Friends that steal from you?
 

Long time friend of mine is moving out of my place tomorrow, and she's packed a few items that are mine ...nothing of any real value...but it's odd that she thinks it's hers.

Should i beat her up, steal it all back or something else?

comments please!

Friends who knowingly steal are not friends IMO.

Might be an honest mistake and just ask for them back

Don't sound like much of a friend.

exactly... what goes around comes around. karma is a bitch. so on & so forth... in my opinion few things are worse than a thief... if you steal from someone you are supposed to be friends with, then that is some low shit.

some people just dont really seem to give a fuck about trying to be a descent human being. below are my listings that i think are worse than thieves... you will notice there are only 2 things listed above thief.

1: child molesters and/ or rapists

2: fucking politicians (but they are just thieves on a grander scale really)

3:thievin' pieces of shit.

Just ask her where the fuck these things are when you see her next !

That's a paradox
If they still they're not friends
If they "needed" the money, they still should give it back, but in this case it's forgiven, IMO

stab her with a kitchen knife

thats like pizzas that arent round - friends dont steal

she stole it

then a bitchslap would come in handy

cut her heart out with a spoon

Two of my best friends live togheter.. and one of them is sure that the other one is stealing from him.. :(

Is she hot

similar thing happened to me a few years ago. I asked and it was simply an honest mistake.

Don't go accusing them of anything - just ask them where such and such is or if they accidentally packed this or that of yours.

Couldn't have said it any better. :2 cents:

it all depends...

After living with my b/f for 2 years, I don't really remember what is his and what is mine. So just talk 2 her and say that u need it blabblabla...

My answer is different than it was going to be from just reading the subject line.

In this case since it involved a roommate situation I agree with the comment above that over time one could make such a mistake, especially items as you said were not of any real value. If it's something you want tell her nicely that she mistakenly packed it. If it's not something you really want I would just let it go.

Now responding to the "Subject line"...
As I have gotten older I have whittled my friends down to a tight knit group that I would never have that problem. :)

just kill her

Maybe she just doesn't realise they are yours.

If they've been in her room or possession for a while she may have grown to them and is just thinking they are hers. I'm sure she isn't stealing them. You make it sound like she's a criminal.

Oh and posting on GFY before asking her...what kind of friend does that make you?

Ask her first. Maybe you just forgot those times when you gave those things to her.

tell the bitch to give your stuffed animals back!!

hope she didn't steal your Barbie doll!!

If its just small stuff, I wouldn't worry about it unless its a big deal to you. If we're just talking about things like plates, utensils, pillows, towels type deal, its easy to forget who actually bought them. But if it is a big deal, just bring it up and talk to the person.
WG

most guys just quietly withdrawl from this crap and let it slide while most women in this same position make a huge fuss about it and stand their ground all the way.

(the word DIVORCE comes to mind!)

She insisted the crap was hers, so to avoid arguments and be fair, I helped myself to the 2 gig of ram in her new pc (that I built for her)

Fair is fair, right?

I am not really that selfish when it comes to my belongings. It's a pleasure for me to share things to my friends as long as they are not taking advantage of it.

I have seen very good relationships fall apart because of money that's why I don't incorporate money into good friendships.

you stole my virginity :disgust :(

fuck her in the ass when shes asleep

if they have no value, let her have them and consider it getting out cheap

Friends that steal,

forgive them, and forget them,

they are idiots, morons, and worthless......

not worth wasting your time or energy on.

If she's hot = give her more stuff in hopes for bj or more
If she's an ugly hoe = get your stuff back and let her know who's da man

You need some serious confrontation with her. Anyway, doesn't sound like she's really your friend..

Confront her before she gets away with your stuff..lay on the beats if she doesn't listen

Normally I would kick them in the fucking throat! In this case just tell her that you want your shit back and that mistakes happen, but these items are yours. If she refuses, then kick her in the throat and sew her eyelids shut with her veins!