My gf loves erotic asphyxiation. Is this comon?
 

Is this common or am I lucky mofo? I decided to choke her one night and now she makes me do it all the time lol.

Don't you find it just a little weird?..too hardcore for me

She loved it when I tried it...

I've heard that lots of girls like it, never done it though. Is she into BDSM or something like that?

if you do it when they are climaxing it is supposed to multiply it times 10 for them.

but be careful dude....alot of precious delicate things in the neck.

Yes avoid this during angry sex, make up sex, and drunk sex. Oh and any time your pissed off or otherwise distracted.

As for lucky mofo? Well if you think lucky means getting to strangle a chick sure you are. No real bennifit to me if I could though.

Great find you have there. Last girl I was with liked me slapping her around, choking her, gagging her, etc etc. Good stuff. But I'm a sadist. Most people aren't.

The great thing is when it gets out of hand or you do it wrong or leave a mark and she either dies or gets pissed off at you and says you tried to kill her.

I would stay far away from a bitch that wanted me to choke her. That's fucked up.

Its not as common as it used to be due to natural selection.

It's very common. I've talked to several girls about this... :2 cents:

Just don't leave any marks, that could seriously bite you in the ass

Sounds scary to me! :Oh crap

if she likes and you enjoy doing it go for it. i'd rather kiss her neck then choke it

I knew a guy, that worked with my friend...He was doing this, by hanging himself while climaxing.It look like he had been doing it for a longtime, while alone.

He was found on a Monday morning, in his apartment dead, naked with cloths pins on his nipple's.

From that day on, if my g/f showed the apartment, I would have to go with her.
They also went through his stuff, before his family could and it was a good thing,
he had alot of twisted stuff around.

I personally think it's to dangerous.

Not common never ran across one, but on the other hand I have never just tried to choke a girl when I am fucking her.

Yep also that how that kennedy cousin got busted for murder it had gone wrong.

i had one girl who enjoyed the choking thing

not like even during sex
just hangin out she would be like " choke me " and i would do it and she would seriously like it

was pretty fun lol

Im not sure about choking but I like a women to push me around and take it how she wants no questions asked, anytime any place.

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As for myself, I never run accross one. But this new one girlfriend I have... she likes a lot of things, I still even tried them all yet. Good stuff. :Graucho

Lord, there's a lot of sharing going on in this thread.

Wouldn't that be ironic if you accidently killed her and then while you are serving time for second degree manslaughter, your bunk mate decides to make you his bitch and he has the same fetish?

To answer your question, it's only common amongst sick and twisted people.

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I am not into it at all But I am all for whatever two consenting adults do in their bedrooms, is their business and no one else's.

lol - good one...

A legitimate laugh out loud

i like it. it turns me on.

I like the hands around the neck (especially when doggy) but still be able to breathe. Yeah, I think I like it better than gagging on cocks. :Oh crap

I was with a girl who liked it, but I just couldn't do it. I just kept thinking that if something bad happened and she died, I'd have one hell of a job explaining this to an officer.

Lot's of girls I know really like it. I can't take it as far as they want me to tho.

I think ill just stick to getting my ass slapped...
Having someones hands near my neck freaks me out, I cant handle it..

I know a dude that died this way too. :helpme

Hands to the throat with some pressure can be rockin'.

Bad news.....

Shut the fuck up retard.. :disgust

Yeah some girls like it.. My ex kept trying to elude to it and when I final did it she liked it but I couldnt feel good about it.. But whateva.

Michael Hutchence was a fan... Now look at him...

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one word: "8mm"

It's an extremely dangerous form of play, hon. I don't even play that way and there's a lot of play that I enjoy.

If you're going to do it, though, PLEASE PLEASE take the time to learn how to do it correctly. (Yes, there is a correct way) See if you can find Someone in the local community who is very good with breath play - BDSM clubs usually have at least One breath play afficianado.

"Strangulation here takes on a specific definition: the pressing down on the carotid arteries, the two that are on each side of the neck. People think this cutting off blood flow to the brain is a better method, as it avoids the possible crushing of the windpipe, but in fact this is worse. Number one, it?s impossible to tell when someone is about to go unconscious, and number two, as little as five seconds of strangulation has caused death, because a message is sent by the brain to the heart telling it to slow down. Occasionally it can slow to a zero rate, and quickly cause death."

not my kind of thing. its very scary and dangerous.

Ive had a girl once who was into that. I was (and still am) fascinated.

Choked herself semi unconscious during sex.. freaked the shit out of me.
Not just sex but like JupzChris said random "choke me" .. like she needed a cigarette.

Later i learned from her parents that as a kid she used to hang herself and once choked herself unconsious. I dont think they will ever relate it to sex or are aware
its still a something she deals with.

Its addictive and VERY dangerous. The stuff your brain creates when its lacking oxygen is like XTC or and LSD trip like experience so once youve gone there and LIKED it you keep redefining borders. Scary shit and scary people who do that.

Playing with fire, guys. Never mind the possibility she could get really injured, but try explaining your fetish with the cops. If she goes into the hospital, the staff will ask a LOT of questions and likely you'll soon get a visit by the boys in blue.

Not only that, what happens if the relationship doesn't end in a way she's, uh, comfortable with. What's to stop a psycho from going to the cops claiming you tried to kill her during sex? If you really know her, fine, but never, ever, EVER underestimate what a spurned woman is capable of ... and the cops will always believe her over "well, your honour, she *wanted* me to!"

There you go. Even if she chokes herself. What do you tell the cops with a dead girl laying in your bed?

The fact she chokes herself means only one thing: issues. Its not a normal fetish.. its in the same group of "lets cut myself" fetishes. You dont want to fuck with that and those type of people.

Interesting i have read a book by sydney sheldon.. they were taking videos while the girl is being choked during climax.. damn scary dude.....

Not my thing, but if it makes you 2 happy, go for it. Just learn how to do it properly.

Lacking oxygen in your brain is neither like mdma or lsd nor their experience. You might get some more mileage out of comparing it to doing nitrous oxide or going under any other anesthetic that knocks you out or impairs your consicousness.

:Oh crap That is not my thing. My girl would hate me if I do that to her.

It's actually not that uncommon a thing. Breathplay is rather widespread in the fetish world. In fact one of the ladies who models for me regularly teaches classes on breathplay.

Plus some of the breathplay galleries I've posted on my pay-per-view galleries sell really well. Bound and gagged ladies with plastic bags over their heads do well... (There's a hole behind their heads where the camera can't see, not to worry... ;) )

Yeah, she could sue you big time..

Looks like the ladies know whats up more than the guys ;)

I was watching a tv program the other night actually about this...it was charting the story of three couples who had all lost their partner by this means. I know lots of people do it for years etc but as with everything like that there are risks. The only thing that saved the first guy from jail was the fact that he and his gf had years worth of videotapes proving they indulged in this frequently and that she was a willling participant.