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$5 submissions 09-17-2005 02:51 PM

Money = Happiness?
 
Interesting article I dug up when looking for blogworthy materials...

http://www.cis.org.au/Policy/spring05/polspr05-2.htm

Excerpt: "It is a simplification to say that growth does not contribute to happiness. In fact, one of the few things there is a consensus about in this very young field of science is that money does buy happiness. There is an extremely strong correlation between wealth and happiness. Low-income countries report low levels of happiness, middle-income countries report middle levels and high-income countries report high levels."

My commentary: I'm not sure this is necessarily true. It may be true of middle class or upper class people in those affected countries. This may be due to the fact that they have the means to travel internationally and hence compare their relative status to those of similarly situated people in different countries. However, many of the (ostensibly at least) happiest people I've met have been people with little to no possessions.

Your thoughts?

Mako 09-17-2005 02:57 PM

Agree and always have.

There's a reason why the top 2% of Americans in terms of wealth live 10 years longer than the average middle-class Joe, and 20 years longer than those at or below the poverty line. It's because dying and going to heaven would be a step DOWN for them. LOL.

Better healthcare is the actual reason, but it sounded good. :)

detoxed 09-17-2005 03:01 PM

Well I can say when I was broke I wasnt very happy, now that I have some money to spend I am happy.

Alleged Indecent Exposure 09-17-2005 03:19 PM

I agree, poor people should die!

The Captain 09-17-2005 03:33 PM

whoever said money doesnt buy happiniess was never poor

u-Bob 09-17-2005 03:50 PM

having money does make one happy.

Quotealex 09-17-2005 03:57 PM

I Think I was much happier when I was a broke student.

Series 09-17-2005 03:58 PM

money != happiness

no money = unhappiness

:2 cents:

PixeLs 09-17-2005 04:07 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Series
money != happiness

no money = unhappiness

:2 cents:


Well, as what I've heard once, there is a difference between pleasure and happiness. Reach people always have several means to have pleasure yet, sometimes it's hard for them to find true happiness.

Happiness for me is a feeling which is synonymous satisfaction and contentment.

uno 09-17-2005 04:09 PM

Money is not a direct cause of happiness. However, it certainly provides more opportunity and freedom in attaining whatever form of happiness you are trying to find. Having all your bills paid, not worrying about a place to live, not having to deal with a normal day job 9-5 that you hate for your entire life to only live out the remainder of your existance in retirement depending on Social Security that you paid to your whole life does not afford much leisure time or elbow room to try to attain that elusive happiness.

Of course happiness can never buy you love or true happiness directly but it sure as fuck is a key tool in having the time, capital and ability to pursue true love and happiness.

My friend's father who was a major player at a financial firm in Manhattan was laid off(or fired because of some allegations) and went from prince to pauper almost overnight from a multi million dollar home to a rental barely bigger than a trailer within the space of a year. He was always fond of saying "We'll I've been rich, and I've been poor, and I have to say I like being rich better."

MikeyFingaz 09-17-2005 04:26 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Series
money != happiness

no money = unhappiness

:2 cents:

sums it up perfectly.... now if I could only find happiness.

Redrob 09-17-2005 04:36 PM

Lack of funds can cause illnesses to remain uncured, hunger, insecurity, lack of shelter, and a lack of options to correct the problem.

Once you move above sustenance levels, are able to educate your children, and have a satisfying, steady job, the amount of happiness that money buys diminishes inversely to quantity.

Eventually, you are filthy fucking rich. The lawyers, relatives, charities, and IRS are all beating the hell out of you. The children are fighting over who gets what and the grandchildren are spoiled little shits........you are back to unhappy again.

woj 09-17-2005 04:40 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Alex from Montreal
I Think I was much happier when I was a broke student.

same here :thumbsup

andrej_NDC 09-17-2005 05:01 PM

money = freedom
then it depends what you make with that time

tgpshack 09-17-2005 05:23 PM

having lots of money and not having to stress over finances, going bankrupt or whateever else people have to deal with I can see why you could say in a sense money does give happiness. I can tell you one thing though, those frikkin 6 years trying to snatch my wife was well worth it. And shes worth to me more than money.

Joe Citizen 09-17-2005 05:34 PM

Money equals comfort and freedom, not happiness as anyone who has met miserable, embittered rich people will tell you.

assmunk 09-17-2005 06:00 PM

I've thought about this before and i think the problem is this:

The (lower)Middle class has to spend a lot of time worrying about paying the bills, the mortgage ,and generally just managing the little money they have, on a daily basis . Because they are preoccupied with making ends meet, stressing about their car breaking down, about being late, about burglars breaking into their houses,etc. they have less time and energy to concentrate on things that are TRULY important in life:
Like Family(and/or Love), Friends, Leisure, success,etc.
---->
Having money to pay ALL the bills BEFORE they are due, having a safe/comfortable/fast car, having money to install state of the art security/surveillance systems in their homes, having a comfortable house with lots of entertainment(be that a pool,jacuzzi,home gym,pool table,plasma tvs,whatever) eliminates MOST of the above mentioned problems/stress factors....
So, the guy that's better off doesn't have to worry about all this petty bullshit and is able to concentrate on the things that TRULY matter, which equals a higher level of happiness.

I'd say if you're a down to earth person, who was happy to start out with, and manage to stay that way after hitting the point after which you don't have to worry about petty bullshit anymore, yes, money will make you happier.

But if you were unhappy to begin with and expect to just *BUY* happiness....make sure you stay on top of your game and STAY rich...cuz once you go broke, you'll lose

1. the hot 'girlfriend'(or wife) who was only with you because you had money
2. the toys you bought to make up for your unhappiness
3. the 'friends' that only hung with you because you had money to blow...
:2 cents:

wildgirl 09-17-2005 06:16 PM

I agree to that but for me love and respect=happiness :)

bufferover 09-17-2005 07:09 PM

Everyone got own understanding for happines.. but seems today to be happy by default is look great or got full pocket :)

assmunk 09-17-2005 07:15 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by dimitar
Everyone got own understanding for happines.. but seems today to be happy by default is look great or got full pocket :)

well, looking good, i believe, does affect a person's happiness...what do you think?

$5 submissions 09-17-2005 08:19 PM

Very interesting field of social science. "Happiness" means different things to different people. Also, it is situational.

digi 09-17-2005 08:25 PM

Well.. having no money wont contribute to your happiness so Ive never understood this reasoning. I could see how family / friends / doing something is what brings true happiness but that has nothing to do with money. Just because you get rich doesn't mean you cant have great friends or family.

$5 submissions 09-17-2005 08:34 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by digi
Well.. having no money wont contribute to your happiness so Ive never understood this reasoning. I could see how family / friends / doing something is what brings true happiness but that has nothing to do with money. Just because you get rich doesn't mean you cant have great friends or family.

Maybe a better analysis to counteract the study (link in first post) would be to compare the rates of depression and correlate that with countries' relative wealth?

COUNTERARGUMENT: "Richer" countries have higher levels of depression because they have the resources for better diagnosis.

It could go back and forth... Regardless, one of the key areas that the article didn't explore is the role of community and traditional notions of identity and its impact on 'happiness'. The richer a country becomes the more it tends to move away from such 'traditionalist' relations and formulate new ones. Example: comparing multi-generational vs nuclear family structures.

Furious_Female 09-17-2005 08:39 PM

Happiness is a broad term, it's different to each person.

Those poorer countries also have a lack of education. The more knowledgable someone is about the true meaning of life, the more they realize money does not buy happiness. When you are starving like many people in poor countries, it's hard to be 'happy.'

Again, one person's dream is another person's nightmare.

elitegirls 09-17-2005 08:44 PM

billionaires are not happier then others.. they have the same problems as we have.

just have fun and do want you wanna do.. let the luck work for you. et voila

:D

Joe Citizen 09-17-2005 09:50 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Furious_Female
Those poorer countries also have a lack of education. The more knowledgable someone is about the true meaning of life, the more they realize money does not buy happiness. When you are starving like many people in poor countries, it's hard to be 'happy.'


This makes no sense.

Are you suggesting you need a formal education to know 'the true meaning of life'?

By the way, what is 'the true meaning of life'?

galleryseek 09-17-2005 09:57 PM

it's very simple...

once you reach the financial status at which you're able to comfortably cover the necessities of life and "then some" - (this amount is usually around 50 to 60k a year), the amount of happiness any more money than that amount can bring you, is very very small.

this is because the material possessions attained from that leftover money after your necessities are covered, never bring you true happiness. material possessions can only bring a person short term happiness. this is why there are so many shop-a-holics, people are in search for happiness and it's the only way they know how to find it. it's definitely a flawed, shallow mentality.

$5 submissions 09-17-2005 10:35 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by galleryseek
it's very simple...

once you reach the financial status at which you're able to comfortably cover the necessities of life and "then some" - (this amount is usually around 50 to 60k a year), the amount of happiness any more money than that amount can bring you, is very very small..

This reminds me of Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs. http://chiron.valdosta.edu/whuitt/co...ys/maslow.html

Basically,what you are saying is that as you go up the pyramid, there's a diminishing return.

Hornydog4cooter 09-17-2005 10:37 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by c0d3
whoever said money doesnt buy happiniess was never poor


You nailed it right on the head :thumbsup

Furious_Female 09-17-2005 10:55 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Joe Citizen
This makes no sense.

Are you suggesting you need a formal education to know 'the true meaning of life'?

By the way, what is 'the true meaning of life'?

No, of course formal education isn't needed to know what is important in life. However, some countries oppress their people to the point that they aren't even easily able to self educate themselves. They are brainwashed to believe life and their opportunity in life is limited to what is all around them.

I was insinuating that the "true meaning" of life does not lie in material possessions or in money itself. If it did, we'd all be born with wallets attached to us. Everyone's life has its own individual meaning, but its safe to say in general, money is not the reason we inhabit this planet. At least, in my opinion.

Pleasurepays 09-17-2005 10:56 PM

money is not happiness.
money is freedom.

:2 cents:

Pleasurepays 09-17-2005 10:58 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by $5 submissions
This reminds me of Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs. http://chiron.valdosta.edu/whuitt/co...ys/maslow.html

Basically,what you are saying is that as you go up the pyramid, there's a diminishing return.

thats not what maslow said. the pyramid represents basic needs and once one is met, the next becomes more important and so on.

High Quality 09-17-2005 11:01 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Series
money != happiness

no money = unhappiness

:2 cents:

Yeah thats about right.

Being poor sucks

Being rich though does not necessarily mean happiness.

SmutGiant 09-17-2005 11:21 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Furious_Female
No, of course formal education isn't needed to know what is important in life. However, some countries oppress their people to the point that they aren't even easily able to self educate themselves. They are brainwashed to believe life and their opportunity in life is limited to what is all around them.

I was insinuating that the "true meaning" of life does not lie in material possessions or in money itself. If it did, we'd all be born with wallets attached to us. Everyone's life has its own individual meaning, but its safe to say in general, money is not the reason we inhabit this planet. At least, in my opinion.

imo the role of humans is to consume... I personally believe that we are a hugely destructive species to the earth. Any other "meaning" to life is one we attatch to it ourselves.

Tricksy 09-18-2005 01:48 AM

Money makes ppl happy in some way, definitely. I spend my money on travelling around the world and it really MAKES me HAPPY.

phonesex 09-18-2005 02:02 AM

money does NOT make people happy. You make yourself happy.

$5 submissions 09-18-2005 02:30 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Pleasurepays
thats not what maslow said. the pyramid represents basic needs and once one is met, the next becomes more important and so on.

heheh I should have put a question mark at the end of the sentence. I was asking a question re what another posted posted earlier re basic needs and diminishing returns. Actually, Maslow seems to suggest that you need the base of the pyramid to get to the next level so on and so forth. Kinda sounds like a Western psychocentric version of the ancient Indian belief system of the Kundalini and Chakra system.

Major (Tom) 09-18-2005 04:53 AM

no but you need to live at least 3/4 above your means to remove anxiety and worry. if you can do 3/4 above your means you have the tools to attain happiness.

duke

i mean below... doh

Marshal 09-18-2005 07:26 AM

money can buy a lot of things, but not all!
can you always buy health?! :(

Evil Doer 09-18-2005 07:47 AM

For me it doesn't. :(

ssp 09-18-2005 07:53 AM

Here's an interesting thought:

It can buy a House
But not a Home

It can buy a Bed
But not Sleep

It can buy a Clock
But not Time

It can buy you Food
But not an Appetite

It can buy you a Book
But not Knowledge

It can buy you a Position
But not Respect

It can buy you Medicine
But not Health

It can buy you Blood
But not Life

Furious_Female 09-18-2005 08:00 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ssp
Here's an interesting thought:

It can buy a House
But not a Home

It can buy a Bed
But not Sleep

It can buy a Clock
But not Time

It can buy you Food
But not an Appetite

It can buy you a Book
But not Knowledge

It can buy you a Position
But not Respect

It can buy you Medicine
But not Health

It can buy you Blood
But not Life

Good points metric metro :thumbsup

$5 submissions 09-18-2005 08:07 AM

Awesome quote! :thumbsup

Quote:

Originally Posted by ssp
Here's an interesting thought:

It can buy a House
But not a Home

It can buy a Bed
But not Sleep

It can buy a Clock
But not Time

It can buy you Food
But not an Appetite

It can buy you a Book
But not Knowledge

It can buy you a Position
But not Respect

It can buy you Medicine
But not Health

It can buy you Blood
But not Life


Sebo de Macho 09-18-2005 08:07 AM

read my sig! my friends makes me happy! :thumbsup

yuvalus 09-18-2005 09:02 AM

Money = Happiness
period

Basic_man 09-18-2005 09:09 AM

Money is everything, and everything is about money..

poppet 09-18-2005 09:21 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ssp
Here's an interesting thought:

It can buy a House
But not a Home

It can buy a Bed
But not Sleep

It can buy a Clock
But not Time

It can buy you Food
But not an Appetite

It can buy you a Book
But not Knowledge

It can buy you a Position
But not Respect

It can buy you Medicine
But not Health

It can buy you Blood
But not Life


Good stuff Sebastian. :)

Money may not buy happiness, but you can rent it by the hour. :winkwink:

smack 09-18-2005 09:31 AM

i don't think it completely buys happiness, but it's a damn good start.

Nicky 09-18-2005 09:34 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by assmunk
I've thought about this before and i think the problem is this:

The (lower)Middle class has to spend a lot of time worrying about paying the bills, the mortgage ,and generally just managing the little money they have, on a daily basis . Because they are preoccupied with making ends meet, stressing about their car breaking down, about being late, about burglars breaking into their houses,etc. they have less time and energy to concentrate on things that are TRULY important in life:
Like Family(and/or Love), Friends, Leisure, success,etc.
---->
Having money to pay ALL the bills BEFORE they are due, having a safe/comfortable/fast car, having money to install state of the art security/surveillance systems in their homes, having a comfortable house with lots of entertainment(be that a pool,jacuzzi,home gym,pool table,plasma tvs,whatever) eliminates MOST of the above mentioned problems/stress factors....
So, the guy that's better off doesn't have to worry about all this petty bullshit and is able to concentrate on the things that TRULY matter, which equals a higher level of happiness.

I'd say if you're a down to earth person, who was happy to start out with, and manage to stay that way after hitting the point after which you don't have to worry about petty bullshit anymore, yes, money will make you happier.

But if you were unhappy to begin with and expect to just *BUY* happiness....make sure you stay on top of your game and STAY rich...cuz once you go broke, you'll lose

1. the hot 'girlfriend'(or wife) who was only with you because you had money
2. the toys you bought to make up for your unhappiness
3. the 'friends' that only hung with you because you had money to blow...
:2 cents:

agreed....

mrbling 09-18-2005 10:32 AM

why is this always a question? are you guys having issues with yourself?


Pretty retarded to keep yelling out money != happiness,

then what the fuck are you going to do with your life? work at mcdonalds?

Goals= happinesses
Accomplishments = happinesss

fucking slackers who keep giving them execuses why its OK they aren't making jack shit


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