To Everyone Who Thinks He/She As An Adult Webmaster..!! Please Read!!
 

Nice $$$ Everyone :)
I started this topic because i am having some questions in my brain..
And wanted to share this with you maybe some of us or most having same questions or problems.
As a an adult webmasters we spend most of time at home front of the computer.
And since too much time ago i started to have problems with my social life and having psychological disorders.
I only go out to take beer and cigarette and again you are at home and front of the computer.
So What about girls? i am 21 years old and everyone tells and when i look to minor i see my self as a good looking guy.
But cause of i am doing this job i am not having too much relationship with girls. Sure Sometimes i am having but at most relationship goes 3-4 months
because i have to stay at home and make my job. But girls want to go outside and have good social life.
Sometimes when i had to go outside for something i feel myself very bad and fel myself like person who doesnt know to walk.
I am making this job nearly 3 years and 3 years ago i had a good social life and dont have any psychological disorders i was always with girls and have too much friend.
But now i tell all of them what is happening I LIKE MY JOB AND $$$ BUT ALSO I WANT TO HAVE A GOOD SOCIAL LIFE AND DONT WANT psychological PROBLEM.

Now !! Why did i tell all of these to you ?
Because all of us making same job. And wanted to share with you what i am feeling and asking to you are you having same problems in your life??

Thank you very much if you read this topic end of here :)) LOL


Sincerely....

there's always suicide, I hear the afterlife is a blast.

You're too far gone my friend...its no use now...just go with it.

Pussy

concentrate on your fortune, retire at age 35, and find a nice 18 year old.

Nz:thumbsup

dude just cut back on the amount of hours you work each day. Don't pull 14 hour days in front of the PC. Just find a good balance between work and fun that you are happy with and stick to that.

Huh?

You seriously need to get out of this business...it's affecting you in a BAD way.....:(
This biz is not for everyone and it sounds (from your own words)
that it is NOT for you...If you cant get all the good booty you want and make a 6 figure income while working in this biz 15+ hours a day, then your doing something wrong and need to get out now.....go back to the mainstream world work a 8 hr job, put in overtime before the holidays so you have a few bucks to buy presents, go to happy hours and try to pick up on some secretaries...you know the routine..maybe that will be better for you and you wont have anymore psychological disorders.

Just my 2 cents.

People are overrated. Why would you want to socialize with them.

Indeed.

What? We're not good enough for you? Fucker.

It's fine to work hard, just don't forget to play hard every now and then.

format brain:\

I think it could best be said in a song from the thrash/punk supergroup Stormtroopers Of Death in their little ditty "Kill Yourself"

Can't take it, never could
Time to end it, wish you would
Friends and family, they're all gone
Life for you is just a con
Dig yourself a hole in the ground
Push up daisies six feet down
Take a dirt nap, buy the farm
Inject a bubble in your arm

[CHORUS]
Kill yourself, kill yourself
Why don't you kill yourself

Don't rely on no one else
End it all just kill yourself

Life is just a one way ticket
Everyone must go around
Here's a bucket go and kick it
Slit your wrists without a sound
When you fo don't make a big deal
No dramatics, don't overplay
Cause don't you know that we'll all fell
Better once you've gone away
[CHORUS-MOSH PART]

You're a loser, there's nothing left for you
A worthless loser, at everything you do


ah, gotta love them thrash/punk love ballads ;))))

smoke weed.....

work less
have more balance in your life
and while you are online
hit on chicks with icq and aol im

Ya better get out of porn while you still got some sanity :glugglug

SykkBoy just made my day

SOD!

go take some partime courses that interest you, you'll get out more. Maybe meet some new people and chat up some college babies.:)

id say balance the time you spend here and with ur friends and family.. its what most of us do if we admit it or not...

my :2 cents:

bunky

Show me one person who does not have a psychological problem of one kind or another and I will show you a dead man. Sane people do not exist.

:thumbsup

:)

have you read Billy Milano's recent interview with MetalSludge?
http://www.metal-sludge.com/20QuestionsMilano.htm

I got same problem tempra. I can't stop myself to do that. I work 2-3 hours for my job, then surf, read, download etc etc.

I make good money, but life is so meaningless if you don't have social life (aswell a girlfriend..)

Get a cat for company and a sheep for your bed! Worked for me!!!

exactly

why don't you just try and compress your business hours into a 40 hour work week. Work 9 to 5 and then you can go out and have a social life like you want.

You need english lessons?
i give them for free.

Chicks digg Psychologically disordered socially disoriented guys with CA$H ..... So gofuckyourself.com

reefer is the awnser :stoned

lots of reefer :rasta

Tempra.... you my good man, need a FLESHLIGHT. (fleshlight.com)

Seriously, work your ass off now while you're young.... when you're 30 and have buckets o' cash... finding a woman will be the least of your worries.

I was lucky enough to find a girl online that loves porn, we've been together now close to three years..... just did the Vegas thing awhile back as well... so she lets me work porn online 10-15 hours a day and doesn't ever give me grief. (she still hasn't found a way out of the duct tape yet... heh heh)

good luck

You need to get laid friend.. That's all..

Tempra,

You received some good advice, trust me working in an office won't improve your situation... I work 9-5 each day at home and update at night.. don't spend hours and hours in front of the computer, get outside, go for a walk or something when you feel depressed... don't juse sit there and let it build.. go to bars on the weekends.. take classes or something. There is so much shit you can do. If that doesn't work than maybe you should quit, be someones office whore and fwd all your traffic to me..

-Nick

tempra,

simply think about what you would want your life to look like, then make a week-schedule of that 'perfect life', and then... simply practicise it!!! it's sounds too easy but that's the way things work - know what you want and work on achieving that! anything is possible bro, as long as YOU want it!

mary jane don't care about fancy nights on the town :rasta

What helped me a lot: Rent a small office space so you don't work at home. You have to separate the two things.

Just my $.02

- Otto -

translation, you reealy need to get out more:thumbsup

this is a business, and as such it should be an inviting challenge, not something that causes "psycological" probs.
you'll turn into howard hughs if ur not careful

i did this too. and it did help temporarily. then i had to hire more employees, had to move to a bigger office, and now i work more than ever.

but again:

u forgot one thing.
Find a chick who has same job with u.
Even maybe someday both of u willl make ur own hardcore piv/movies/whatever... mo' money on this biz, yes this is serious :Graucho

That's the life I always dreamed of leading! Sucks being a nonconformist at heart...

well when summer rolls around and some of us gonna meet up to hang out maybe you should join us, your not gonna find a girlfriend here but maybe meet some other webmasters in your town.:spawn

Premeditated meditation seems to be in order! And when you're making an assload of money but can't afford the time to hang out with your friends, you can always pay for an escort to come over to your place while you're working and be your 'very close' friend. Or just do what Tipsy said. If you try the m-f 9-5... well it sucks waking up before noon.

Like someone said concentrate on the money their is to be made in this business, if you are on the right track that is.

Work hard and retire at 35

I'm 26 right now, I may not need to wait till 35 to retire :)))

But I love what I do, best job around, just hate some of the people that think porn is a bad career, fuck them...

Lots of money to be made, my friends half love it, half think I am some kinda pervert. Fuck em as I drive by in my new BMW waving as they get on the bus LOL!

Keep your head up, your 21, I dont know how you can with hold the party life or social life, heck I work and party, do it all.

Gotta work on that english also, hope you like in europe somewhere :-p

Thank you everyone for your all comments..

i am very glad that i hear these reccomends from you.

maybe really i have to do a planing life and work not much..

thx to everyone again

......

PS: XP what was your icq?

yeah this is very good advice, let me add the fact that you do not want to take any night classes. all the hotties dont take night classes, unfortunately i found that out the hard way.

Buy a doll :-) they are pretty good, you can have sex with them anytime you need to have sex with them, they are not in your way and they love everything you "LOVE" but seriusly porn is a great biz but you must have a Social Life to ...

Alchohol, LOTS of it :thumbsup

1-) i see my self and too much people tell me good looking guy. so i dont need a doll if i want i can found too much hottie girl.
2-) i was drinking alcohol a lot but i break up it 6 months ago and not drinking now. only smoke..


sincerely..

also anyone here got last 2 period of email bucks check?

you can't get a hotter chick then that:Graucho
http://realdoll.com/

Jup thats the key thing :thumbsup

tempra >>>
This is the best advice I can give you.
Treat you internet work like a real job with the same hours everyday.

Here is an example, make your own guide:

8am - start work
10am - take 15 minute break.
12pm - 1 hour lunch
3pm - take 15 minute break
6pm - STOP working.
(turn off the computer)

If you MUST work weekends then try to work only about 2-3 hours.

If you promise yourself not to touch your computer until the following day, you will have free time to hang out.
From 6pm - 1am - FREE TIME.

Now if your like me you stay up late, wake up later in the day, but setup some hours or quit this biz.

If you're depressed watch the simpsons, eat ice cream and dance to smooth criminal by MJ. After that you picture to yourself why you are working 15 hours/day, gurantee to get you motivated.