Invited to party with my EX GF - should I take a part ?
 

We have been together for 7 years and now she is with another idiot (like me- paying all her spends).She costed me a lot of money and I will never forget that
We had some good friends and they invited us both - Michael invited me and his wife invited her.
Should I go ?
If I go I might bring some nasty problem there - Its very possible and if I stay at home I could look like scared pussy.
so ?

Just hope she doesn't know you're going to an internet forum for help or you'd really look like a scared pussy! :1orglaugh

It might be taken as rude by your hosts to not show up, so go and have a good time.

Take a bottle of wine for the hosts to show that you have some class. If you have the chance to see your ex, be cordial to her and her new beau.

Oh yeah, take the hottest bitch you can find and be sure she wears skimpy clothes so everyone at the party will say how much better you did this time around.

Giggle as your ex storms out first.

go there, get really loaded, talk about how bad she was in bed infront of the other people, then beat up he new husband,

it will make you feel alot better. :thumbsup

and your hosts and inconsiderate for asking the both of you. :2 cents:

dont go.......

Go, so you tell us what happend ;)

you should go :)

go there, drink soda, be the man

stay at home! Go meet another woman!

I was invited to a birthday party that was also my birthday party, my gf and I were to be there but my ex was also going to be there as she is a friend of my sister, "I have a daughter with my ex" and before the party my gf bitched about how its my birthday and my damn ex is going to be there.. sure enough my gf and ex gf spent the night together drinking shots and dancing, while I played pool.

Straight up face tell them you are happy for them both and wish them the best bring them a bottle of quality wine for them to share together, not showing up nor giving them shit will not work at all

Good luck showing up at that night its not easy at all

Go and show everyone you're the man.

Out of which rises the inevitable one word question.

Threesome?

I would go too, don't hide. Go and have fun, just ignore her if she tries to be rude, show her up and be cordial!

This is the best advice!

Just go to the fucking party and have a great time. Who cares what ppl will think. You can fight right?

go there so she will be reminded of her biggest lost.

Thats some straight up jerry springer shit yo! :1orglaugh

:1orglaugh :1orglaugh :1orglaugh

I don't think it would do you any good if you create some problems there; stay, post on this board, and of course never underestimate the power of angry masturbation!

Go there with another guy, she will feel think it was her fault and feel guilty all night.

Bring a hot looking date and have a good time

I have a party at my place tomorrow night - a few of my ex-girlfriends are coming. Was that a mistake? :Oh crap

no, we're all pretty good friends. :upsidedow :winkwink:
And I invited some other hotties so they can see what they've missed. :winkwink:

Go and bring the hottest escort in town

hahahahaha that'd be hella funny

Go to the party and have fun. Become wildly successful in your chosen profession and have all her friends say "see, that coulda been you" .

This is really the best advice! I would do as he said... ;)

Two things he's leaving out:
1- He's still madly in love with her.
2- She came home and caught him fucking the secretary in their bed. :1orglaugh


I think you should go to the party so I can hear about the story. I also told you two years ago that you should either beat his ass, or do some major begging and ass kissing to get her back.

For me I think you should go... show up and bring some girl too (if maybe), show her that you have finally move on (unless if this is true), its not your lost to let her go... its her lost! and have some fun there!

no way man, fuck her. tell her to go pound sand up her ass. call up your boys and go get drunk that night and meet some new girls.

Slash her tires.

Then go to the party and ask why she didn't show up and be sure to make everyone agree that not coming is 100% rude!

my first choice would be to explain to your hosts that you would love to spend time with them, but that you are not comfortable with your ex in the room. after all, that is the truth.

failing that, show up with a bottle of wine and a hot chick hanging all over you. give them the wine, smile at the room for a few minutes, and then leave - make sure the girl you take is in on it, so she can really make it look good.

Higher a super hot escort for the night and go have a blast :thumbsup

and yes thats what i would do. :thumbsup

Is this the same girl you talk about every few months & post pics of or am I thinking of someone else?

I would go with a hot piece of ass and tell her to dress slutty. That's just me though,,,

I don't see anything in attending her party. In the first place she's your ex now.

I would also go and bring a really hot girl with me.