A public letter to my husband!!
 

When I was 13 I lost a very dear friend, she was an older lady, but did alot for me as a teenager because I had the worst dad on the planet and a step mother to end all step mothers. It was a very wicked life for me. My neighbor who was so good to me, took me in when I would get locked out of my house, cooked for me and took care of me, informed me she was selling her doublewide and moving closer to town where she wouldn't have to drive the 15 miles into town each day. She sold it to this family, and what I was able to find out, there was one boy, one year younger than me, his mom and his Dad. His dad was never at home and his mom was a stay at home mom.

As time goes by, my younger brother and I became friends with this boy and before I knew it, we were boyfriend and girlfriend. He and I were both into music, we, for lack of a better term, spoke to each other thru music, I was kinda shy and so was he. I, being the adventurous type, would show him my secret places that I wouldn't let ANYONE else in on. I went to him one day in an old abandoned house and declared that a song, Elton John did called "Your Song" was how I felt about him and I pledged my undying love for him as did he for me. We became inseperable from this point on.


HIS mom then started taking care of me, made my brother and I brownies and such....... kept us warm when my dad was in a drunken rage and locked me out of the house in a foot of snow with no coat and shoes. I was physically abused and about every other type of abuse you could imagine.

Time went by and his dad met my dad somewhere and decided he hated him so bad that they just up and moved one day with little warning or anything. I cried and cried, tried hard to find him, my step mother in all her evil bullshit, told me they lived in one place and when I looked they weren't there.

We were seperated and went on about our lives, in this period I had met my mother who I hadn't seen in 10 years, went to Kansas City to live with her..... only to find she was every bit as evil if not more so than my dad had been. I was called a whore and a tramp on a daily basis.. you name it. So I said to hell with it, came back to my dad's house. This is in January of 1983. I enrolled back into school where the idiots put me in R.O.T.C... GOD I was mad, but I went thru it. I went to a shooting range, shot my first gun ever, won the trophy and the First Sergeant said the only way I could get my Trophy was to show up at the Military Ball....... GOD I hated this, I had to wear a Formal Gown...... BLAH.......

Ok, I get to this Ball and guess who I run into........... you got it, I ran into my childhood sweetheart. HE was there, he was the DJ, I couldn't believe it, I had seen a glimpse of him very briefly in a Game Room several weeks before and wasn't REAL sure it was him at first, but this time I KNEW it was him. As the night went on, I was able to actually talk to him and when he was leaving, I whacked off this huge piece of the cake that was there and ran out to him and thanked him for being there.

Turned out we had a mutual friend and that friend came and asked me if he could give this guy my phone number, I consented and on April 1st, 1983, we had our very first REAL DATE ever......... we were married on April 16th of 1984.........

Now it is here 19 years we have been together, 18 of those we have been husband and wife. We have had some really bad times and gone thru about every test a marriage can go thru, but you know what? I would not trade even ONE second of the time we have had together for anything in the world. We still hold hands, we still laugh, we even work together..... and I can't think of another person I would want to walk thru this crazy life with.

I love you baby, Happy Anniversary. You challenge me, you are patient and kind, you gave me 4 beautiful children, and most of all, you love me in spite of my faults. I value every aspect of you and your mind and body. You are my best friend, my employee, my soulmate and most off all, the love of my entire life.

Thank you for just being you!!

Just thought I'd put that man of mine on the spot. LOL

very sweet.... i'm sure you make each other very happy.

Ahhh...

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WOW....That brought a tear to my eye.

Congrats to you and Jimmie and may you have many more!!!!

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Thanks....now I want to slit my wrist cause I am STILL single.

Aw shucks... I am speachless... Thank you for being my everything.... you know how I feel about you..... :rainfro

awwww....shucks, I'm all warm and fuzzy inside now :thumbsup

you...complete...me

Brought a tear to my eye too :)

Congrats and here's to another 19 more. xoxo

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Guess I could have just used this line........ would have made all that much faster to type, huh? :)

That is what I tell him all the time, he completes me...... and I do for him as well........

Thanks guys. :)

And yes SongRider, I know how you feel about me, you never let me forget it, and in this case the constant reminders are a pleasant thing. :)

i know a bit about her husband
as i know he is an angel , helps to Tam everytime , whenever she needs help , while the whole life together...

it must be pretty hard for a woman to find a husband like Tam's as i know about him...


Congrats you both
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Congrats Tam and Jimmie, May life bring you another 19 years of happiness.

In this day and age it's hard to keep a marriage together with all the evil in the world.

Now go Party and F**k all night, *evil grin*:1orglaugh

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:sadcrying

you smoke entirely too much crack wench

WHAT a crock of BULLSHIT :mad: This is what I fucking hate to see!!! I hate seeing other couples happy argh@!#$ YOU WANNA KNOW WHY huh DO YOU ? Cause IM looking for that myself. All I can ever find is whores sluts and fat chicks. WTF I say again WTF is up with that shit??? Your speach to your husband is very sweet And if I was him I WOULD get on my hands and Knees and worship you. He is one luck guy! You sound like a great women. DO YOU KNOW WHERE ANY OTHER women that wont turn out to be a slut/whore/ or turn Really fat and ugly I dont mean chubby I can live with that I mean Fat as in 4 to 8 rolls of flab from tits to heals. jezz im in one bad mood just signed my divorce papers finding out Im on the hun and havent made ONE fucking sale for va2k.net Then I go look at my gallery and find out it takes two fucking years to load I call up my hosting company they tell me i reached my throttle limit I was LIKE WTH I told you all I wanted that shit off all my domains I WILL pay your screwed 4.50 ofer usage Then they tried to tell me well you need a dedicated server blah blah blah im like FOR ONE FUCKING LISTING ON THE HUN??? I was like go fuck your self :feels-hot Then my tech came online and getting everything fixed for me. ARGH so when it settles down I may get one or two sales what a fucked up day. ONly good thing that happened today was I was able to save my house from forecloser it was tight the sale date was the 30th of this month. Thank god for porn HEHE well now I feel a little better after blabbing on and making an ass ONCE AGAIN of my self I just want to say something TAM I personaly wouldnt care what the gal looked like if They were as good hearted as you. Thanks for this post It helps to see that ALL WOMEN are not cunts with tits!! There is hope after all. IT did touch my heart and that is hard to do now adays Good luck on the next 20 years of your marriage Tam

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Happy Anniversary, Tam. May you have many, many more years of such happiness!

You had me at, "Ok, I take it back.. UNFUCK YOU!" :)

happy anniversary tam. seeing people find someone good in this world of bad is very heartening. i hope it lasts forever!

must... control... self...

Here's to another 19:thumbsup :thumbsup :winkwink:

I'm with pr0!!!

happy anniversary wench ;)

Hey, I don't get out much, but, uh, er, ummmm....

Aren't there better things to do with crack wenches than SMOKE 'em?



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Ha! VA2k you seem to have the same luck I do with women. Trust me, just keep on fucking the sluts and the fatties and replace your need for love with alcohol. Alcohol cures everything.

Congrats!

My anniversary is coming up and you just saved me a lot of work, just need to change the story around a little, but I like where you went with it.

This is going to buy me a lot of brownie points! :)


Thanks!
RD

forget this biz, go work for hallmark :sadcrying

nice

Congrats to you and your hubby Tam ;-)

Happy Anniversary, Tam :thumbsup

I feel young, and envious. I was born April 28th, 1983, and that is when you re-met your now husband of 19 years. Made me sad, because as va2k said, I'm looking for that myself, I am sure I will find it, not sure it will be anything close to the same circumstances though. I hope you get to read this Tam, if not, someone else surely will, I can't be the only one who procrastinates and reads all replies in a thread..

Have a happy happy anniversary, and at least another happy 19 years of being together, and 18 another 18 years of marriage (I did read through, and carefully :) )

Congrats,
Matt

Good call. :)

Cheers,
Matt

Grumpy has a smile on his face now:thumbsup
Congrats

gosh

Congratulations

Thanks guys, you are the best........ yes even you kimmy, ya damn wench...... ;)

Nysus...... wow........ not sure if that ages me really bad or what, but thanks for that nice reply. My oldest just turned 18. LOL At any rate, thanks so much for your sweet words, they meant alot. And yes I read every word people say to me, some senseless threads I skip over some of the shit, but threads like this and ones I can learn something from, I read every single word. :)

Write for Hallmark........ rotfl....... oh right, unless it is something I am passionate about I'd be screwed. LOL

Thanks again,
Tam

Happy Anniversary! :thumbsup

Happy Anniversary to Tam and Hubby :) I would love to see this thread win the dvd. What a great present that would make!!!
Lets make it happen GFY family

Cheers!
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Oh yes, in a perfect world........... I couldn't win if I was the only one posting on this whole damn board........... rotfl. But it is a nice though girl........ thanks a million. :1orglaugh

Tam

Start Posting !!! I want Tam to get the dvd PLAYER this week!!!! DAMMIT!

Happy Anniversary You Two:drinkup

i think this is our first year anniversary Tam

and i did not even hear a kind word to your secretive, evasive, kinky and somewhat disfunctional stalker
:(

so let me say this...

we met on a board and i've been stalking you since
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btw - congratulations to you both
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Oops, how horrible of me, i almost forgot your gift.

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Awww...... you are too sweet. You make it very hard to be mad at you for stalking me. I must say, I have never had a cuter or sweeter stalker......... and I will "play" with you tomorrow. You are right though, it HAS been a year for us huh? Wow............ it doesn't seem like it. I will get you a nice Anniversary tomorrow ok? ;)

pr0...... yeah whatever

DITTO To that! Got my '9th' one coming up in a few months! :)

I'll be 'tweaking' this story as well...and I'll be waiting on those brownies as well!

Tam-
Don't know you..but it sounds like you're well respected on this board and because of that...I can honestly say this:

CONGRATS GIRLFRIEND! :)
You go girl...! 19 years w/one man...shit..my mom and her many marriages put together can't equal that! You've got one lucky man there and it sounds like you guys fall in love every new day!

And because of that..I give you a 19 :thumbsup salute!

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I am seriously fucking crying... Why did you do that tam.. Shit.. I wish my wife said that about me.. The only woman who ever said anything nice to me was Boneprones wife (She want's me)..

No seriously That was very nice..I wish you guys another 20 years..

Regards Snow

Finally a touching post
Happy Anniversary

Happy Anniversary and may you two have many more.

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