Are all women in America this fucked up?
 

I date this chick that moved to Chicago from LA. After the third date, she doesn't return my call. I figure that's a bit rude but fuck it.

Five days late, she calls me.

She: "Hi".
Me: "Hi".
She: "How's it going?"
Me: "I don't think it's going to work for us. I don't know if you're so busy it takes you five days to return a call or if you're playing hard to get, but either way doesn't sit well with me".

Now she's begging me to take her back. Stupid girl.

Fuck her then don't return her calls.....

Don't forgive her.

she was likely playing, you know, all these stupid shows teach them

tell her, fuck off supid bich!

This is why I don't want to date most america women. They think they are players and love playin the game. I was cool with that when I was 22 but at some point you need to grow up.

The majority, yep

In a word, "yes."

Fuck her in the ass and you're even

i think u were too hard on her.... :girl

All women in the western world are this fucked up. They read those dumbass "empowering" women's magazines that tell them they are the penismaster and they need to mindfuck men into submission.

Tell her if she wants you back she has to give up all 3 inputs and agree to a threesome with you and her best friend.

why answer her phone call? she's not the only human girl alive...

If she was busy its ok imho, if she thinks its cool to mindfuck and yes wait a week then id say next

I'll never understand it either. Too many women out there want to play games. That's why when you find a good one, hold on to her.

Jesus, you'd only been on three dates. It's not like you were in some kind of serious relationship. You sound needy.

shes playing hard to get dude, she wants to know just how bad you want/like her.... thus her begging after you make the phone call projecting your feelings....


Uhhhh.....Duh?!?!

fuck her last time ...then say its over :)

Tomud

the only way to be is to not let anyone get to you. be confident. be secure. be yourself. don't desire them. don't care either way. another person is an enhancement to your life and what you are and stand for, not a necessity. if you don't have a fear of being alone from time to time, you'll never be without. words to live by. too much emotion and not enough reality depletes their reason.

*disclaimer* not responsible for the actions of whacko chicks you might know. :winkwink:

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Thats what I was thinking. Then again, she is begging for you to take her back which sounds equally needy.

just because you dated your Fleshlight 3 times is no reason to believe it will develope into anything more than a once in a while physical thing.
seek other interests.
if that doesn't seem to work, join the Army.
you need a stable, structured life.
and use plenty of Lube!
you 'll get friction blisters!

:1orglaugh :thumbsup

have her make it up to u in a major way ;)

You sound like the girl of this mini 3 date relationship and she is wearing the pants. Dont be a bitch.

How are you sure she got your call?

It is possible to not actually get a message left on a machine or with someone else... :2 cents:

Sounds like shes testing the waters, probably fucking other people.

It's not about that. She called me the day after the first date to set another one. She called me the day after the second date to set another one. I call her after the third date and she waits five days. That's textbook games playing - and I don't tolerate that shit.

I left it on her cell phone - it's very rare that those get lost. Anyway she didn't deny receiving the message.

yup yup :thumbsup

ROFL!!
Had that happen to me
Was always talking with this chick
Nothing serious.. but then as it got a bit more
We go out for a drink.. with no one but us
Everythign smooth
Next day.. I call.. she doesn't return call
and so on.. after 3days. I say fuck it

She calls 1 week later.. told her same thing as you
she kept calling 2-3 times a day for about 1 week
Kept it cool.. made it clear to her.. sorry.. the train has left the station!

fun to see her try when go out for a friends bday/supper and she there :thumbsup

Send her to Duke Dollars, lol..

I blame Oprah.

LOL because there is no possible way she could have been busy...text book wha? You Dr. Phil all of a sudden? LOL Stupid girl for calling back and persisting...

I agree.. fuck her brains out then don't return her calls ever again :D

Tell her you'll accept her back on the condition that she brings a hot friend along and you engage in a steaming hot threesome.

If she does it then she's a keeper.

Also, http://www.nomarriage.com

what a bitch

I hear from so many men that the majority of women are seriously fucked up about relationships and have no idea how to behave properly. I agree that many women have been taught that because they have a pussy, they don't have to play by the rules. I think it's really sad, because you know that these women are going to have kids and teach them the same bullshit... that means there won't likely be ANY good dates in America for the next 100 years.

I'm one of those crazy weirdos who actually mean what they say, enjoy being a dirty girl in bed, and don't play fucked up mind games to gain power and control of relationships. And you know what? I'm a happy, well adjusted person who isn't an emotional cripple. Go figure!

Wait a minute..Are you saying, that she asked you out after the first date? Since, when does a girl asks the guys out after the first date? Man, I gotta go back to all of my psycho babble books because it looks like I've got all of these games wrong. :Oh crap

I would continue to date her, and let her play her games (not as effective when you are onto her antics) and continue to fuck her until another girl comes around at which point I would tell her I know what she has been doing. Slide the new girl a $50 and tell her to kick the shit out of her. She might not ever choose to play games again, but I doubt it. She will be back on the roster in a couple days for sure.

Girls are real assholes sometimes.

omg! god forbid a woman doesn't call back, it's immediately thought of as game playing.

i guess the pot and kettle have finally met for if you tell me you have never done the same, i will call bullshit.

Take away theory - Takes something away from someone and they want it more

Works every time :pimp

maybe her dad died or something lol

finding a girl like you is very hard. Its not so much that its a game as much as its stupidity out there. People are too stupid to admit what they want and to act accordingly. America is the worst for this. I love being american and living here, but not for the sex. Or for the love. It takies a lot of time to make a girl feel safe enough to become just herself. I am sure it is the same in the other direction. The puritan ethic for all it has done to make us a professional power has toally fucked us for sex and relationships. Not that anyone else has it so right though. Plenty of bullshit goes on around the world. One principle to live by is that we generally get what we give. If we are needy, we get needy, if we are intelligent, we will attract it, if you want to know how fucked up you are, look at your relationships, friends and girlfriends and you will get a good cross-section of how fucked up you are mentally and emotionally. It can be a hard pill to swallow, but its the truth.

Forget world peace -- I wish for all American women to get in touch with their true selves, do whatever work it takes to deal with their baggage, and become happy well-adjusted people who bring incredible value to their relationships!

Nice though....................
but its not just the women and I am a man saying that about my gender, but neither will do much of that. Takes too much courage.

Fuck her is right. get on top of that shit a few times, and make sure to tap that ass as well. then dont call her anymore.

very well said.

haeast or west Nothing is a differant; women is a women, they things they are center of the world.

my thoughts exactly

women and men have had issues since day one - its the same here in the US as in every other part of the world.

you emasculated fags need to stop fucking crying about it and deal with it.