How can you bring erotic feelings back in a 13 year old partnership?
 

I mean erotic feelings, not sex. Sex is still here. But i wish for me and my partner to have those erotic feelings back.

any suggestions? Or is it simply impossible after so many years?

LSD/XTC

just a guess

Try new sexual acts.

Why do people always want to share their fucking personal problems here? it's WEBMASTERBOARD !!!! get a fucking life and some REAL LIFE friends to shere it with damm it!!!

Red aroma therapy candles, red bed sheets, a nice Kaya Beaded Mosquito Net in red, some ambient music and a little GHB wouldnt hurt. Also read better sex through chemestry.

correct me if im wrong, but isnt this the "Fucking Around" part?

xtc will do it.


total inhibition, find out fetishes your partner has you never knew about or could ever dream of.


:thumbsup

yes - "fucking around" and not "my personal life is a faliure"

Treat her the way you use to when you first started dating :2 cents:
I think most people forget that a relationship/marrage is something you have to work at. It's not handed to you. Build your relationship and the erotic feelings will slowly come back.

hire 2 or 3 big black guys :)

Just because people age and mature, doesn't mean a relationship has to, in all aspects anyway. Have fun and be spontaneous like younger couples tend to be. Playful teasing, laughing, laying in bed and just talking and cuddling (yeah, that's probably lame to some of you 'macho' men *rolls eyes*)... Passion for your partner usually comes from the small things they do or say... try not to overanalyze the relationship and harp on everyday life problems so much and just enjoy yourselves! :)

A good start is asking somone who cares.













Kidding, well kinda, there is so much testosterone here, this is maybe not the right place to be asking don't you think? (noted your sincere reply FF! ;) )

A weeklong vacation at Maldives will do. :thumbsup :winkwink:

roll her over and bang the "other" hole.

show them your desire is real...by that stage most of us forget to show our partners we really do have desire for them and what we do isn't just out of duty