Why I get fucked.
 

I know why I get fucked every so often yet I still have not changed my ways. Is it insanity, stupidity, naivety, or just being a good person?

I still like to think all people are good at heart. I like to think I can trust people to do the right thing. Sure I know I may get fucked and do not go into a deal or arrangement with blinders on, so I can live with it when it happens. Of course the person fucking you also needs to live with knowing the did people wrong in their lives.
I also like to give people a chance. This often leads to great amounts of disappointment. Yet still I feel it is the proper thing to do. I know at various times in my life other had given me a chance and without that I would not be in the position where I can offer it to others if I choose.
I like to help others out with advice, tactics, referrals, and insight. I often send people business all of the time. I know I will rarely be thanked and often they will forget I exist if and when they make it. I know some speak about kickbacks and such which I always do myself, though I have never received one to date. (I have been paid up front for some advice or help though, or promised payment if I helped)
I also do not like to over price or gouge people. I know this one is probably one of the more moronic ones. Though I still feel the need to charge people what I think is fair for something and not some figure I pulled from the heavens.

Seems we have a lot in common. Been doing this adult thing for a few months and have already been fucked twice. :thumbsup hah I'll do business with you anytime man! Don't lose all hope...there's many more like us out there.

Oh I am far from loosing any hope at all. I do not get hit financially that often and rarely can I give up more than what I would consider free time to people so I am not hit that way often either. It is a lot of my own choosing, I know this.

I just was thinking about it today, so figured I would vocalize it.

you are one of the few genuine people i've met through this biz, and don't deserve to get fucked over in any way, shape, or form

Well thanks. :upsidedow

Thats where you are wrong. You need to think of everybody as a scumbag, unless they prove it different. Not the other way around.

i'd hit it :upsidedow

I do not know. I would much rather plan for a potential fucking and think the best in someone than assume everyone is a scumbag and hope to find good people. I think that type of attitude shows and rubs off on people.

"Do unto others as you would want them to do unto you." You might want to rethink your whole concept there. Respect is everything and that concept builds none whatsoever.

it does :2 cents:

Enjoy getting fucked over, then.

And with that line you prooved my previous post.