Question for married people
 

Hello all, (been off this board for awhile) -- I have a question for all you married people.
Do you miss (I mean really MISS) sex with random women(or whatever you are attracted to)?
I have been married for a few years now to a very beautiful cuban women( good in bed and just a great person)
-- but I find myself being very attracted to random women who aren't nearly as good looking. I think --just
the fact that they are different turns me on. I had alot of sex with alot of different women before I got married(- it was the 80's/90's- was a drummer in a very popular local heavy metal band, and had great hair)-
but I just can't shake this feeling that I should be fucking alot of these chicks that I meet.
THOUGHTS?

Might as well get divorced now if you are going to start that way of life. It's no way to live trust me. And divorce rates for swingers? 100% Might take 20 yrs but it will get you and then you sit and wonder why you wasted the best years of your life when you should have been building something meaningful. :2 cents:

blah blah blah, NO MA'AM All the way!

a) Stay married, fuck around, then let us all know when you make it to the Springer show.

b) Honor your commitment or get out.

Springer!! :1orglaugh :thumbsup

It's the human nature. You find a hot girl with great personality (yeah right), but you are still unsatisfied and want more.

You don't need to fuck around on her, just add some mix into things, have threesomes or another couple.
Swinging is very fun:)

:angel
Smurfette

Been married for 5 years... I masturbate to pictures of girls I wish I was fucking more often than getting real sex :1orglaugh

:sigh:
The voice of reason.
:)

I was going to give you some advice....but better not,,,, 5 or 6 Ex-wives so I'd just get you in more trouble... Because, your in trouble but don't know it yet...

divorce is the only real solution..... I've done it twice. Worked both times.

that should be added to ALL quote lists u can find!

bunky

Don't beat yourself up the26, those are perfectly normal feelings for a young married male - and likely most old ones too. Try spicing up your sex life with your wife by being kinky and communicating better. What you need to be thinking about is all the other ways that your spouse and marriage makes you happy *besides* the sex. After all, your wife should be your best friend. If she's not AND you're not happy sexually then you should evaluate the divorce option.

Brad

In your case it looks like you are missing your old life.

My advice.... Get a lawyer and get a divorce. If you're getting these thoughts now... How long will it be before you live them out? 1 week, 1 month, 1 year? What's the point of wasting anymore of your time or your wife's? Get divorced now and get fucking! :thumbsup

DH:glugglug

maybe she wants the same thing?

yep, same here . . . . . no details, but baddog was my name before there was an Internet :Graucho

Your man
Men think this way

Deal with it

If you just HAVE act out on it..get a divorce
Or ask her permission hahahaha (well chances of this happening are slim)


:1orglaugh :1orglaugh

see thats the fucking problem today

"get a divorce"

fuck that shit. my wife does nothing but complain, pisses me off. i look at naked chicks everyday and some turn me on some don't

i look at women on the street and some turn me on and some don't.

but my wife always turns me on and i'll never think of fucking some bitch.

It's about your mindset. you look at her everyday, you just get accustomed to seeing her face, but you just see her face

Step back and really look at her. i mean really look at her, and see her just like the day you met her. see that beauty and your dick will get hard.

you won't think about fucking somebody else

amen!