Can your girlfriend Legitimately have guy friends?

wow long time no see

Yes, but I'm very leery and protective of this.

My girlfriend's about an 8 or 9ish, and I know that most of her guy friends would love to sex her up a bit.

I can't see any reason to be friends with a girl on like a daily basis unless I hoped for sex. Quarterly I can accept.

if your girl is hot then no

Nick, u gonna be at the show?

yup are u?

A friend gave me a very interesting and and I find to be true theory about guy/girl friendships.


If you can see yourself giving head to your friend, then there is an underlying sexual attraction. Doesnt mean that if you can imagine giving a friend head that you are secretly in love with them, but just that its not entirely out of the question.

So if you girl has a lot of guy friends ask her if she can see herself giving head to any of them, if its a no, then its a real friendship, if its a yes, then there is some sexual shit (perhaps almost none at all, but still more than 0) going on.

i'd let her be friends with gay guys

the girls never think the guys want in their pants, or at least thats what they want you to think. really annoying how they can't see it, or don't want to see it, or especially if they don't want you to see it. guys can be fucking vultures.

Almost the same as guys having friends that are girls..Relationships are built on trust..If you can't trust her ..it won't work

Secure man are very sexy..they dont need their egos stroked . If you are secure, then I dont see why your g/f cant have male freinds..its a compliment to guys to have others think his chick is hot., but its even a bigger compliment to the girl to give her some trust.. if you cant let her out of your site in fear she will get fucked by someone else..then you need to work on that relationship or get a mousy homebody that you can make fat and hide from others..lol

What's wrong with her male friends wanting to fuck her? That's the real question...

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I agree Donny, why all the haters?!

Isn't that illegal????

you really believe that girls are not aware when guys want to fuck them ?...seems you have been lied to

say that when they are dropping a cum load in her mouth

Most of the time its cool. I had one girlfriend that was always hanging with her hairdresser and said he was just a "guy" friend. Eventually caught him sleeping over her place.

guys want sex. plain and simple. if a guy comes up to her and starts trying to talk to her, he thinks shes hot and wants ass.

If the guy is gay, no problem.

What if you ask you're g/f if you could have friends thats are girls. She would say NO.

no i don't believe it but women often try to make you believe it. both parties know whats going on and try to play the boyfriend for a fool so they can keep their little flirting fun going or whatever else they do. girls get away with this a helluva lot easier than guys do. i know if i hung out with girls i thought wanted to fuck me my girlfriend wouldn't be around long.

bah.. my ex had no idea. now she's my ex

Yes ... but let's say she meets a new guy and start hagning out with him ... that's a no no

exactly.. a guy has to trust his girl. but she has to respect him also.

And just what would be wrong with you girlfriend doing a little flirting? Why are people so damned immature? I just don't get it...

Put yourself in their place... do you ever flirt? I mean, when they're not around? Yeah? Does that mean you wanna leave your woman? No?

Then what's the problem if she wants to do it too? I don't see one. If you have to force someone to be with you... do you really want them to be with you?

seems you guys are hanging out with some serious female playas..

so nice to not have to deal with that bullshit. My dick is secure and has no qualms about letting me hang out with other guys..fuck , I even go on several day back packing trips with some of these men he has never met. Security is a lovely thing..if you dont have the security and trust in a relationship.. why even have one.

i agree
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that's disrespecting your man

Dude, when was the last time you hung out with a woman?

If the answer really is'nt no, chances she'll tell you are pretty slim.

women use this 'be secure' bullshit to get away with it, in my opinion. sure some friends are good and true but i've seen it happen way too many times to friends. girl is hanging out with some guy who is just a friend, 3 months later she leaves him for the so called friend. sure, im secure in my relationship but i also know one bad day, one bad fight and these 'vultures' who aren't real friends at all move in on the prey.

nothing wrong with flirting, like i said in my original post what really annoys me is when the women try and act like the guys don't want them, that they don't flirt.

How is that?..lol. You see..I have a secure man that is hot as hell, I am the one that should be worried ..but we have a secure trusting relationship. I dont fuck these guys I go camping with. Dick hates to backpack, better he let me go with folks that love it like I do , than expect me to go out there by myself..which I was doing..just not safe.

You are just insecure darling ...when you find a real woman that you can trust, you might see my point.

so funny all his friends say "dude, you let your ol lady do anything she wants"..he says.."why not, better to have her be herself and happy than feeling locked up and miserable "

locked up miserable woman will be more apt to look for love in all the wrong places..l

NO! Rule number 11
(I copied this from a post here a few years ago. Some Radio dude Leaky something made these rules.)





Women, you have no male friends. Every male you call a friend wants to bang the living fuck out of you. If you don't believe me, then as a test...tell any one of your male friends that you want to sleep with them and see if they turn you down.





The Rules:

- NEVER, and I mean EVER...date a single mother. There are multiple reasons for this rule. 1) She's already made one (or more) mistake, and you could be next. 2) With the Feminist movement gaining so much influence, YOU could be stuck paying child support for being a "Father Figure" to someone else's child! 3) With a single mother, you will always be number 2. Kids will always come first.

- Follow the "three strikes and your out" rule. Which means if he/she hasn't put out in the first three dates, dump them.

- Never pick up your phone Friday through Sunday. Screen all of your phone calls.

- No cuddling after sex. You kick their ass out in time for Sportscenter.

- Always wear a condom. ALWAYS. EVEN IF she is on birth control. No exceptions.

- Never spend more than $40 on a date. And if she pays, all the better.

- Pick out the women with the lowest self esteem. The lower the better. Beautiful women with a very low self esteem are the best partners possible.

- Get in touch with your "inner A-hole". Women are drawn to assholes. If your a nice guy(pussy), you won't get laid. She'll categorize you as her "friend".

- Women are attention whores and will do almost anything to get it. So keep that in mind when you see some woman dressed to kill.

- Men, never have coffee or lunch with a woman unless you want to be "friends". Women have dinner with the men that they bang, not lunch or coffee.

- Women, you have no male friends. Every male you call a friend wants to bang the living fuck out of you. If you don't believe me, then as a test...tell any one of your male friends that you want to sleep with them and see if they turn you down.

- Stay away from any women who says the words "All my friends are guys". That is trouble and should be avoided at all costs.

- If the person you are dating stops putting out, "Dump that bitch".

- Men, the reason why you are "friends" with a woman with the exception of having a past relationship with her...is that she doesn't find you attractive. The truth hurts. Move on.

- Men, the more confidence you show the better chances you have of getting the girl. Women smell a pussy(figurative term for a man with no self esteem) a mile away and they can also smell confidence. Women are attracted to confidence almost more than anything else.

- Don't ever tell a woman you love her unless you really do. Don't do it especially just to get in her pants. The consequences are many and get you in to big trouble. And if you really do love her, than Leykis 101 no longer applies here.

- If your girlfriend or boyfriend is spending a lot of time with a "friend" of the opposite sex (ESPECIALLY an "Ex"), dump that bitch.

- Do not get married until you are at least 25 years of age, and are done having "fun".

- Do not buy her flowers until the second year you are married.

- Don't do anything in the beginning of the relationship you wouldn't normally do later in the relationship. Because her expectations of anything you do for her will cause you problems later.

- Never hold her purse. Unless you are a pussy or have a pussy, you shouldn't be holding a purse.

- Never buy her Feminine Hygiene products for her. It is her way of testing how much she can "pussywhip" you. No self respecting man would do this.

- Always become unavailable during the holidays. Never pick up the phone close to holiday seasons. Especially Valentine's Day or Thanksgiving.

- Do not go to a concert with a woman if she invites you...ESPECIALLY if she has backstage passes or has a friend in the band she is going to see. It just means she is there to fuck the other guy. She probably just used you for the ride there.

- Never buy a woman a drink. It's just another way of a woman getting something she wants for free while the man thinks she's interested in him. (applies outside of relationships)

- Eat before you go out on a date. Purpose is that a woman normally wouldn't be caught dead eating more than her date. So this results in a lower costing date by the end of the evening. You tell her that you are trying to eat healthy. "I'll just have a salad."

- Do not order a bottle of wine. And the reason you don't when she asks is because you want to make sure you get her home safely. And to ensure this to the best of your ability, you don't want to drink any alcohol.

- If your date picks up their cell phone, silently get up, leave the establishment and drive off without them. If they give you a lack of respect to pay attention to you on the date, you don't give them the respect of driving them home. And the Cell phone call is most likely her way of setting up her booty call after getting dinner out of you.

there are some girls/guys that will lie and cheat in a heartbeat..then there are those that dont..pretty goddamned simple

why you fucks have to put all women and all men in one category is beyond me..

one of these days you might be as lucky as me and not have to worry about this stupid shit anymore.

Some 3 billion MEN are out there, and you want her to be stuck only with you forever and ever? If she wants guy friends - so be it. I completely understand that. My gf (of 3 years) has a couple of them, and I also have a few close girl friends.

Nothing wrong about it, as far as I'm concerned. Do I want to fuck them? Hell yes - at the same time! But will I ever do it? Only if my gf joins us ;) And I'm sure my gf also wonders how it'd be to fuck one of her guy friends. But at the end of the day - it's just friends and there's no need to play immature games.

i actually have 3 friends who are girls, who aren't that bad looking, and i have no desire or intention to fuck them. So, it is possible...

i can only hope. i've yet to met any human who is totally honest.

you are either gay or stupid

On behalf of the woman, yes... she can be only friends with the opposite sex. Unless they are gay though, the male friend almost always wants to have sex with them and/or get them away from their boyfriend/husband.

I dont know if anyone is totally honest.. but I know it goes a long way in having a good relationship. I think I just lucked out. My dick is a big asshole sometimes as i can be too..but we are pretty fucking honest with one another.

Everyone - you, her - has only one life and we all must seek our happiness. If she wants to fuck someone, who are you to say no?

What you DO have control over is how you're gonna react to it. If I catch my woman with another man, she's history. Plain and simple. You might make a different choice.

But I agree with one thing said here. There's no need of being a chump. If you see her going out with a "guy friend" and you think she's fucking him, keep your eyes open. She'll reveal herself soon enough.

She can have whoever she wants as a friend. She can do whatever she wants too. I do give my input but it just that input. I'd never say you can't have so and so as a friend. If you cannot trust her then move on as your lack of ability to trust her will cause any relationship to fail. Also, If she is undeserving of trust why are you still going out with her?

Let her have her friends guys or girls! This will help you in the long run with your relationship. I guess I would say it's different if she is going out of her way to make new guy friends or if she is only hanging out with guys. I know myself I would be upset if my guy said you can't hang out with any of your male friends. If she loves you she isn't going to cross that line with them. I would suggest getting to know the guys she is good friends with also. Melissa

ive been with my man for 6 yrs now.

the first 4 yrs, HELL NO i couldnt have guy friends (although i did have one guy friend that was like a brother to me & he was friends with both of us so it was cool), and he couldnt have female friends either.

BUT, we talked alot of shit over, we trust each other, we ARE human so we're gonna flirt from time to time, but the trust is there on both parts.

if i wanna go out for the night, locally or 2 hours away, i just tell him. he trusts me, rightfully so, not to do anything. do i flirt? oh god ya! he knows i do, im a big flirt by nature. does he know that i dance with other guys at clubs sometimes? nope. he doesnt need to know. i can take care of myself if a situation comes up (a dude grabbing my ass, tryin to kiss me, etc). all he needs to know is that im coming home to him, as faithful as i was when i left the house. period.

he goes and 'plays cards with the boys' every once and while. is he there playing cards for the 12 hours hes gone? probably not. do i care if hes a strip club with the boys throwin some bucks at girlies in thongs? nope. hell, i've gone with him a few times ;)

if you dont give each other space & breathing room in a relationship, you're going to end up killing each other. if you cant trust each other, theres deeper issues that you two need to deal with. i refuse to give up all of my life & fun just because im in a relationship. fuck that. im 24 with no kids and not married. let me live!

I find it extremely entertaining how the girls in this thread don't want to face the fact that every one of their guy friends would fuck them sideways if the opportunity presented itself.

I agree with Baba though. I think that for a relationship to really work, each person needs to have their "own life". Every good marriage I know of is exactly like that. Both the man and woman do their own thing every now and then. Its healthy.

Besides, if you can't trust your guy/girl, what's the point of having a relationship?

as longas she dosent call the ops

It's not possible to have a girl and a guy as only friends. Some one wants more.

why not? I have alot of guy friends and it will always depend on your limitations of course.. self respect... (ok sometimes I get carried away..ooops!)

What fucking girlfriend in her right mind would tell her boyfriend "well since ya put it that way, yea I could imagine myself giving bobby head"

none? is your girlfriend blonde?