Ladies, what does a guy have to do to make you Cum?
 

So I am curious, how does a guy get you off in bed? In a perfect situation, what does a guy have to do to make you Cum?

We are talking about technique/favorite body part/things to say, it can be anything.

Tell us what you like in as much detail as possible.

Lets make this a good in depth thread ladies!

bumparooo ladies

get me on top.

More kissing and licking... I feel so sexy when a guy kisses me the whole time... for me I do like this one...


The missionary position

In the missionary position,
The woman lies on her back, with her legs spread either flat (horizontally on the same surface as her back), drawn up towards her chest, or wrapped around the man.
The man lies on his stomach on top of the woman, with head and feet aligned, his legs between her legs, and his groin at the same level as hers to facilitate penetration.

:1orglaugh thanks for the definition lol

That worked, thanks.

dude... you know nothing about cybersex

take her to the mall....

lol someone wants to jerk off I take it

Stacey, so kissing is your thing, great stuff, thanks!

Mandy elaborate :)

i like lots of dirty talk and nipple pinching while i'm on top. :) elaborate enough? lol

...and pay for everything. :)

imaginax lots of sex questions lately ay.....haha. I may not be a lady but one rarely ever goes a session with me without having got off. Did that make sense? haha im tired.

"It has alot to do with clitorus stimulation. I've only given one girl an orgasm using Oral sex...simply because I don't do it. I've given hundreds of orgasms all through vaginal intecourse and clitoral stimulation of some kind. Whether it is with my finger, or through my strokes. Girls being on top allows them to recieve more clitorus stimulation through the grinding.

I am the only one of my friends that I know that has given a girl a purely Vaginal Orgrasm, vaginal walls...that means no clitoral stimulation of any kind....it happened once and yes it does exist.

Be sensual, whisper but not too dirty, tease her with little kisses while you have sex, time it with your motion. Switch up your strokes. Short ones that tease the vaginal entry and stimulate the clitorus are key. A great way to judge whether a girl is really enjoying herself or not is her ability to kiss you back. If she can't (lacks the ability too lol literally) than your most likely going down the right road."

good luck.

most women cannot have an orgasm from only vaginal penetration.

Mandy I am a sex god ;)

I have giving multiple orgasms without any direct vaginal stimulation (just the grinding motion) while a girl is on top. But the Holy Grail is doing it in missionary position while i am -sitting back on my legs. haha i really need to go to bed.

a sex god huh? good deal. :)
yeah who needs vaginal stimulation? lol

Kissing for me gives the touch or caress with the lips as an expression of affection, passion to one another...

Penetration is quite deep, and the woman can control the depth and intensity of penetration. Some people have speculated that there may be a marginally lower risk of pregnancy due to the effects of gravity. Evidential support for this is lacking. Clitoral pressure may not be very intense, but can be provided by hand, or by the man periodically semi-withdrawing and manipulating his penis against the woman's clitoris, or by other means.

One on one sex - Tell jokes and just play. Best orgasm I ever had was after my husband and I jumped around on a futon mattress pretending to be Big Bird and Cookie Monster.

Other then that, I'm into orgies and group sex. I always cum in a foursome.

ok.....??

The woman on top position, also called the reverse missionary, amazon, or cowgirl, is a type of sex position. In this position,

the man lies on his back
the woman sits on top of him facing him, with his body between her legs, and with her groin aligned over his to facilitate penetration.
The man lies on his back; the woman sits on top of him facing AWAY from him; The woman may stimulate the man's genitals from this position. Another advantage is that the man may view the woman's back, which some find to be an erotic stimulus.

lol are you looking to up your post count? lol

Stacey, you rule. Keep it coming.

gfy Girls, get in here!

Stacey knows her stuffs :winkwink:

:smokin

:1orglaugh That's classic. Good man!

haha.. Stacey you sound like a sex technique book! :1orglaugh :thumbsup

Start stupid threads on an internet message board.



mmmm..... oh yeah

oh yeah, yes

oh, god.... oh, god!!

YES!!

YES!!

YES!!






thanks.

Stacey_JoinRightNow is a dumb postbot.

gotta try the hot techniques on this thread.

uhm, interesting..what else girls??

This is an interesting thread, always nice to hear what the ladies like :)

i dont like oral..i've had way too many guys that didnt know how to eat a chick out, and its scared me for life :(
(NOTE: sucking a clit through your teeth does NOT feel good :disgust )

anyways...i love a guy that can give me alot of foreplay, teasing, mind games, and then fuck me for a good 30 mins or more without stopping or slowing down. i just love to fuck. theres no tricks to make me cum EXCEPT that you must LAST MORE THAN 20 MINS lol

Napolean just winks at me and I cum :winkwink: OMG he turns me on SOOOO much!!

He's gonna kill me for this :uhoh :1orglaugh

Tristian, give us your input as well :)

lol Im here reading all this, but I donno if I wanna tell the world how to get me off..

Babagirls, if you met a guy who actually was good at oral sex, would you change your mind?

Also girls, and maybe babagirls can chime in as well, what makes a BAD oral sex experience?

Easy --> Prejaculation before penetration and trying to finger as though the pussy's a piece of wood you're trying to perform martial arts on.

Hah, thats a good one

Mental stimulation. Once you've got her brain everything else falls into place. You've got to figure out how to spark her curiosity. I dont care how good the dick is, if she's not really really into you, she wont cum and if she does it will take a long while. If she is totally into you and has been thinking of you before she goes to sleep, once you get her wet it's a wrap. After the mental stimulation is achieved that's when you start to worry about technique. Kissing and a lot of passionate grabbing is best. Women love passion and they love to be controlled. They love when you squeeze their hips, grab the ass and pull the hair but timing is key. You cant just slap the ass just because. If you're hitting it and you hear her getting louder, slap that ass and let her know who's running shit. Good 4play is ideal. Take time to touch all areas of her body and listen to her reactions to certain things. This way you figure out what she likes. The question that you asked is really broad because different women like different things, you just have to figure out what she likes.

Have to agree, no matter what I know for sure my GF cums when I fuck her like that. No doubt.

i would bet a million bucks that you're good in bed. you are exactly right.

The most mind blowing sex is from when theres LOTS of foreplay (days, weeks, hell..even YEARS of flirting!!), and mindfucking is the best..then to be dominated (as a female) BUT the roles have to be reversable in a heartbeat & without any disruption of flow.

My most mind blowing sexual experinces all included foreplay (for weeks & 1 guy, for YEARS), mindfucking, and a complete understanding of the person in general, as a human being. not just as a piece of ass.

theres sex.....and theres fucking. sex is whats great, fucking is what animals & humans do to cum in any amout of time it takes. the choice is yours.

I do alright. :winkwink:

well, considering im not single anymore, i doubt that will ever happen (sadly enough). i've had so many guys give me the whole "but i'm the BEST at it!" and they end up sucking more than the last guy that attempted & failed lol


what makes a bad oral experince? heh..where do i begin?
1) the clit + teeth= OUCHIE
2) do ya wanna wait till im wet before you stick your dry finger in me & moving it in & out too fast please?
3) FIND THE CLIT!! KNOWWWWW THE CLIT!! All guys lick the wrong area, as if there first time eating pussy.
4) STAY focused on the clit, lick it continuously and very fast.
5) if im not moaning, thats a bad sign.
6) if im snoring, thats a really bad sign.
7) dont be afraid to spend more than 10 mins on it.
8) fingernails on the clit (for those who do find them), HURT LIKE HELL. its like a paper cut on your dick..kills the mood. just grab your clothes & go cuz at that point, its over.

i really could go on and on but its gfy...wtf is the point? not like anyone will open their minds to the possiblity that they are FAILURES when it comes to eating pussy, instead of taking advice from a female that know what the hell shes talking about. :disgust

so, whats your name Tiger? :winkwink:

lol - The name is John. I saw your site, looks like you've got a pretty good handle on the business. I was a little dissapointed by the lack of pictures. Your name is?

oh by the way "6) if im snoring, thats a really bad sign." - That's funny stuff.

What about gently slapping the clit on occasion and cupping the pussy in a up and down motion? Then going back to sucking on the clit? Does that fall into good oral?

check, check, double check and my GF still doesn't like oral. A shame because I love to give it to her.

some gals just dont like it (for whatever reasons). we're not like guys (99% of guys love to get head lol) alot of women just dont like it. doesnt mean you're doing something wrong.

ask your woman flat out, "what am i doing wrong? how can i please you better?" LISTEN to her...she knows what she likes and will tell you how to get her off. but if she just responds with "i just dont like it"....then she honestly just doesnt like it. :(

nice to meet ya John :) You can call me Baba (most people do). I dont like having pics of myself online at all. I was going to add a pictures category on babagirl.com but decided not to. heres 4 pics of me.

and yes, gently slapping the clit here & there is okay (i like it myself). the cupping thing is more for when her pants are still on & your still in the foreplay/teasing mode. slapping the clit during oral is defiantly part of good oral (in my book anyways). :)