mysql question: how to grant remote access..
 

i tried a
GRANT ALL PRIVILEGES ON *.* TO '%'@'%' IDENTIFIED BY 'passwd';
with a flush

and ive tried it with setting a username and host address..

All access denied when i connect remote..

Is there some config file i have to change?

ports are open because mysql responds with a "access denied"..

GRANT ALL PRIVILEGES TO JUICY ON *.* TO '%'@'%' IDENTIFIED BY MEOW 'passwd';
with a flush of the colon. MEOWWWW WOOFF MYSQL

That should work

hahahahaha.. man that shit is build in by default!

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GRANT ALL PRIVILEGES ON *.* TO '%'@'%' IDENTIFIED BY 'some_pass' WITH GRANT OPTION;

You don't need to flush privileges if you use grant, flush you only need if you
use insert or update to edit permissions.