Why do guys take off their wedding bands when they go out ?
 

I was out with the guys last night and I bumped into one of my old school friends. He was telling me how he's in town for a few days, that he has a wife and 3 kids. His brother said "Yeah, you're married, but where's your ring ?", he held up his hand and with a smirk, showed me a bare finger.

It kinda puzzles me because I also have a cousin that takes his ring off, plus I know of another person that does the same thing.

I myself have been with the same woman for 15 years and married for 5 of those years. When I go out, I'm proud to be married to her and it'd never cross my mind to take it off.

Is it that guys just don't give a shit about their wives that they think that because the ring is off that everyone forgets their married and they can try to fuck who they want, then when the night is over, they can magically be married again and life goes on OR is there another reason that I'm overlooking ?

men are weak and will cheat if given the chance and most long and yearn for it

true, that

Twenty years ago a ring made it pretty unlikely that you could get lucky in a pick-up joint.

Now it is an asset. The ladies don't want a relationship. Just a good role in the hay.

:thumbsup

I hate to say it, but a lot of women do it too. So we can't get too mad about guys.

I don't have to worry about it though. My husband lost my wedding ring a few weeks ago, so if I go out, well then I don't have to worry about hiding anything.

absolutely agree - since I got married this summer I have had more girls etc. hit on me when they see the ring. Apparently many of them are looking for sugar daddy's or fuck buddy's that are not "needy" or demanding that 'you are my girlfriend so serve me'... thanks to all the fucktards out there who treat their women like shit and pretend to be a player

rings = pussy

they are usually scumbags that want to cheat

my wife made me promise that if i was going to cheat on her - that I have to bring the girl home so she can enjoy her as well. :winkwink:

but there is no reason to cheat if you got married for the right reasons. Priest told me that if I can think of anyone better to marry, then dont marry at all. After a few years, I cant think of anyone better than my wife - though we do have a shit load of 3somes LOL

For some reason or another, there are chicks who don't want to fuck a married guy. If you don't lose the ring, you decrease your odds of getting laid.

I'm sold. Where do I order?

This question is pretty obvious.. they want to get laid.

Because its hard to smooth talk a girl with it under your tongue. :)

to get pussay

Girls do it too..

I was out with a bunch of girls, and this girl I worked with...had the most awesome ring, she took it off and put it in her pocket. I lost respect...her business not
mine.

Think of it as scrubbing, lol
Better not to fuck those chicks that don't do married guys anyways as they are usually the ones that cause problems once they figure you out.

and you have much more chance of getting strange pussy with a ring based on my experience, so you actually increase your odds by wearing it.

Slick, your wife is very lucky to have you. :thumbsup

men cheat are you serious? post a link to cnn where they can confirm it.

women do the same shit go hang out in any hotel bar its full of married women who would fuck a guy that they like his looks

I don't know, because from personal experience, when the ring came on, it seemed as if the opportunities rose. There are quite a few "ladies" out there, guys too of course, that WANT to fuck married people. Whether it is because there is zero chance of commitment, or it just makes them feel good to "take" something that didn't belong to them, who knows. All I do know is that a ring does not plug the hole.

geroge kastanza

That question is all about respect

am sure ur wife dident want the ring smell pussy when you get back home ^^

I know many a married men that actually say they get MORE attention from chicks while wearing the ring, so that blows at least half the wives theories about cheating right out the fucking water.

Hoes are quick to assume the worst case scenerio in almost any situation... why should it be any different in this situation?

stupid question. why do you think you silly bastard

i think men that wear their rings get more ass then those without.

in the words of Will Smith: "If you wanna get hit on all the time, then get married."
he said the most attractive thing a person can do is to get married. he was talking about how after he married Jada, that he got THOUSANDS upon THOUSANDS of women hitting on him & making 'offers' ("anywhere...anything...anytime!" said one girl in a club to him).

i believe this to be true.

that andthe thought of knowing that they've still got their "mojo" . I guess married ppl miss the "chase" so they go out and pretend that they are single.

i must agree that women have the tendency to want what they cannot have. and they often get tired of it once they get it. so yeah, if you want to get laid you keep that ring on. those who take it off are amateurs

Slick, you're one of the few true-blue dudes out there. You and the missus are a great couple, no sense wondering why other people do what they do. Cheating's for losers.

wedding rings are chick magnets. I used to wear one when I was single just for the action it pulled in.

unfortunately true :pimp

Another thing, some also have condoms on their wallet. :winkwink:

guys that take em off think it will help em get laid... they are looking for a 1 night stand or some side pussy... but they are too old fashioned in thier thinking... girls these days that want a fling are gonna go for a married dude before the single guy... when i go out without my woman i dont take my ring off... not because i think my chances of getting laid are better, but because i respect my wife too much to do that to her... besides, she's pretty damn hot and she likes to have 3somes with other women, and more often than not other bi-sexual girls are really attracted to her.

i'd be a moron to cheat of my wife... she is hot, bi-sexual, faithful to me yet still a nympho, looves to bring women home and help me fuck them, she will make a great mom to my kids when we have some, is a very caring person, 12 years younger than me, can cook pretty well, likes all the same hobbies as me such as motorcycles, shooting guns, going 4wheelin, cool cars, and sex... basically i get to have my cake and eat it too

plus i wont cheat on her because i care about her feelings too much.

if you cheat on your spouse you are not someone I would ever do business with...cheating shows a lack of respect for your life partner, and if you can cheat on your life partner it would probably be extra easy to fuck me over for a few dollars

cheating is for asshole scumbags

For real?! ...

i never wear mine, lost like 25lbs and it don't fit now, i plan on working out eventually and gaining it back, so not going o have it resized.

i got married last week..and i never wear the ring..it annoys me

:thumbsup amen to that..it puts anyone extremely low on the respectability scale.

I'm proud to wear my ring, but I've discovered that it's a useless excuse when you're out on a bucks night - strippers don't give a shit when you show them the ring! (And if anyone is wondering, the lovely wife knew where I was going and was fine with it :) )

that's something that i don't understand...

if you're compelled to cheat on your wife then get divorced (or don't get married if it's something that happens early on). there aren't many "sacred" things in a persons life, marriage outta be one.

Amen. I disgusts me to see people disrespect their partners, period. I'll forgoe the long elaborate reply as to why i think i'm right but if you think i'm wrong it's you that needs to do some explaining.

I don't understand the cheaters, you got married for more than sex and you're willing to risk it all for one night of some lovin'?

I have people say oh wait seven years, then you'll want to have sex with someone else... I don't think I will.

I am coming up on seven years, and I still feel the exact same way about my wife that I did when I met her the first time

we may have way less sex then the first year that we knew each other (like twice a day), but that goes with the territory...and to be honest, i don't need as much sex nowadays...

It is a macho thing. Go figure.

the men do lot's of things for a fresh pussy
this is just one of them

Dude your sig is great.

Ha an ex gf once said to me that women tend to go for guys who wear rings - simply because of the ideals behind it. ie commitment yadda yadda...

So if he was looking to pick up then he probably should have left it on?

was that part of the priest's recommendations as well? :1orglaugh

best way to attract girls who are looking for one night stands : PUT your ring ON :upsidedow

bottom line, don't get married.

i have no problems being in a long term relationship but i will never wear that white dress. the word marriage has such hyprocrisy attatched to it these days. who needs a piece of paper, especially in this day and age, to show you want to be with someone? quiet pathetic imo.

There are a lot of reasons, mostly legal and financial to get married.

You may devalue it but most trivialize it.

If marriage was useless and pathetic, do you think gays would be fighting so hard for it?

what kind of woman wouldn't want to get married?

oh yeah, one in the porn industry :1orglaugh

I would take out my ring if I wanted to get an one night stand :)