10 Tips to get over a Breakup
 

1) Don't try to be their friend - make a "clean break"
As tempting as it is, if you are still in love with your EX, and he or she doesn't reciprocate the feelings and intensity, then you're better off making a clean break.

2) Do erase their telephone number from your mobile phone
As text messaging is such a HUGE thing, you'd be wise to delete their name and number from your mobile phone (and address book) straight away.

3) Do delete their old emails and their handle from your online "buddy" lists
If you can bring yourself to DELETE all of the old emails between you, then do it.

4) Don't sit around staring at the mementos
Put away the letters, pictures and any personal belongings of your ex.

5) Do use a journal or notebook to vent your pain, anger, frustration & so forth
You should never underestimate the power of pouring the words out onto a page.

6) Do spoil yourself
This is something that both men and women can and need to do.

7) Do buy new bedding & change your surroundings
It may sound silly but it's very powerful step that you can take to cleanse the situation and start fresh.

8) Don't rebound
Give yourself plenty of time to heal from this break-up. Many people begin dating before they are really recovered.

9) Don't listen to the negative self-talk
Once we have been dumped, there is a tendency slip into negative "self talk" and to worry about so many things: if we will ever be loved again, have sex again, trust again or perhaps we worry we are too old, too fat, too dumb or too anything?to ever be happy and fulfilled again. That is highly unlikely, so relax!

10) Do take charge of your life - the world is your oyster
Use your time to alone to focus on yourself and your own goals in life.


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pretty insightful stuff :) I should pass this along to my ex who is having a hard time dealing with things right now.

Thanks I actually needed that.

11) Start posting 1,000 messages on GFY. You'll be glad when you're asleep..

Easier said than done... :2 cents:

Definately..

You forgot the most important one:

Time
It takes time to get over someone. Don't force it.

Yep. That's very true..

LOL hahha

thanks for the tips correctly I have great gf i dont have use for those ;-)

Me neither. Just brought me a sixpack.. :thumbsup

1. delete the number
2. get a hooker
3. go out and get wrong

Good advice :thumbsup

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Trade up to a newer model with less mileage. Check for frame damage this time around. Trade in before it depreciates.

and don't forget to fuck everything in site

Just watch it for male wholes..

so where does the stalking come in?? thats what I want to know?

your assuming that most people can rationalize and use the head on their shoulders than between their legs. If your the one breaking up - then things are great. Someone breaks up with you everything from anger, betrayal to low self esteem comes into play.

Try learning from your mistakes and dont get caught dating someone who is a copy of your last relationship. Your only going to get into a cycle again and set yourself up to fail. Get over it and realize they were too stupid to not see that they had the best person all along. Unless your a complete asshole then you deserve it and some serious therapy is in order.

Naw,

Ya just need to learn to effectively use one word. "NEXT?"

When I split up with my 1st baby momma, I must of fucked about 5 girls that week. When I got back to my hometown though I still felt fucked up.

Too many steps - all it takes is 1

1. Stand in the middle of a busy intersection completely nude and jerk off to traffic as it goes by....

The police will come along shortly and give you much bigger problems to deal with and you won't have time to dwell on the break-up!

Some good info there!

LMFAO!!!!! :thumbsup :thumbsup :thumbsup

DH

If the above fails than bang hookers!!!!

Holy Crap! ROFL There's some funny posts in here.
You fuckers crack me up :drinkup

:1orglaugh :1orglaugh :thumbsup

Did it works? Have you tried it?

I would have swore that he was going to say GFTOW.

Go Fuck Ten Other Women.

In my personal experience, I've found that you don't even really need to reach the end of that list of 10 before you're feeling fine again... but why not pamper yourself? :thumbsup

I don't know if it'd work for me any more though. I've been with my wife for 10 years... it'd take a little more than erasing her name from my cel phone and acting like a slut for 1/3rd of my life to disappear. :(

:1orglaugh

Jujst get a hooker take a picture and send it to her

yes....uhhuh.im taking notes..*sigh