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MaxCandy 10-29-2005 10:22 AM

Swinger Clubs, Do you go? Do you like em, Do you know WTF i am talking about?
 
Swinger Clubs, Do you go? Do you like em, Do you know WTF i am talking about?

Babagirls 10-29-2005 10:23 AM

Swinger Clubs?? They're mainstream now?? *ears perk up*

MaxCandy 10-29-2005 10:24 AM

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Originally Posted by Babagirls
Swinger Clubs?? They're mainstream now?? *ears perk up*

Been mainstream for long time, just far more open to gen public now

Donny 10-29-2005 10:24 AM

I'm interested in going, but haven't done so yet. If diseases weren't an issue I'd be all for it. I know... I know... every precaution is taken. But still...

MaxCandy 10-29-2005 10:29 AM

Dude, 1/2 the people at swinger clubs are well very educated and aware people, Doctors, lawyers, my last time there i hooked up with hot school teacher with the execption of some clubs in Budapest SEx is always very very safe!!!

And swingers are more safe than that last drunk girl YOU/I/WE picked up at bar!

MaxCandy 10-29-2005 10:30 AM

Vienna http://www.frivoli.at/home.html

MaxCandy 10-29-2005 10:30 AM

Prague http://www.swingersclub.cz/

MikeyFingaz 10-29-2005 10:31 AM

i used to be a member of one locally... havent been in a long time though... the wife is very bi, and we are thinking about going so she can see if she likes it or not.

Monique Niccole 10-29-2005 10:31 AM

I've been to Plato's in South Florida. And no, I didn't have sex with anyone there. The people were fairly disgusting.

However, I've also been to a few alternative lifestyles parties in South Beach and Orlando (Bliss parties) that were good and full of hot girls.

C_U_Next_Tuesday 10-29-2005 10:35 AM

I had the unfortunate experience to go to one while in Vegas a few years back. Since I dont swing, I just observed and stayed close by my g/fs side so she was not shoved in a room and gangbanged without her consent. I do know that there were so many single men looking for free pussy it was repulsive and pathetic. I had to knee a fucker in the balls and put him up against the wall for just thinkin I was there for him to fondle at will.

This I am sure is not tolerated at "real" swingers events so my experience was tainted.

I like to fuck in public.. but I dont like to fuck other men..my hubby I am sure would love to have another big boobied hot babe to join us.. I just am not that secure anymore..lol

Donny 10-29-2005 10:35 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MaxCandy
Dude, 1/2 the people at swinger clubs are well very educated and aware people, Doctors, lawyers, my last time there i hooked up with hot school teacher with the execption of some clubs in Budapest SEx is always very very safe!!!

And swingers are more safe than that last drunk girl YOU/I/WE picked up at bar!

Yeah, that's what I've been told. But my mind isn't comprehending it yet.

MaxCandy 10-29-2005 10:42 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by C_U_Next_Tuesday
I had the unfortunate experience to go to one while in Vegas a few years back. Since I dont swing, I just observed and stayed close by my g/fs side so she was not shoved in a room and gangbanged without her consent. I do know that there were so many single men looking for free pussy it was repulsive and pathetic. I had to knee a fucker in the balls and put him up against the wall for just thinkin I was there for him to fondle at will.

This I am sure is not tolerated at "real" swingers events so my experience was tainted.

I like to fuck in public.. but I dont like to fuck other men..my hubby I am sure would love to have another big boobied hot babe to join us.. I just am not that secure anymore..lol

Sorry you had a bad experience, it can be hit and miss, like any party,. I highly recommend a club (Candles) in Paris, like studio 51, they only let hot people in, at French clubs in general you do not even know your at a swinger club until you go behind the curtains, very classy

MaxCandy 10-29-2005 10:43 AM

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Originally Posted by DonovanPhillips
Yeah, that's what I've been told. But my mind isn't comprehending it yet.

All swingers i have met are cool and relaxed, take a lady friend and go for a drink

Donny 10-29-2005 10:46 AM

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Originally Posted by MaxCandy
All swingers i have met are cool and relaxed, take a lady friend and go for a drink

Belinda and I have been invited to just sit and mingle. No need to join in. We may do that. It would be a new experience, anyway.

MaDalton 10-29-2005 10:47 AM

i was just looking for a few in my area recently - but i'm not sure if it makes sense to go there without a female companion. i don't want to end up like the guy Betty beat up. :helpme :1orglaugh

C_U_Next_Tuesday 10-29-2005 10:50 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MaDalton
i was just looking for a few in my area recently - but i'm not sure if it makes sense to go there without a female companion. i don't want to end up like the guy Betty beat up. :helpme :1orglaugh


Hey it could work out great... we can go..tell everyone I am a voyeur only and really get off on that and you can ''swing" :thumbsup

MaxCandy 10-29-2005 10:50 AM

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Originally Posted by DonovanPhillips
Belinda and I have been invited to just sit and mingle. No need to join in. We may do that. It would be a new experience, anyway.

Do it man!

fetishblog 10-29-2005 10:51 AM

I don't swing, but my girlfriend likes girls and that works out well for the both of us. :)

kacy 10-29-2005 10:53 AM

The place in my area will not allow a single guy to go in. You have to go as a couple and have to go in before hand and talk to them about why you want to come there etc. like they want to make sure neither person is forcing the other type thing. They will allow the couple to bring a single, but no single guys whatsoever. Even if the couple separates sometime during the night, if you are single guy just sitting they will come up to you and tell you have to remain with your partner. I think they just never want the girls to feel uncomfortable at any time.

MaxCandy 10-29-2005 10:55 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MaDalton
i was just looking for a few in my area recently - but i'm not sure if it makes sense to go there without a female companion. i don't want to end up like the guy Betty beat up. :helpme :1orglaugh


Going, as solo is tricky, best bet is to call club, tell em you a newbie and trust their recommendation.

You?re better off taking ANY girl, than no girl at all. I do real well when I take brain dead models, guys give me there hot wifes, for hot model with void between her ears. Also feel no jealously when she is banging other guy

Me bad

I know

Rinaldo 10-29-2005 10:58 AM

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Originally Posted by Afrekete
I've been to Plato's in South Florida. And no, I didn't have sex with anyone there. The people were fairly disgusting.

However, I've also been to a few alternative lifestyles parties in South Beach and Orlando (Bliss parties) that were good and full of hot girls.

Yeah the bliss parties are pretty wild.
I've been to a couple underground club parties that were invite only.
It's nice to see a large group of people safely practicing a life style.
I'm not into it but it's still interesting to watch and talk about.

MaxCandy 10-29-2005 11:00 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Rinaldo
Yeah the bliss parties are pretty wild.
I've been to a couple underground club parties that were invite only.
It's nice to see a large group of people safely practicing a life style.
I'm not into it but it's still interesting to watch and talk about.


Good to hear all of us porn pushers are actually into sex

MaxCandy 10-29-2005 11:01 AM

FYI

This is probably best directry for clubs in world

http://www.swingersclublist.com/Swin...ist-World.html

MaDalton 10-29-2005 11:14 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by C_U_Next_Tuesday
Hey it could work out great... we can go..tell everyone I am a voyeur only and really get off on that and you can ''swing" :thumbsup


i'm now busy starting to look for a club in Vegas for January... :)

adultchica 10-29-2005 11:20 AM

I've been to a swingers club once in Austin, Texas. It was absolutely wild!

MaxCandy 10-29-2005 11:23 AM

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Originally Posted by adultchica
I've been to a swingers club once in Austin, Texas. It was absolutely wild!

Is it true? You know that thing about everything is bigger in Texas?

vicki 10-29-2005 11:37 AM

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Originally Posted by C_U_Next_Tuesday
Hey it could work out great... we can go..tell everyone I am a voyeur only and really get off on that and you can ''swing" :thumbsup

C_U - just wear a tiny pink ribbon, they'll know you to be a 'soft swing' (aka no full encounters). Believe it or not over 30% of members are in the same category ; )

MaDalton 10-29-2005 11:40 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MaxCandy
Going, as solo is tricky, best bet is to call club, tell em you a newbie and trust their recommendation.

You?re better off taking ANY girl, than no girl at all. I do real well when I take brain dead models, guys give me there hot wifes, for hot model with void between her ears. Also feel no jealously when she is banging other guy

Me bad

I know


hmm... something to consider. :1orglaugh

MaxCandy 10-29-2005 11:42 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MaDalton
hmm... something to consider. :1orglaugh

you bad too

i know

Holly 10-29-2005 12:03 PM

No, I've never been.

I don't think I'm adventurous enough.

MaxCandy 10-29-2005 12:08 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Holly
No, I've never been.

I don't think I'm adventurous enough.

Luck favours the bold

QuaWee 10-29-2005 12:32 PM

I am just scared I might catch a disesase

MaxCandy 10-29-2005 12:43 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by QuaWee
I am just scared I might catch a disesase

Repeating:

1/2plus the people at swinger clubs are well very educated and aware people, Doctors, lawyers, my last time there i hooked up with hot school teacher with the execption of some clubs in Budapest SEx is always very very safe!!!

And swingers are more safe than that last drunk girl YOU/I/WE picked up at bar!

WarChild 10-29-2005 01:04 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Holly
I don't think I'm adventurous enough.

You'd better let me be the judge of that. :pimp

steffie 10-29-2005 01:07 PM

We have been going to Swinger clubs since 1989.. Actually tonight we are going to a private Party with a bunch of swingers. Not at the club but in their home.. It's fun, I always liked it. But its not for everybody

BlackCrayon 10-29-2005 01:10 PM

seems most swingers clubs are full of 40 year old + people who are bored in their lives.

MaxCandy 10-29-2005 01:39 PM

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Originally Posted by BlackCrayon
seems most swingers clubs are full of 40 year old + people who are bored in their lives.


not true,

some are 20-30

others 40+ they reflect society

Smurfette 10-29-2005 02:35 PM

We are in a few local swingers groups here and in March we will have our first swingers club opened up.

We are not in our 40's and we are very happy with our lives. Some people get the wrong ideas before you even know what its all about :2 cents:

Smurfette

RawAlex 10-29-2005 03:16 PM

Swinging, like any "social" activity, runs in circles of people.

Higher end swing clubs tend to feature more beautiful people, younger, more in shape, and more into looking hot rather than just the fucking. At the other end of the scale is the more mom-and-pop type situations, where you will often find crowds running more in the 40+ bracket.

Some clubs and groups are couples only. There is a really big thing in the american swing community about not permitting single men, many clubs will not allow single guys to attend or will severly limit their access in the club, having areas reserved for couples and such. Too many of the single guys going to swingclubs have no clue how to get laid in real life, and have poor relationship skills. They come to swing clubs looking for the easy lays and the pile on group sex situations. Honestly, most of them give me the creeps.

I have attended a lifestyles (swing group) convention, and I learned much about the situation inside that group and it's members. I would say be observation that the average age of a couple in that group would be closer to 40 than to 30... there are exceptions to the rule, but organized swinging is mostly NOT a young person's sport in america.

Finally, it should be pointed out that operation of a swing club for profit is a business on very shaky legal ground in many cases. Things like licenses for alcohol and such are hard to get if your club allows (or encourages) sex on the premises in many states and counties in the US. Even charging money to enter can make them into a common bawdy house, which can also be an issue. In many states, swing clubs get raided and shut down for various reasons.

The result of this is keeping the swing lifestyle sort of on the fringes, in the dark, and just slightly out of sight.

Alex

MaxCandy 10-30-2005 01:40 AM

Good info!

Paul Markham 10-30-2005 02:59 AM

did the swingers scene back in the late 70s and early 80s. Would be boring now.

Sorry would rather book an escort for Eva and me.

MaxCandy 10-30-2005 06:50 AM

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Originally Posted by Paul Markham
did the swingers scene back in the late 70s and early 80s. Would be boring now.

Sorry would rather book an escort for Eva and me.

Besides we both know Eva would get all the attention, Hot Girl!!

bigdog 10-30-2005 07:18 AM

i have been to a swinger party wasn't that impressed, but learned that day some guys will just fuck about anything

MetroPornTour 10-30-2005 07:20 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MaxCandy
Swinger Clubs, Do you go? Do you like em, Do you know WTF i am talking about?

I love L.A. couples
I love Xtabi in Toronto
I love Club Orange in Quebec.

But for the most part I like Swinger clubs and NOT Exchangiste clubs.

Quotealex 10-30-2005 07:35 AM

There been too many arrests at swing clubs for me to go to these places. Plus they charge single guys a $100 admission fee to gangbang a girl, and you don't even know what type of girl it will be. At the price, I can get a cute call girl all for myself for 45 minutes. :winkwink:

LadyMischief 10-30-2005 08:20 AM

Yeah we have been to quite a few... depending on the people there it can be an amazing atmosphere. Most swinger's clubs though are "off-premise" clubs for legal reasons though, so the real fun happens at the parties afterwards. There are some clubs that allow some activity on premise, but the real appeal is the fact that the vast majority of the people are fun and accepting. Really all depends on the club. ;)

xclusive 10-30-2005 08:22 AM

Nope i'm happy with just me and my wife and a guest every now and then

MetroPornTour 10-30-2005 08:38 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Alex from Montreal
There been too many arrests at swing clubs for me to go to these places. Plus they charge single guys a $100 admission fee to gangbang a girl, and you don't even know what type of girl it will be. At the price, I can get a cute call girl all for myself for 45 minutes. :winkwink:

The price for single men at a swinger club should be $500 per 30 mins.
Personal opinion:
Single men have NO FUCKING PLACE IN THE LIFESTYLE!

Now thats not a reflection on how great the guy might be. I just don't want them saying they are "Swingers."

Holly 10-30-2005 08:41 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by WarChild
You'd better let me be the judge of that. :pimp

Sounds very good to me. :Graucho


(on the way home from the club, lets shoot at homeless Costa Rican people with our guns)

MaxCandy 10-30-2005 12:23 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MetroPornTour
The price for single men at a swinger club should be $500 per 30 mins.
Personal opinion:
Single men have NO FUCKING PLACE IN THE LIFESTYLE!

Now thats not a reflection on how great the guy might be. I just don't want them saying they are "Swingers."

Generally i have to argee!


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