I Can Have Sex With Them, I Just Can't Masturbate With Them In Mind
 

From today's blog entry:

lucky bastard

why are you telling her who you are thinking about?

Because if you're touching them she thinks it's just something physical and that you don't really think about them after that. If you're stroking to them when they're not around instead of her, then she thinks you lust for them more than her.

Like Baddog said, you shouldn't be telling her your thoughts anyway. I could never be a nude photographer. Commitment would go right out the window.

It is virtually impossible to rub one out to the woman that you are with emotionally in a relationship...studies have been done, its almost a scientific fact.

You should also be asking your self whether or not she is setting you up for the future. Meaning not to long down the road she is going to bang some other dude thinking that the rules apply her way too.

One of the wonderful (and challenging) things about any non-vanilla relationship is that the rules and boundaries can be totally unique. Once you step away from traditional monogamy, you get to (must) make your own rules. Sometimes they may not even seem rational...but being honest about desires and feelings is a pretty amazing place for a relationship to be. Kudos to you both!

Who says they don't already apply to her too? :)

I tell her everything. It's very liberating.

oh ok thats cool then.

but let her know it really is almost impossible to rub one out to someone you are emotionally involved with.

the day you can rub one out to her is when she should be worried.

He TELLS me that he can still rub one out to me, now if that's the truth who knows LOL :winkwink:

It is indeed. I do it all the time. Mind if I post my favorite photo?

HELL NO!!! that is for your personal use...

How are you making it so the page that the entry is on is only doing half the title in the url in wordpress?

Some people just don't really care about fucking other people ... but they don't care if their loved one does it... love dosen't only revolve arround sex

Being honest about desires is a great thing... just don't expect anyone to be honest about shit they don't have a way to prove.

By not using wordpress. :)

I use blogger.com and select the option to post to my own server.

Definitly ... having a bisexual girlfriend that bring backs girls for you is every man's dream... but gosh it can be a nightmare if the communication about fealings and other stuff is not good.

yet you get in trouble for doing so . . . may be liberating for you (ease the guilt possibly), but doesn't sound like she wants to hear it, if it is upsetting her :2 cents:

Ah ok thanks :)

If you are not judging, and honest too, people can be real... but people are way too selfish, even in relationships

ah, no wonder she sticks around. gets the money and is able to bang other guys. haha, just fucking with you but seriously do you have to make a post like this every week?

When you touch something does it turn black?

It doesn't really upset me, I think it is more that I want to hear him tell me that he still finds me attractive enough to use my body as a sex object and masturbate to it. I LIKE to hear that. I understand that a man needs to look at other woman and that they can't help what turns them on. In a way, I guess I am just being selfish and wanting his attention while masturbating on me. It kinda turns me on when he tells me that he was masturbating to me, espcially since we have been together almost 5 years. At least I know he still finds me sexually attractive.. :)

Who wouldn't?

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Exactly! She's hot. She still turns me on more than anything!

He's one lucky bastard.

Indeed. :)

just my cock.