how many of you have been single for over 1 year
 

and still are single... please explain why

not me, sorry, but here's a bump

Eugh.....................

Wouldn't have it any other way!! :thumbsup

I'm sorta kinda seeing someone right now but I'm sure I'll change my mind by the end of the week like I always do :thumbsup Depends how fast he starts to get all up into my biz and tries to change me in any way... then *SNAP*

NEXT!!

:winkwink:

what she said :winkwink:

I'm single since like ... a year and 5 days lol

Just not interested in a long term relationship right now, I rather have some fun arround

I've been separated for a year, divorced since November.

I just haven't found someone who I can appreciate and who appreciates me. So I'm just enjoying the freedom for now. :)

I was until about 4 months ago..I miss my freedom :(

yo.

but i'm getting ass regardless.

Single for...~thinks~...5 years, maybe 6.

As to the why, probably because I need to get some clarity.

Been single for >7 years.

Still single because I have 2 kids to rear, no time for much else, and think it's more important for the kids to have a stable environment.

been single for a very long time, 8 or 9 years I guess . . . don't even remember.

Why? Not worth the trouble.

That too. :)

I'm very hesitant to think of involving another person in our lives at this stage. The munchkin would take a loss very hard.

Perhaps when he's grown.

Time goes so fast, and they will both be on their own before I know it. This time I am content to give to them.

There was a time when I was single for 7 years from the age of 19-26, and I mean not just single but also celibate as in NO dating, no sex, not even kissing or hugging with any guy whatsoever.

Reason was that I just wanted to be alone and free not be attached to anyone, plus it is hard for me to trust men. I think most people in general cheat, lie, and I didn't want to get caught up with that. And reading stuff on-line about hookers and massage parlors doesn't help.

I was content to live by myself and enjoy life on my own. I have a bf now, but if doesn't work out, I know I have no problem living on my own with no interaction with members of the opposite sex until I die.

I would much rather be alone then being with someone who cheats and lies. 1 year is a piece of cake, i went for 7 years, and probably could have gone on for much longer all by myself, and I mean 7 years with no physical contact with any man AT ALL.

I am not the type that flirts or fools around with guys and all of that, I really keep to myself and I am mentally stong where I don't need anyone for anything.

There's nothing wrong with being single forever. If I was single again I would get a passport and travel the world, and live wherever I wanted to live, and take up some more hobbies, but I would be just fine.

my life is a lot less stressful now that i am single, ive noticed that

you have issues, I wouldn't stay with you either

I've been single for.. umm.. ever. Its something you get use too. Maybe if I wasn't afraid to go outside I'd get a date, lol. But oh well...

Ladies... hit me up ICQ: 211297425

What a great post. I've been single for a LONG time. And I know what your saying. I also don't "flirt" with women and such but I find no contact makes you this way. But I understand the hobbies and the being mentally strong. It takes a strong person to live our lifestyles (okay so maybe your lifestyle isn't the same as mine, but there are alot of people that couldn't handle it)

Being single is a CHOICE, good thing it's a free country and people can choose to be single or not. Because someone wants to be single doesnt mean they have issues; lots of people choose to be single for numerous reasons. As long as I'm happy that's all that counts. As long as I don't break any laws I can live however I want. Anyways, I'm not single now anyways, but I was for a long time. Society makes you feel like you're not "complete" unless your married and have a soul-mate or something like that, that's not true.

haha, ICQ dating = step away from the computer please

lol, I take it anyway I can get it.

I'm still single but am into a relationship now and i see myself married 2 to 3 years from now. :)

i've been single for many years.........why? i'm happy single :) no strings attached, nothing holds me back, nothing holds me down, nobody nags at me, nobody tells me "no" i cant do this or that

single-ism is the greatest :thumbsup

single but unavailable... wedding bells will be ringing soon.

Single
 

Well I was supposed to be married last June but I got a really nice right hand diamond instead! I also noticed that life is a lot less stressful without having someone else to appease. No drama - no tension in the air - no episodes of weirdness.

I just have to remember to leave the house every now and again for social hour. Sometimes it just gets too comfortable lounging about in my bathrobe!

So maybe for now I will just be satisfied with all of the above.

then you aren't single unless you are getting a mail order bride

I've been single for a year and a half and wow time flies by... i didnt think i was single for that long. Oh well life is much better this way, the only thing I regret is not breaking up with her sooner lol :thumbsup

I'm always single except for a week or two here and there.

if you're below 30 and still not committed, you don't have a heart
if you're over 30 and still committed, you don't have a brain
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and if you are WME, you are an idiot