What do you guys talk about with non-industry peoples??
 

Ok so i do have quite a few friends and they know i work in the adult industry editing and what not and we have completely normal conversations about life blah blah blah and non porn things. BUT when i meet new people i freeze up and have no idea what to talk about besides porn, beer, aqua teen hunger force and chicks LOL ..... Do you guys ever face this problem? LOL (yes i am a girl btw)

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I have more than 4 interests in life, so it's not that difficult finding something to talk about with people usually.

I talk about my huge Johnson.

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stfubradley LOL

i have more than 4 interests as well but for some reason i freeze up towards new people LOL and have no clue what to say to them.

suck my cock.

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eat my ass :moon

I had the same situation last weekend. Went to Vegas with my girl, and met her conservative friend and her bf. Found plenty to talk about, but they seemed to get very squeamish like most people do when I mentioned my work.

D'oh! atleast ya didn't mention ******* hehehehe :)

What I mean is, what I do for a living doesn't define my persona. I'm not implying anything about you with that statement.

When I am just hanging out usually the last thing on my mind is shemales, hairy girls, panties, nude teen girls, etc.

Instead I am usually thinking about anal creampies, female ejaculation, and fisting. That makes things easier when dealing with people who don't know me.

lol :) anal creampies niiiice :1orglaugh

I know exactly how you feel.

Just like any career, it's what I do but it doesn't define me. I have many other things going on in my life; family, interests, etc. Creating conversation really isn't an issue no matter who I'm talking to. :2 cents:

sport bikes, guys, being bisexual, being in a long term relationship, sex, cars, clubs, malls, shopping, holidays, family, shoes, alchohol (only while drinking), computers, internet (mainstream), goals, dreams, vacations (past & future)......etc etc

ok my intrests go far beyond the four i mentioned on my first post... (UFC, Football, Hockey, horse back riding, D&D, wicca, Tarot, adult swim shows, sushi, traveling, photography, anxiety, paranomal investigations, burning man events, comic books, and star wars) . so really i do have tons to talk about but it is just I meet some people that are sooooo conservative and when they start to talk to me i freeze and have no idea what to say. therefore i fuck up and say the weirdest things to them LOL

You like Star Wars? And I thought I knew you well.

i like your mom too :thumbsup

Hey, is your sig your biz?

djing, pez, gardening, spirtual stuff, astrology, the afterlife, music, computers...shit, i can keep going on

guns, my doublewide trailer, Trans Ams, meth recipes, tattoos, Kid Rock, deer poaching, Pabst Blue Ribbon, my trucker hat collection

boy bands, britney, paris, bowling, and all the other stuff I love. Working in adult doesn't define me.

Pretty much anything
but.. I tend to lock up when they act uptight about certain things. I'm an open person, I cant stand people who are easily disgusted or offended.

Movies, travelling, latest tech gadgets, etc.

i tell people i work in porn, then i immediately ask them if they'd ever been fisted.

that breaks the ice quite nicely.

depends, I usually say I shoot 'nudes or glamor nudes' if I think they are assholes I say I shoot 'sex' mostly the only people I meet are industry folks or service people, i.e. people waiting on my table or servicing my car so I generally get call 'sir' and it doesn't matter what I do. other than that I would have no idea about meeting people and talking to them.

where in the heck are you meeting new people that ya have to chat with?

Don't be a porn nerd and stick with your webmaster friends like a pack of rats. I know too many people in our biz like that. Cult like if you ask me. Creepy.

What do webmasters talk about with non-webmasters?

Just click on any thread on GFY. You'll see webmasters talking to non-webmasters about everything from "A day in the life of Skufty (pic series)" (Skufty is Sleazy's Basset) to "Who here shaves there balls".

thats when i just listen to other people and go from there.

the weather is a lame starting point of conversation but it works for me :winkwink:

not like that at all . . . all I do is work, I talk with photographers all the time but only about photography. other than that I chat with agents and models and clients about work, which in my case is porn. so should I drink beer with a bunch a guys at the pizza place and talk about sports or some kinda stuff? don't watch TV or read the paper or anything like that . . . when I'm not working I hang with my family . . . don't really run the streets looking to meet weirdos and start interesting fact filled conversations . .

bmb

Everything else that does not envolve the industry.

im the exact opposite...i have more friends not in the biz than in the biz...i leave my bigcock titty cum talk to ICQ

Sex, obviously.

Anything thats on your mind, news, weather, sports, work, etc. etc.
WG

oh, i do that ALL the time :1orglaugh dont you just love that all-to-familar uncomfotable silence after you say something retarded? LOL I cant seem to ever get used to it :winkwink:

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usually history, in depth political debate, whatever is interesting.

i was actually just talking to one of my non industry friends the other day about how odd our conversations usually are. we were sitting in a bar, getting hammered, and i looked around and asked him "how many other people you think are talking about Vallende and Pinochet tonight?"

i prefer talking about interesting things, the same old chicks, drugs and weather conversations get tired real fast.

then again my concept of interesting is opposite most people's.

i hung out with you and all you seemed to want to discuss was the penis size of black men. it was REALLY creepy.

Yep I go with the flow... :D

Clothes, fashion, makeup, going out, movies....

Those are my other internests besides working...