Leaving his GF ... questions.
 

Is it reasonable for a guy to pay so the ex can keep the car and help with her bills a little bit so she doesn;t have to give up the house and car?

Keep in mind,,, the ex had my buddies child and he wants to make sure his child has everything he needs.

yes it is. For the kids sake.

I think maybe your buddie should support her not you it's his kid

I helped my ex move out of my place ... she's stable now and she's paying me back ... just make a deal with her . You don't have to break up on bad terms

(she had a kid ... been living with her for almost 2 years ... I love her daughter almost like it was mine). She needed to get out of it with a bit of stability

kill the ex so the child collects life insurance money

that made no sense. Who said I was going to pay for his ex?

Yes, if he can, he should.

of course he should...actually it's a must!

so why doesnt he take the kid and sees to it himself?

maybe because it's better for the kid that she lives with her mother? instead of some unrelated man whos friends make pornsites for a living?

Ah ok so ppl who have friends who make pornsites are bad parents?

YES!!

no but seriously, that's a stupid thought. ya don't take a child away from his/her mother if there's nothing wrong with her.

Me being into porn has nothing to do with this.

It's between the mother and the father.

To those who are responsible for the baby should be the ones on the front line.

its called child support and its not a option its the law

yeah why not if you can afford too

That's right. however offering to help put this way is much better option that someone being hauled into court and robbed blind.

ya he should help her

I admire you for this man. :thumbsup

your ex must see to it that your kids are well provided.