is it true that an over zealous lust for anal sex means your gay?
 

i wonder.

does as a guy having a constant craving for anal sex with women really mean you have a subconcious desire to be homosexual?

i don't mean trying it now and then when the mood strikes - i;m talking about those guys who want anal sex before vaginal - that really really want anal and it's all they think about sexually?

i'm not big on anal sex. i can't see the big deal about it myself - doesn't make sense to me and doesn't feel as good. maybe it's the dirty factor that turns some guys on - these often seem to be the same people that secretly don't like women or like to degrade them....least that's why I see....

thoughts?

Hey Scott, are you having a slow day today?




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will it take 27 threads to finally get around to attacking choker?

puk puk pukkake... said the chicken

What does the anus of a woman have to do with being gay?

Gay is when you are attacted to guys, not an ass. Gay guys give oral too, does that mean when you like oral that you are gay? Im sure if guys had other holes that you could stick your cock in guys would fuck that too.

And, here I thought anal sex was about power and control and the love of a really really tight fit.

maybe ur just dating loose chicks and anal is the only option.

hardly.. most guys like a blow job as well but that doesn't mean that they're willing to get one from a guy.

The thing is that a woman has a pussy and a man doesn't, so you crave one and not the other, that makes you straight.
Both have an asshole so if you crave the woman's, you must crave the man's.... that's just not true.

They both also have a mouth, hands, legs....

With that logic, lesbians wouldn't use dildos.

Why? You want our approval because you keep fucking Jman in the ass?

Do you jack off? If so then aren't you using a MALE hand to do so? So you must be gay if a male hand can get you off.

Yes I think your maybe gay

i know i'm gay, i just like pussy now and then.

Jman moves in and soon after you're making posts about an over-zealous lust for anal sex...

co-incidence - i think not!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Indeed. ;)

You see what he is doing also?

what am i doing?

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Tee-hee ... poo-kake

Who really cares? If a persons wants to pack back the crap, so be it.

Me, I love pulling out in time so I can ejaculate up one nostril so to see how far I can shoot my load out of the other.

:1orglaugh

:eek7 are you :stoned

no, not yet ... I never waste (come to work stoned) !

Okay, now I am ready: uma gunna go twist una Z up now.

anal sex on a woman makes you as much gay as going to a movie makes you an actor

Seems raven is the only smart one in this thread.

Hmm.. Bad example. Most actors started because they loved watching movies. :1orglaugh

>> does as a guy having a constant craving for anal sex with women really mean you have a subconcious desire to be homosexual?

you're only gay if you're worried about it

Recent studies have shown that the brain of a gay male responds to the sight of a hunky guy in the same way that the brain of a hetero female does.

ok, i'm going to respond to this thread at the risk of being flamed for being serious instead of silly, but i actually wondered this question myself at one point. my ex-husband was very into anal sex - so much so that he preferred it over vaginal sex. he would be very angry with me if i wasn't up for it, or he would make me feel badly for not wanting to just jump right into anal sex without foreplay or things like, lube - say. (if rape within marriage without clearly saying 'no' exists, i think i was a victim to it.)

now that we're anulled and i've got nothing left to lose on that loser ( :winkwink: ) i look back on the situation and i realise he was very into the control aspect of anal sex and probably had been involved in an abusive relationship in the past where he was on the receiving end of someone else's control issues. i don't think my ex was gay, but i think he had serious control issues. i was made to feel bad for not wanting anal sex as spontaneously as he seemed to and i had a couple male friends tell me that he was obviously gay because of it - but as Halcyon just pointed out, a boy's butt and a girl's butt are still very different. :2 cents:

I think the definition of being gay is the urge to suck cock. If you have sucked cock and are not a woman you are gay.

No offense. But that's all we needed to read. :winkwink:

for the record-
I am not a big fan of anal.
Never have been-

Too much prep time and it's messy no matter how you do it-whether it be with the lube or in the form of dookie...

So if you just kiss a man and jerk him off that's not gay? :winkwink:

Thanks for noticing. I studied reel gud in skool.

i don't think it follows that you are subconsciously gay.. as long as you want to do anal with women.

i don't personally like doing anal though..

I am also wondering why there are a lot of guys out there who love anal sex. I am not into it and have not done it.

I don't buy the whole justification that some are making for anal sex in this thread.
The reasons guy fuck each other in the ass is because they don't have pussies.

If you prefer ass over pussy you've got issues.

And I agree with tassy it may not be the gay overtone issue, but one of dominating someone or something and treating it dirty.

I dated a few chicks that preferred a good ass fuck .They said it made their orgasms more intense..I also preferred the glove like feel