What would you do if an old love called you?
 

If you broke up for reasons other than love?

And, you're happily involved or married..maybe with kids...

Would you see him or her?

negative

Try to keep her on the line, I charge $2.99 a minute.

Someone *I* loved, or someone who loved me?

not a good idea at all.

:1orglaugh :1orglaugh


If was was involved I wouldn't see them

I get this call every few months, always find myself avoiding it.

rotfl

That gets you a capitalist-of-the-year nomination! :thumbsup

I don't think so...Doesn't sound like a good idea. But I don't know what the reason was so...I mean if this person is your soul mate and you're still in love with them then ...You're fucked...lol Seriously, it all depends on the situation...Are you happy right now? :2 cents:

Depends on what the hell they wanted...

Let me post the obvious.

How happy could you be in your relationship if you are asking this question?

If you are going to cheat on your girlfriend or wife and maybe your kids . . . I think everyone here would agree that you should make sure that the slut is HOT!!!

I want you to bang her so hard that you hospitalize her!


go!

I'm overjoyed....:)

This is hypothetical...

I was thinking..there are times when people seem to be at cross purposes and the love affair simply doesn't work out...school, religion, parents, etc...shit happens.

They make movies about these star crossed lovers all the time. I was wondering what people do if the past emerges...

Depends on the person. But more than likely I would pass.

happened to me... she called and asked what was happening and thru conversation i made sure to tell her i was happily married... she said congrats and that we should all get together sometime... she and i are on good terms, but i really have no interest in hanging out with her...

No. Its over. Let it be in the past.

It's not cheating if there's no sex.
:)

Interesting responses....no temptation to see what he or she looks like? Or to see if that spark was still there?

you can be a scandalous hoe if you even think about seeing them,

it is your past get the fuck over it,

i mean what is there to gain in "seeing how they are doing"
thats the same as "lets see if this person is still as good in bed"

people are fin scandelous these days, if you have any thoughts about seeing or being with anyone else DONT BE IN A REALATIONSHIP.

DUH.

No, probably wouldnt out of respect for my wife.

You clearly have no issue with cheating on your girlfriend or wife and kids, so the only question is . . . is she still good looking enough and/or that the spark is still there?

I say don't worry about looks or sparks, just rip her jeans off and take her 5 ways to Sunday. Don't even ask if she is interested in sex, just do it!

Just don't tell your girlfriend, wife or kids. They won't understand.

I probably would, I am like a cat, curiosity gets the best of me.

I pray & hope for this every day of my life. My ex took off in 1997. I had a son & a daughter with her & havent seen or heard from them since. It broke me apart emotionally & took a few years to heal on the surface, but inside, it slowly kills me. The grace of God gave me two beautiful daughters with my wife that I have now & this has helped a great deal in the healing process. Before my 1st daughter with my wife was born, I was a miserable wreck inside. My 1st two, however, are always in my thoughts, my dreams, my heart & soul.. now I am upset & cnnt finish this post...............

I'm thinking I might, at least, talk to the guy..we did, after all, have a history.....and I'd tell my honey, too.

And, to those who don't read...this WAS hypothetical. NOT REAL!

Definitely not... Unless I planned to get a divorce... :D

I wouldn't see her... but I've never had an "old love" ;)

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id decline the call. once its over over there is no turing back. if it was for a reason other then love and it didnt work out why would it work now?

ok, maybe a little... :upsidedow

Nope I wouldnt even answer the call

depends.

ie: My hubby had an ex fuck buddy who I knew and liked. When she found out we were dating..she acted very strange. The few times we ran into her out in public , she all but tried to fuck my husband in front of me. I knew they had a hot sexual relationship and I wasnt jealous.. but I was not happy that she was acting like a fruit all of a sudden..she was married with kids herself. If she came around after many years.. it would be to fuck my husband..no bones about it, she would not be welcome.

I have a guy whom I have loved since I was 23, I even told hubby that if anyone I was soulmates with..it was this guy. We never hooked up as a couple for one reason or another..We only kissed once and that was when he found out I was leaving the state and he didnt want me to go. He has always stayed in touch . Last year he came to town, but hubby was working..so we hung out at the house with the family and shot the shit for a few hours which is all he had. The next time he came to town, he took my whole family including hubby our for some good dinner and a good time.
He called me the next day and admitted his purpose was to come up here and see if I was happy and if I wasnt ..to steal me away. He is respectful enough to see I had a good thing going and didnt want to even fuck with that. We still keep in touch.

I guess that might be some thing wrong but I would see her.:)

Ex Fuck Buddies. Um. No.

Old lovers, though?

Interesting, the paths we travel....for one reason or another, sometimes we don't get together with someone we love...

I'd tell my honey and I'd go to see the guy, if it happened....

Happens all the time . . . but I am not involved so no harm, no foul

if you're committed already, hell no!

Why not?

And, I'm asking out of curiousity...would you be concerned that he or she would want to start up again and that you might not resist temptation?

yes I would.... not with kids though.