Girls: If you fake orgasms, you're stupid.
 

(This is obviously a thread in reference to a relationship, not acting in a porno)

After reading the "BradM - I made my girl cum 11 times the other night" thread... I read over a few of the female responses, some of which admitted to faking orgasms.. .

you're sealing your own fate when you fake, you think that will ever inspire a guy to get better? no, hes going to continue to suck in bed while he thinks hes giving you the ride of your life, and you're gonna continue the life of a $2 starving actress.

if a guy isn't getting you off, fucking TELL him! don't let the poor bastard live a lie, a lie which will eventually come to his attention. better to hit his ass with a reality check sooner than later.

if you think it'll hurt his feelings, boo fucking hoo. he needs to know. :winkwink:

Agreed!!!!!!!

Why fake it, especially if you're going to be in a long-term relationship with the guy? By faking it, you're being VERY counter-productive. Yeah, he might be happy and all that right now, but you'e only encouraging the same behavior by faking the orgasm.

Hell, teach him how you like it, and there are many creative, fun and unobtrusive ways to show him what you like. :)

(For someone who has given sex advice as aprt of her job for a few years, i'm decidedly less-than-sexed. Dammit. :( )

Great post! :)

Always be true to yourself and your partner.

I know a few ho's will come in here spouting shit about, "Well what if it's just a one night stand!"

What's the difference? You aren't being nice to a guy if you're lying to him. Of course it'll be a blow to the ego once he realizes he can't make ya go, but if you tell him nicely what his problem is - he'll work on it and will be much more thankful in the long run.

Sometimes girls fake orgasms because they can't be bothered having sex, and are just trying to get their lover off.

a guy can always generally tell if their 'significant other' wants or wants not to have sex - and personally, if she doesn't want to, then i don't want to. but i guess most guys aren't like that :winkwink:

And hey, what better way to ensure that we don't want to have sex anymore than to repeat the wrong things over and over ad nauseum. Girls, faking it for ANY reason SUCKS GLASS SHARDS.