Is it natural to fuck one person only till the end of your life?
 

Do you think once you find a "partner" for the rest of your life to love, have kids with and share everything, you will be satisfied having sex only with him/her till the end of your life?
Having this discussion with my colleague here, I was just wondering what you guys think or even better experienced :winkwink:

I'm getting married so I don't have to spend time having sex anymore.

I do understand your questioning...

I'm 100% in love with my girlfriend... and she's 100% in love with me. We're totally into each other. And yet, she's bisexual and I fancy other girls (everyone here fancies other people so don't try and say you don't if your married or in love)... we have threesomes. She gets the sexual pleasure of being with a girl, and I get to fuck other girls, and beacuse we're doing it together, it's just another facet to our sex life. I'd go crazy if she did it alone, and she would if I did it alone ... so we don't. We're faithful to each other.

So, luckily I don't need to worry about that side of things... but I WAS Married and with the same girl for 8 years since 19 years old... and it WAS frustrating! lol... I dunno... each to their own. Thing is... my girlfriend now, who I have been with quite a while and I am going to be with forever as far as we're both concerned, is stunning and pushes all my buttons. We've both said if we didnt' wanna have another threesome we'd not worry, because we certainly don't NEED it. In fact, we turned down an incredibly sexy girl last night.

Sex between a couple is different from relationship to relationship and I don't think it's inconceivable for people to be cool with the one person to have sex with for the rest of your life (As I say, with my g/f now, I'm happy that if that's the case I'd still be happy).

Blah. I don't feel like fucking anyone else. I've been with my girl for 6 years now, and I have not even once considered cheating. Cheating is weakness. I might occasionally jack off to an imagenery girl, but there's not a chance in hell I'd actually fuck another girl while having a relationship.
If Jessica Alba was on my bed holding to her ankles and begging me to penetrate her lovebox with my willy.. I wouldn't...and that's a fact.

Ah... I didn't say you'd cheat.... I said you fancied other girls... You mention Jessica Alba... you wouldn't cheat with her... and that's commendable... but you DO fancy her don't you? :P Different thing.

sex?
one?

Lol.... :)

Need to regulate the world's population by setting standards.
Marriage = a standard. It's all indirect population control imo.

What about YOU? What do you think:)

Actually I don't. But many here seem to think of her as THE sex goddess, so I used her in my example.
I do understand what you mean though, but what does it matter if I fancy someone else? It has no relevancy to this, not that I can see anyhow.

eddy murphy with Delirious comes in mind now btw. That was a classic:)

I thought you confused me saying to fancy someone was to cheat. Which I wasn't.

And yes, I agree... Alba is NOT all that.... tho I'd still take her in the.... hmm... yeah.

sorry dude but you are deceiving yourself... you and your girlfriend are in deficit... sexual deficit. If you really were into each other you won't need to do threesomes. Probably you turned down an incredibly sexy girl just to keep the fantasy of being in love... but it's just a lie... you are just sex partners.

Although, you need "your girl" but is not enough :upsidedow

it's not possible to share a moment of love at the same time you are having (just) sex with some third unknow part...

no soul conection with strager peeps around..

just not possible

sorry.

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totally agree with you, there's no need to cheat your girl or yourself if you are in love. But it's very difficult to find someone to connect yourself with.

Cheating is weakness, threesome is cheating your self... thressomes are weakness or excessive superficiality feelings...

then... if you are on threesomes is because of your weakness and the weakness of the copule... then you could have sporadic jealousy attacks!!! imagine to get worried of EVERY man around your girl (friends, ex-girlfriends, partners, blah) and EVERY GIRL around her (Friends, ex-girlfriends, etc)

OMG... too much to get worried... you'll probably get crazy and hurt somebody

better to have a normal girl that just loves you and gets nasty only with you! :thumbsup

If you are really in love, u dont need someone else. but for a girl its possible to have fun with another girl sometimes . :1orglaugh

HAHA. Yeah, cheers. Thanks for breaking down my relationship for me. Since you know me and you know my thoughts and my feelings. Since you're obviously the world authority on relationship and love expertise.... ;)

Whatever you say means nothing to me, because you're judging something you know nothing about. You could have just replied to the original question, instead of trying to take a pot shot at my relationship.

I am kind of old fashioned person concerning love and relationships. Even after 6 year´s relationship, I can´t think of cheating on my bf and can´t stand even a smallest thought of him being with someone else - I am a really jelous person as well.
The thing that scares me is what my friend says, that it is natural to take care of and have kids with one person, but sleep with whoever you fancy because it has nothing to do with love. He would agree with what Twisted Illustration said.

I am glad that TeenGodFather said what he said. Thanks - at least I know I am not the only one to believe that being with one person till the end of my life might be possible.

no, it's not

one person and a goat - well, that's more likely, everybody needs variaty

When you close your eyes during sex, and think of other people -- It's time to move on...

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2hp

Biologically speaking, no it's not natural. However, according to modern day ethics and morals in society, yes it is natural to "fuck one person till the end of your life."

Are you serious? How long did your longest relationship last?

fuck fuck fuck all the time with all the possible babes this our destiny ;)

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2hp

I don't think it is normal nowadays... but it used to be. I mean i'm sure my parents -they got to know each other when they were very young- had no other partners /and won't have/ in their lives. ..Almost unimaginable in this century.

I have only used my right hand

I would hope it is possible i think it is. Obviously you still loke at other people

YES ,if she gives me 3 blowjobs a day

hehe, I wanted to ask the same question?Maybe a week while its a fresh realtionship? :1orglaugh

I disagree with that. A threesom has nothing to do with cheating. I know oz would never go fuck some girl behind my back , but bringing another girl into our bedroom is something I crave. the girl has something that oz doesnt. Neither one of us has any emotional attachments to the third person. But we do enjoy watching each other get off.

For me it is, I don't really go anywhere so I don't even talk to any guys at all, let alone meet them or get to know them. I have no desire for any other men, I don't know why.

I was also this way was when I was single, I was always home on the pc, watching tv... I'm a homebody like that, I'm not sociable enough to cheat. I'ts not possible to cheat if you don't know anyone to cheat with and don't meet anybody. How can you cheat if you don't go anywhere and don't talk to anyone?
I'm just a shy homebody like that so it's not possible for me to cheat.

Only people who actually MEET and TALK to other people are able to cheat. If you just don't talk to anyone at all, its not possible.

I wish it was that simple to keep a guy "interested" forever :upsidedow

Awesome :)

:1orglaugh :1orglaugh :1orglaugh sorry to hear that

no, hopefully not, if it is than im not normal :helpme :)

I agree 101.48% (I feel the same)

But you are talking to someone, right now :winkwink:

Aren´t you afraid your partner will take you for granted if you actually admit that?

For a man- no

For a woman- more so

It's not natural to pee in toilets, take showers, use deodorant, have air conditioning, fly in planes, etc. but we do it. Being faithful to one person might not be "natural" but it's certainly possible :)

You always make some intresting posts about your relationship.
Wanted to ask you do you think your boyfriend would still be with you if you made the same money he does?

Well he's not sociable either and always on his pc right next to me so we suit each other perfectly.

I'm sure he would be with me even if I was poor, even though he doesn't make a lot but he's generous in many was, he does pay for me sometimes, it's almost half-half lately, I only pay more of the bills, but if I was single I would pay for all of them anyways so I guess it doesn't make a big difference. For example for Valentines day he bought me something that was a third of his check, so he's very generous!

It a myth... there are some spices that admit being a real couple. For example, swans.

If one of the dies, another is dying also...