Is it possible?
 

Is it possible to get 10,000 filtered hits to my paysite a day without an affiliate program? Thru my own gallery postings and such...which brings the most click thru's - tgp's or movie posts?

Everything is possible. But it will not fall down from the sky

search engines, paid advertising, 1000's of feeder sites there are many ways to bring tons of traffic to your network.

I've never used them, but http://www.ezain.com/ might be able to deliver what you need.