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Donny 12-17-2005 10:07 AM
Celebrating the Best Day of my Life: the Beginning of Yours
 
Here's what I wrote today in the journal I keep to my son...

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It's 7:54am. Exactly 6 years ago you changed my life forever. You were born via C-Section. The doctor's recorded 7:54am as your time of birth. I was at your mother's head, covered in scrubs. Your grandmother was beside me. Your mother was awake the entire time, of course, and experienced no pain. But her face was hidden from you by a sheet that the doctor's had in place to block her view of the cutting they were doing. When you were lifted out I was allowed to go to the other side of that sheet and look at you. You came out peeing, all over in your mother's stomach. The doctors flushed her out very well with water, and I found it a little amusing. I got to cut the cord. You were taken to a small table, a warming table I believe, to check you out. I went along. Then you were wrapped up like a little burrito and I was able to carry you to the nursery while your mother was stitched up and taken to the recovery room.

Along the way to the nursery we passed grandma P------. I was still in scrubs and only my eyes showed. I tilted you towards her so she could look at you. Later she told me about the nice male nurse who let her see her grandson, and almost didn't believe me when I told her it wasn't a nurse.

After the nurses placed you on a warming bed and attached monitors to your chest, they left and it was just you and I. I was in awe. I held your little hands and you actually stared at me for quite awhile. I felt a bond being established, and it was beautiful. I kept talking to you in a low soothing voice and you appeared to be listening. I could see my mother, brother, and other family members looking through the glass from time to time. But my entire world was revolving around you. I was definitely in love.

We stayed in the hospital for 2 or 3 days. I think it was 3 but can't remember for sure. The only way I can describe those days is "magic". They really were. I was floating on a cloud. The nurses would try to get us to let you sleep in the nursery alone but I was having none of that. I'd rock you in the nursery instead, and hold you as you slept. And your mother would usually hold you while I slept. The only time we let you out of our sight is when the doctor took you away to perform your circumcision.

That first diaper change was interesting. I did it. In fact, I changed your diapers for a very long time so your mother could rest. But that first one... the meconium diaper, was all over my hands. I've always had a weak stomach and I had worried throughout your mother's pregnancy that I wouldn't be able to handle diapers well, but I never flinched while changing you. It never bothered me. In my mind, you are part of me. And nothing related to you has ever made me feel ill, from changing diapers to wiping snot with my hands when nothing else is available, to wearing your puke all day long. I remember smelling like baby puke for months and months... and absolutely loving it.

You changed my outlook on a lot of things. Seeing the world through your eyes is too beautiful to describe with words. Son, I'm so very happy you're here! I love you very much! I love being "Daddy". Hearing you call me that always melts me, no matter how many times I hear it.

Happy birthday, -----!

Harmon 12-17-2005 10:13 AM
Having two sons of my own, that touched me deeply. Thanks for sharing that with us. I read it out loud to my wife and we both shed a tear. Again, thank you for sharing that :)

baddog 12-17-2005 10:15 AM
happy birthday

who 12-17-2005 10:18 AM
" But that first one... the meconium diaper, was all over my hands."


Tnx for the visuals

Donny 12-17-2005 10:21 AM
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Originally Posted by who
" But that first one... the meconium diaper, was all over my hands."


Tnx for the visuals
Meconium is almost like tar. Doesn't really stink, but it's very very sticky. It took some scrubbing to get it off... both off of him and off of my hands. LOL.

Donny 12-17-2005 10:22 AM
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Originally Posted by Harmon
Having two sons of my own, that touched me deeply. Thanks for sharing that with us. I read it out loud to my wife and we both shed a tear. Again, thank you for sharing that :)

Thanks for telling me this. It made me smile. :)

Furious_Female 12-17-2005 10:26 AM
Awwwww that's very sweet!!! :) He'll appreciate all of this when he gets older :thumbsup

ServerGenius 12-17-2005 10:29 AM
I love it when my son goes daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy...............question......and if I don't answer within 2
seconds he'll repeat it until I'm able to answer within 2 seconds lol......

it drives my wife nuts lol

PrintAdult 12-17-2005 10:40 AM
He will appreciate that. I can't wait to have a kid of my own.

Sosa 12-17-2005 10:48 AM
happy bday to your son :)

Belinda 12-17-2005 10:50 AM
Have fun with him today :) see you soon

Donny 12-17-2005 10:52 AM
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Originally Posted by Belinda
Have fun with him today :) see you soon
Drive safely through those icy mountains today babe! :)

Tricksy 12-17-2005 10:54 AM
It's so sweet. Thank you for sharing it with us...

Kassidy 12-17-2005 10:55 AM
That was beautiful, Donovan, thank you. There are way too many fathers these days who don't understand what they're missing out on by not being a part of their childrens' lives. It never fails to put a smile on my face to hear about one of the good daddys. I married one of the good ones too; I'm a lucky girl.

You made me smile today. Thank you.

(It was my baby girl's birthday yesterday so this was especially touching, remembering her birth too :) )

salkent 12-17-2005 11:00 AM
its things like these that restore my faith in humans. :thumbsup

latinasojourn 12-17-2005 11:18 AM
well i was right there also for all of my kids.

but didn't think to document it like that.

VERY nice for the kid to read as an adult.

bopha 12-17-2005 11:37 AM
Very Sweet.

corvette 12-17-2005 01:06 PM
man thats great donny :)

SilentKnight 12-17-2005 01:12 PM
Nice writing - no doubt your son will be pleased and thankful someday in the future when he reads your thoughtful, heartfelt and touching sentiments.

Thanks for sharing an insightful and personal moment. Reveals much about your character :)

Donny 12-17-2005 01:18 PM
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Originally Posted by SilentKnight
Nice writing - no doubt your son will be pleased and thankful someday in the future when he reads your thoughtful, heartfelt and touching sentiments.
Thank you. I have an entire website filled with writings to him, dating back to two years ago (December 21, 2003 was the first entry). I fill it with thoughts, trips we take, things we do together, photos, etc. He loves it already. He's a very sentimental child. :)

S P A N N O W 12-17-2005 02:18 PM
Hope you and your boy have a great day - Happy Birthday!!! :thumbsup

Jennyfer 12-17-2005 02:28 PM
Aww that's so sweet, your son is lucky to have you.

Fetish 12-17-2005 02:30 PM
very nice words

Niko Bimini 12-17-2005 02:49 PM
Very very nice read!


My 3year old daughter is taking a nap right now in my bed and your words just made me go give her a kiss!


:thumbsup

SilentKnight 12-17-2005 03:33 PM
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Originally Posted by DonovanPhillips
Thank you. I have an entire website filled with writings to him, dating back to two years ago (December 21, 2003 was the first entry). I fill it with thoughts, trips we take, things we do together, photos, etc. He loves it already. He's a very sentimental child. :)
Reminds me somewhat of the Michael Keaton movie 'My Life' - where he makes videos of himself passing along little 'life lessons' for his (as yet) unborn son.

If ya' ever saw the movie - I always got a kick outta the 'how to cook spaghetti in college' instructions.

Donny 12-17-2005 11:23 PM
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Originally Posted by SilentKnight
Reminds me somewhat of the Michael Keaton movie 'My Life' - where he makes videos of himself passing along little 'life lessons' for his (as yet) unborn son.

If ya' ever saw the movie - I always got a kick outta the 'how to cook spaghetti in college' instructions.
I've never seen that movie. I'll have to watch it!

2HousePlague 12-17-2005 11:36 PM
That's beautiful Donnie -- :)



2hp

Marshal 12-17-2005 11:51 PM
happy birthday!!! :)

tASSy 12-18-2005 12:55 PM
awh! what a lovely account of your son's birth. i can feel the love, and that you've made a journal for him, i love it! thank you for sharing your special moment, and happy birthday to little donny!

Halcyon 12-18-2005 01:05 PM
I love that you share this part of who you are, Donny. Thanks for the warm fuzzies.

TheWylders 12-18-2005 01:42 PM
I ain't ashamed to admit this post actually brought a tear to my eye! Your son is lucky to have a father that loves him so much :thumbsup

Donny 12-18-2005 02:42 PM
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Originally Posted by Halcyon
I love that you share this part of who you are, Donny. Thanks for the warm fuzzies.
Being a father is the best part of my life. The very very best. There is no better feeling.

PixeLs 12-18-2005 08:17 PM
Wow, congrats on that new angel man. :thumbsup

Stacey_JoinRightNow 12-18-2005 08:31 PM
Im really touched, now I have the feeling that you are a good father.
I cant wait to have it on my own, I know in that time it will completes me...

Happy bday to your son, he so lucky to have you... :)

Donny 12-18-2005 09:51 PM
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Originally Posted by Stacey_JoinRightNow
Im really touched, now I have the feeling that you are a good father.
I cant wait to have it on my own, I know in that time it will completes me...

Happy bday to your son, he so lucky to have you... :)

I am so lucky to have HIM. :) My life just lit up when he was born.

tristan_D 12-18-2005 11:53 PM
I was so touched by your journal entry. Some new parents keep a video of the ultrasound and even the delivery. It would have been fun if my parents kept one when I was born. All I have were pictures.

PenetratinP 12-19-2005 12:22 AM
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Originally Posted by DonovanPhillips
Being a father is the best part of my life. The very very best. There is no better feeling.
your journal entry was very touching.....i hope to experience that feeling soon.

thank you

reed_4 12-19-2005 12:26 AM
I'm happy for you Donovan, congrats for being a happy daddy!


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