The wife walked out
 

Yesterday night my wife walked out and left me with our two kids. Our kids are 6 and 8 years old. This has got to be the hardest day of my life, she left me for another man that is a total loser. Im lost guys and just do not know what to do I have no family here, I am finacially strapped until I move to Oregon but I will do what needs to be done to take care of my kids.

At least you have your kids. Good luck.

I'm sorry to hear that. :(

Ok I'm sorry. I'll send her back. Already sick of her anyway.

I guess its time to get a younger one anyways! She is 32 Im thinkin a 22 yr old will help me get over this alot easier.

Ah ok so I suck.

Genuinely sorry to hear that man.

what a trick
sleep with her sister/mom/dad whoever lives closer

Sorry to hear that but at least you have your kids.

No warning signs? None of my business...best of luck :Oh crap

In all seriousness it will take alot of time to heal this was an 11 yr relationship. But I cant wait to show up a successful hot young PYT.

yeah at lease you have the kids, I go through hell to see my daughter when ever possible. thou my gf didnt leave me for another man.

Keep your head on your shoulders, life is a bitch sometimes but you got your priorities straight. Take care of your kids, they are going to need alot of support when their mom suddenly dissappears. Just take it day by day and stablize your financial situation. Good luck man.

We had our moments she was a lazy person and never done a damn thing to better herself. I work fulltime and go to college fulltime. But I never expected her to do this to US.

yeah, it fucking sucks. been there (slightly different situation, but yeah). it will get worse before it gets better, just grit your teeth and bear it.

Guys you may not realize how much I appreciate the support! This is very hard for us, I have schedule a date with a counselor on Monday for us to start the healing process.

Damn dude that truely sucks. But at least you have the kids with you. Just keep your head straight, i'm sure it will just get better from now on

keep your head up, dont let the bitches ruin you, at least you know now rather than later,

grit it out and move on, def. go and get layed, it will help you think more clearly knowing that you still have "game" type deal.

good luck and best wishes. :thumbsup

If she's going to leave you with the kids, have her sign over custody completely. Child support, in theory, runs both ways. Other than that, heads up, life sucks but it always gets better.

Cherish your children, thats the most important aspect of the disaster.

Yeah I havent spit no game in 11 yrs I was a faithful husband. My game is so old its probably lame. But once a mac always a mac.

She says she will give me custody as long as she gets visitation. I just need to find out how to make this happen. I do not have the money for a lawyer.

If she's not going to fight it, you just need documents drawn up. It shouldn't cost that much to have a lawyer do it. Really, very little. It gets costly when people fight it.

You might consider contacting your local University's Law college and asking if any of their students can help provide something at minimal or no cost.

The reason why this is important is you don't want this coming back to haunt you later. She decides a few years down the line that her new life isn't all it's cracked up to be, and hey maybe things would be better with her kids around more. She goes to a lawyer and now you're in for a fight with huge costs. :2 cents:

That is terrific advise. Where would I have to file these documents? With the state court system? I plan on moving to Oregon in about a month.

Gotta love how heartless some people can be...

Hopefully it will work out in the end..it only hurts for a little while

not in my experience.

first things first, go for full custody NOW.

Because most likely once she settles in she'll come take the kids.

Secondly, man. I don't even know how I would deal with that. I did it to my ex.. left her then went with another girl and our son stayed with ehr, but we left on terms.. not just fucking off and dumping the kid on her. I am very active in his life.

Please, for the sake of your kids, get full custody ASAP because she'll rip them from you soon enough and the those poor kids will be hurting again.

Heard this story over and over again. Why Im going to stay singl for a while

hey man "you're young and full of cum".. btw.. take care of your kids

That sucks man. Best revenge is to live well .....

nah its all good, i just mean that have faith, there is plenty of women out there, u were faithful, you're a good guy, one in a few probably, when you go out and be around women show alot of confidence,

it will shine and the pussy will flock. i also suggest you do not date for a while, take a break and keep telling yourself "its ok to be single"

which it is, you got 2 kids what else do you truly need other then some pussy once and a while?

dont forget there is also alot of middle aged women also in your situation probably just looking for some dick, find em, be friendly and stick em for your old boy meta. :winkwink:

Personally, I'd suggest getting a handgun, a 40 of Jack and an eightball. Drink the jack, snort the ball and sit around listening to Nine Inch Nails "Terrible Lie" and Eminem "Kim" on alternating repeat. The rest will come to you.

Most of the local universities will have a law student do it. They usually do a great job, and for 1/8th the cost.

That is the right attitude though. Use this as motivation to be the success you want to be. It will be great to see the look on her face when you run across her in your luxury car and twenty something blonde girlfriend.

You are exactly right I got to move fast. She cant give the kids the kind of life I can I have a 85k year job waiting on me in oregon.

Courage! All I can tell you is stay focused just put your energy in the right places.

Haha right on!

I will be burning the phones up in the morning.

ok. Now that your over your ex wife, time for some new pussy. Congrats man!

Good luck trying to make the best out of the situation ... some bitches deserve to die

Maybe I will hit the next Vegas gathering you guys have.

bro that fucking sucksssss.......................

Yes it is dude. Its fuckin terrible! I never wish this to happen to anyone. The hardest part is talking to the kids about this.

She will be running back and I will shut her ass DOWN. She will realize that I have dreams and ambition and plan on doing something with my life and the bitch will hate herself for it. I started at the bottom with the company I work for and now I will be at the top in about a month.

Do you guys think its possible to purchase the legal custody documents I need online? I am sure I will find a site that has this but would you think these documents would hold the weight?

where did she go?

sorry to hear about this. I wish you the best of luck. :(

nor mine :( :(

dude :1orglaugh :1orglaugh :1orglaugh

rob she is in VB somewhere is all i know she left our vehicle at a local store up the road from my house and left with another man. Left me home with two kids knowing I have school four nights per week and need to work. Luckily the school and work has been giving me support.

Hey guys I found this online:

________________________________________ ("Custodian") shall have custody of ________________________________________ ("Child"), and control and supervision of _________ [his or her] upbringing, subject to the following:

1. ________________________________________ ("Non-Custodial Parent") shall have the right to visit the Child once each week, on either of the following days, between the following hours, respectively: (A) on ______________ [day of the week] between _________________ [starting hour] and ______________ [ending hour] or ______________ [alternate starting hour] and ______________ [alternate ending hour]; or (B) on ______________ [day of the week] between _________________ [starting hour] and ______________ [ending hour] or ______________ [alternate starting hour] and ______________ [alternate ending hour].

It is agreed that the Non-Custodial Parent will notify the Custodian on or before ___________________________ [day of the week and time of day] whether the Non-Custodial Parent intends to visit the Child and on which of the designated days and times. If the day or hour selected is inconvenient, the Custodian will notify the Non-Custodial Parent no later than ___________________________ [day of the week and time of day], and the Non-Custodial Parent shall be permitted to visit the Child the alternate day or during the alternate hours.

2. Nothing contained in this agreement shall be construed as an obligation or a duty on the part of the Non-Custodial Parent to accept custody of the Child at the time or for the periods indicated. The intention of the parties is that the Non-Custodial Parent's right of visitation shall be entirely optional to Non-Custodial Parent, and should the Non-Custodial Parent so desire, Non-Custodial Parent may waive the privilege of visitation on any occasion and for any reason, without waiving Non-Custodial Parent's right to future visits.

3. _____ Not applicable, or _____ Due to the present immaturity of the Child, the Non-Custodial Parent shall not at the present time be entitled to take the Child away from the Custodian's home for any period of time. However, if at a later date, when the Child becomes older, the Child personally expresses a wish or desire to accompany his/her Non-Custodial Parent and spend with that parent a period of time other than the periods set forth in this agreement, the Custodian will consent to such partial custody at that time and for such period.

4. The Custodian shall promptly notify the Non-Custodial Parent in the event of illness of the Child. The word "illness" shall be deemed to mean any illness, other than any illness from which the Child is now suffering, which shall confine the Child to bed for more than two days.

5. On all matters of importance relating to the Child's health and education, the Custodian shall consult and confer with the Non-Custodial Parent, with a view to adopting and following a harmonious policy.

6. Neither party shall do anything which may estrange the Child from the other.


________________________________________ Date: ______________
Signature of Non-Custodial Parent

________________________________________
Non-Custodial Parent's Printed or Typed Name


________________________________________ Date: ______________
Signature of Custodian

________________________________________
Custodian's Printed or Typed Name