Married People On GFY......How/When did you know....
 

that he/she was "the one"?

What made you say I want to spend the rest of my life with him/her?

Any thoughts would be appreciated...


-JDL

lol you're fucked man...

:sadcrying :sadcrying :sadcrying :sadcrying

well hopefully you guys signed a pre-nump and it's all good...

oh wait she's an lawyer though huh, she probably makes more than you...

we aint married yet yo.

She makes very good $$$ , she isnt a partner yet in her firm. Money wise I think we are on same page give or take meaning salary/yr but asset wise I have more on the table

She's a lawyer? Shit, if it comes to splits or divorce, you're better off killing her. She'll clean up being a lawyer!
WG

When you can see yourself holding her hair while she pukes into the toilet, when you can imagine changing her diaper when she's old and debilitated, when you can imagine kissing her when she has gained 300 lbs....if you can picture all that and still have a hard on to screw her, she's the one. Seriously, if you can picture her at her grossest, most Godawful, and still love her, then, she just might be the one.

Yes, I'm happily married for 7 years, so my pearls of wisdom have credibility :1orglaugh :1orglaugh :1orglaugh.

......Litigator yo.

Even a prenup won't save you then. Take her on a trip to Aruba if things get bad :)
WG

As to answer the question, well, i'm not married or even close for that matter but when she's the first thing, last thing on your mind when you get up, go to bed and you're able to hold a conversation for several hours, have similiar interests, and can see her as the mother of your children, that's a good indication that's she's probably the one. But hey, what do I know...
WG

fuck you juicy! j/k i just wanted to make a married people roll call thread :1orglaugh

a trip to aruba??? :1orglaugh :1orglaugh :1orglaugh

Yo come to Vegas. tim n ramos are in my room , we can fit you in the tub.

Just pay for airfare. the rooms comped.

After such a huge exhaustive search for that Natalie girl, Aruba looks like a good place to get rid of people :)
WG

:1orglaugh :1orglaugh :1orglaugh

The first time I looked in her eyes I knew she was the one. :)

Sounds like a gay fest to me, lol. I don't mind getting my own room and all, its just a hassle and seems like its gonna be a sausage fest in my opinion. I tend to follow the ladies, so if they go, i'd be all over it :)
WG

I knew when I didn't have to ask myself if this was the one for me or not. I don't mean to be a smartass, but that's the way it was for me. I had dated a few that I thought might be it, but that was the thing, I had to ASK myself. When I met "the one" I didn't have to ask, I just knew. And 22 years later, we are still extremely happy together and love each other dearly...... and not once in that time have I ever had to ask myself if I made the right decision, I just know.

Please don't take that as a smartass remark or a slap, but it's the truth, for me anyway. :)

when I couldn't imagine living my life without her.

I knew she was THE ONE when I realized how comfortable I felt around her. You'll know you're with the right person when you feel comfortable enough to just let out whatever is on your mind. No need to be a person you think you "have to be." No need for shows. No need for excuses. The right person won't judge you. The right person won't hold that against you. The right person won't have a hidden agenda. The right person won't try to control you. The right person won't try to manipulate you. The right person won't feel petty or act petty. The right person won't just seemingly accept (really a measure of not caring and/or insecurity). The right person just IS and YOU will REALIZE it.

The stuff above is just my experience and MHO. Everyone's situation is different. I've been married for over 1 year. Other guys who have been married longer may have differing impressions.

Ahhaha...

Yes, expectations.

There is no such thing as "The One".
Love is like a bad drug, it can really fuck you up if ya can't handle it.

a man only realizes what he had......once it's gone :2 cents:

Also applies to appreciation :2 cents:

very true :thumbsup

Isn't it great to fuck a lawyer after being fucked by them all the time? :pimp

Mark Tiarra made a comment once that's stuck with me: (paraphrased) If you'd want to hang out with her even if she had a penis, she's someone you can spend the rest of your life with :)

If that's normal then I'm not normal... :Oh crap

I'd say if you have to ask the question she isn't the one because if she was you would know. Maybe you are having doubts or questioning your own beliefs. It is a big step and when it is right for you you'll be able to get there.

I knew Mark loved the cock.....

I knew once we started dating and everything just seemed right now over 3 years later 2 years married everything is great. 2 kids and everything is still going strong. Only your heart can answer wether it's right or not. There is no shame in waiting til you know that she is the right one.

If you're thinking about marrying her a prenup isn' twhat you should be worreid about, if you're both in love it won't matter.
What's important is taht you make the best decision for both of you, don't rush into it just to say you did it, because the coolness factor dies really fast.

Sit and think about it for a long fucking time, move in first and see how you live together, give it time

marriage is fucking stupid.

" I knew she was the one, when her daddy pulled out the shotgun" -Roscoe

I have been married for 14 years this month to Deeprub..
When you find the right person.. You will know it.

:-)

Marriage is overrated.
Why do you need a piece of paper to prove you love someone?

Marriage license costs like $25.. divorce can cost thousands.

Want her out when you're living together? Throw her shit in the street and change the lock.

Want her out after you're married? Good luck cowboy.

I fell for my honey the first time I heard his voice. We are married more than ten years.....now.

The best way to screw up a perfectly good relationship is to add the "M" word to it :) I just live with my guy. Over 3 years now. No need for an attorney and extra BS if we ever decide to call it quits. Of course who knows. If 30 years from now we are still together, we may get engaged.

hmmm i think it kinda just comes to you over time

Rest of your Life nowadays means 3-5 years.

For once I think I agree with you.

I've been married for 9 years and still dont know if she is the ONE or not. You never actually know man. Just follow your heart and let Nature do the rest.

ive'd been with this girl for more than 6yrs now and everytime i get to
see her, i fell inlove all the time

:smokin

The more important question is when did you know it was time to get a divorce. All good things must come to an end.

John and I have been together almost 7 years. Pretty much from the day we met. I knew it was for real when we had been together a couple months and he got a job in Ft Lauderdale and moved over. He was gone about a month and we were so miserable apart we were like fuck it. He quit and came back to Tampa and moved in with me. As long as we're together things seem to just naturally fall into place.

thanks evryone

The first time I kissed her ,that night I asked her to marry me and this Oct it will be 6 years :)

49.... just before evil doer/woj :321GFY