Some one explain to me a man's obsession with if Boobs are fake or real.
 

I really don't get this. So fellas, please explain it to me.

I think of it in these terms.
If a woman's breasts are fake. So what? As long as they look good it doesn't matter.

Conversly:
If natural breasts are mis-shapen, un-even, etc. Then who the hell would want to play with those?

So if the tits look good? Why does any man care if they are real or fake?

It's just not the same as real boobs, firstly you can almost always spot fake boobs because there's an unnatural effect to them. It just doesn't look right, I've only seen like 2 pair of fake boobs that actually looked good to me.

I do have to mention I have never felt a fake boob, my girl has a nice pair of natural D's so I won't ever have to :glugglug

It does matter a great deal, not that I'm gonna explain it.

Report back after seeing/touching them for yourself

I've seen many great boob jobs. And I've seen some really bad ones too.

But I've also seen some natural ones that look like pure shit and need a boob job.

Bad boob jobs come from people not taking the 10 mins to find out about the doctor, his work and not spending the extra money to get the job done right. (Or from people getting super huge ones) I've seen some porn chicks that have worked for "Natural tits only" companies. Simply because they didn't get over a C cup had the surgery done under the armpit. Even feeling them I couldn't tell the difference.

And the comment "It's just not the same as real boobs." is what I don't understand. I've seen guys not able to get bonners over this.

I always prefer the natural--a well shaped natural tits of course.

I have been doing lapdances with guys before when a chick with obvious fake boobs would walk by.. they would make a stupid comment like.."i hate fake boobs, I would never dance with girl with fake boobs".. thats when I would have to tell them they just did..now tip me my $20 and I will leave.

it's all in the sensation

now please show your boobs...

I'm really coming to the opinion that this entire "Fake" vs "Natural" breast issue is just another cover up for male feelings of inadequacy.

Some men have so many issues with performance anxiety that I believe they need a battery of excuses for why their penis won't work and it's someone elses fault.

IE: "Yea she was hot and sexy and all that stuff but when I felt her boobs they were fake. It's not my fault that she wrecked her body with that crap. I mean like how does she expect any man to react to un-natural plastic. When I'm going to be with a woman, I want a real women not plastic doll."

(Translation: The guy is intimidated and can't get an errection.)

I think a good butt is more important. It's hard to fix or to fake a great ass.

But you wouldn't mind great boobs, right? :thumbsup

:1orglaugh I think your psychology course went wrong somewhere. You just asked why someone would prefer real over fake boobs, male performance anxiety is not one of the reasons.

If a man is inadequate and worried about this I bet he wouldn't be telling his friends about the situation at all.

I like them both. It doesn't matter.

That last statement kind of proves my point don't you think? Men DON'T talk about it. Instead they develop all kinds of excuses to prop up their egos.

The entire fake vs real thing is completely stupid. Because good looking is good looking and saggy streatch marked tits are just as much a turn off as a bad boob job.

I think it is just the same reason I have seen men go after a relatively plain looking girl when a stunning beautiful one is standing right next to them. (Hell I get hit on more when I'm frumpy and in an old pair of sweats, than when I'm all vamped out.)

Men need to feel they don't have to 1) compete and 2) are in control.

And men that don't appear to suffer from performance problems tend not to have a preference either way on the fake vs real issue. And they will also take a chance and talk to the hot chick at the bar.

People can have opionions. Thread closed.

The only thing I don't like about fake boobs that it is bad for health to do them.

No that statement does not prove your statement, I meant if they experience such a situation they will avoid talking about thus not mentioning the entire encounter let alone stand make up a stupid excuse.

All you see is black and white, the world is not like that. Some people don't care about fake boobs some people even prefer fake boobs. I prefer natural boobs as they simply look better, as for the feeling I cannot judge it since I have never felt a fake boob.

Your comment about men disapproving fake boobs to cover up their shortcomings simply emphasizes that you are looking for some kind of validation for having fake boobs. People simply have preferences, some eat oatmeal for breakfast and others eat Cheerios, this doesn't mean one of them is trying to mask his inadequacy in bed. :upsidedow

Perhaps in your case your opinion is not based on feelings of inadequacy. But by your own admission it is based on limited experience. So limited in fact that rendering an opinion at all appears foolish.

You've seen a few photos and probably of obvious fakes. And thus decided that you prefer the real ones. If you never have touched one or had full experience with fake boobs you can't really come to a conclusion that you absolutely prefer real ones.

Given your cereal analogy, we must choose something more similar like regular cheerios vs multigrain cheerios. They look similar, but not exactly alike, so the regular eater decides not to try the multigrain, that he likes regular better simply because he is comfortable with what he knows. And thus we have your argument.

My argument is not to justify fake or real. I like some of both and I don't like some of both. But there is such a vocal issue made of this by men that there must be something else at play. Indeed those who say that they don't care are the same guys that I would expect to hit on me. With or without my tits exposed.

as long as the boobs look good it doesn't matter to me.

I think in my case, as far as the looks go, I'm well informed. I've been in this industry for over 2 years... I think I have seen thousands of boobjobs, I have seen docs on plastic surgery, the only thing lacking is real experience which I do not have the need for.

If you insist though, will you be my example? :upsidedow

LOL you are an idiot. It cant be possible that they just dont like them? Translation? Thats not needed. He said what was on his mind, but a women has to find some deep cause for it. Fuck it, he hates fake tits. Sucks for you that have them, quit bitching.

Doesn't matter to me at all.

I am a connoisseur of huge natural tits, so theres nothing worse than silly cone bombo to me. If I want to touch a couple of boobs with implants ,Ill go fill a couple of baloons with concrete ...

boobs are boobs for me .. big and sexy are always good

i didnt read the thread but real big nice tits feel 1000000000 times better

for me I prefer for the natural one :thumbsup

it really doesnt matter at the end of the day,some women are graced,its all in the genes...

Even if it's one of those very rare boobjobs that still suits the girl without looking silly or scary, I don't like what it says about her. Evidence that she's not my type. Exceptions made for people who actually need real reconstruction, of course. Otherwise you're just implanting big balloons under your skin out of some sort of misguided vanity and I'll take it as an indication that you have personality deficiencies. I'm probably going to get bitched out for saying so, but it's the same standard I'd apply to a dude determined to enlarge his shlong. Women ask yourself, how do you view those guys? No different IMHO.

as long as it looks good i don't care

2 years huh?

I'm no old timer in the industry but I'm not green either. And I did the real "PORN PORN Industry" Not the online photo handling stuff. And if I wanted to be a bitch and cause controversy, off the top of my head, I can name 5 girls that have worked for the big video companies that DO NOT film a girl with implants.

Yes their tits are that good they can fool even the "touch test." These girls spent close to 10k, got small implants (never over a C cup) and kept their mouths shut. I'm certain they would be pulling videos off the store shelf if they knew.

End result, is you have only seen BAD boob jobs. Because a "Good Boob" job is hard to spot.

As for as being your model. Sure why not? I'll attach a photo below for you.

And:


Now you see this is exactly the type of thing I'm getting at. This hostility, attack, etc about fake vs. real. Making this sort of "Strike" when they can spot a boob job or when the topic of Fake vs. Real develops is not normal.

Even in our dialog, you have never made a verbal attack. You stated your preference and reasoning. Much in the same way one man would argue he prefers blondes over brunettes. Obviously you don't have issues.


As I now consider this, I think comparing this debate to "died hair" vs. "natural hair" might be appropriate.

I have never seen a man become hostile if a brunette dies her hair blonde, or any woman with a die job. Instead the conversation is normal, "Oh I prefered you as a brunette," or "I like the new style," etc etc. No one says, "If I want to feel over-processed straw I'll stick my hand in a horse-stall."

And no man has ever turned down a lap-dance because the dancer dies her hair.


Ok here is a photo of me for you:

http://www.kokoom.com/hammysteele/ph...lond/c0007.jpg

as my favorite U2 have already said, nothing better than the real thing.

I won't argue with your reasoning. If a girl is only getting the boob job because she wants to look like Britany Spears or something stupid. You're absolutely correct.

But there are always exceptions to the rule. I actually know a guy who got his penis enlarged. But I will argue that he needed it. Fully errect he was less than 2 inches and about as thick as a finger. 2 years worth of surgeries, and some of them are experimental, he is hung like an average guy.

Maybe what we should be doing is getting to know the person first. (But that would make this a perfect world and not likely to happen.)

They look good, have to admit that. Maybe I get around to a feel test someday.

Horse shit. I've never once had performance issues and despise fake tits. You said earlier that there are good and bad real tits but sometimes imperfections are what make someone attractive. If I wanted a barbie I'd buy one head to toe.

Buddy, don't you think you're a little on the hostile side? "Despise is a pretty strong word." Hate/Dislike/Turned off/etc. Choosing such words as "Despise/Loath/etc." means you are commiting alot of energy and thought to the issue.

And this isn't a big issue to warrant such aggressive stands on the subject. Obviously something more is at play.

So perhaps you don't have performance problems but I'm certain with your temperment you don't get laid very much either. (Can't strike out if you don't go up to bat very often.)
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Pradaboy, you see the point I was attempting to make? Read above and tell me that kind of "hostility" is a balanced ego.

Now you see why I asked the question? You and many others simply stated a preference and thats normal. But, as you see, there are many that are just hostile.

Oh and thank you very much for the compliment. And just for your information. My boobs are soft. If I'm ever in the U.S.A. again, you can feel them all you want.