Adult SEO: A few questions..
 

how much more of an advantage do you think it has (out of experience) to rank for words which you have as your domain name, ie for "blonde women" : blondewomen.net, opposed to not having a domain with your kw in it?

and secondly, as i have no experience with this, is it more or less difficult to get other adult webmasters to manually place your link on their main page for example for reciprocal trades, than it is to get mainstream webmasters?

i have several pretty good keyword domains that i figure i should try to seo in my spare time.. i think i'd just make all of them clean paysite review sites.. i think with the significantly less few outbounds they would have, they'd rank easier than the avg adult site (like tgp's and such).

the keywords in domain are nice but FAR from being necessary
and with far i mean FAAAAAAAAAR

the outbound think you mention is bullshit... forget about that fast