do, at least at the moment.

Maybe because they think that kids could complete or fulfill their existence as women.

My life is incomplete without my son. You'll change your mind in time and want at least one.

I am 25 now, and i don't want to have kids at the moment.
But my husbent want one :)
I want to wait....maybe i just realy afraid from the pain.

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