tonight i couldnt talk to this chick im 100% attracted to
 

You ever saw a chick that's totally your dream girl? Well i sometimes see this chick. Its not your average chick, not like just some girl who looks ok but u dont give a fuck about, cuz with those chicks i hit it off instantly.

This chick i really wanna fuck bad (its nature i guess, she has a physical effect on me i never experienced before), and cuz of this fact i dont know what happens to me but i just dont know what to say to the girl. This never happened to me before (yea only in high school but that was still different then this), this shit is fucking weird.

So tonight she was in this club, and i already did a lil basic chit chat the other night to her, and tonight i said hello to her n shit.

But then it happened, later she was standing around near me and i wanted to go and talk to her, but something stopped me.
Then 15 mins later or something I walked away with my friends to the dance floor, and like a minute later, she was dancing next to me.... and i didnt do shit. Again.

Now im sitting here thinking about how fucking stupid i was and if shes still interested in me after this fucked up shit. What the fuck! Im fucking annoyed cuz of this shit i did. Or better, DIDNT. Christ, i guess cuz of her getting in my damn mind its harder to act normal to her or something.

When i see her again what the fuck will i say? 'Yea sorry i didnt see you all those fucking times that night when u was standing right beside me'? This sounds like some high school shit but im serious, it totally fucked up my mood.

"Listen, sorry I didn't talk to you the other night. But when you're around, it's like I can't think of what to say because you take my breath away."

Score.

Dude, she probably likes you now because she thinks you're playing hard to get.

You are golden, so stop being such a pussy ... you'll know what to say when the time's right. This girl is no better than you, she's just another human being doing her thing. If you don't get to fuck her it's not the end of the world, so stop putting so much pressure on yourself and relaxe. And for the love of Fuck DON'T apologize for not talking to her ... that will just sound pathetic.

Good luck man,

-Phil

Edit: Ok Tala says otherwise, and she's a woman, so maybe I'm completely full of shit lol :winkwink:

gay is ok.

What, are you a shy guy?

nope, i dont understand what the fuck it was. Never happened to me before...

usually i like to acheive my "dreams" lol :)

nico it's alright for a dude to play a little 'hard-to-get', or in other words, being a 'challenge'. Women like to chase as well, don't be the dork who gives up all his cards at once. If you can predict you'll be seeing her every so often, then I can tell you she's showing interest by being 'around', so relax buddy, it's in the bag.

Next time, muster up the courage, walk right over and open a conversation, study her body language for signs she's interested and go for the home number.

=%^)>

Because you knew that you couldn't deliver even if you sold the product. Apprehension is a biatch. She's blowing up my celly right now, she must be looking for sex again. Peace!

Did you get this sickening feeling in your stomach when she was near you? Like you were going to have an axiety attack?

if so... it's love at first sight dude.... and trust me, she can pick up on your shyness in the situation. it's all good. Girls love that.

Awesome!!!!!!!

If you let it seem like you are playing hard to get, then you will get her attention more than you could even imagine. Girls know that guys drool when they see skin and such, but it really blows their mind when a guy does not act a-typical. This is a challenge to them. Cat and Mouse. Girls are attracted to confident men, so don't blow your load when you see her. Act cool, play your cards right and you WILL have her. It's the nature of the game. When a female has a guy going for her and he gives (starts giving her everything like time and gifts) too soon she knows she has him. No longer a challenge. Game over. But IF you play the same game, you will not only have won, but she will keep coming back just so she can find out what your deal is. Keep her wondering and you will have whatever you want. Don't hate the player, hate the game. :kisskiss

She must be in your mind alot now. I know what you mean by the ones you don't care either way are easy to f-ck. I think Tala's heart is in the right place but if you said that verbatim you'd look like a Frustrated Wuss. If she's hot like you say no compliments just talk to her like she's one of your buddies. She won't be used to that, bust her ovaries alittle.
Good Luck

taking notes right now...
:thumbsup :thumbsup :thumbsup

Oh I don't know. Someone said that to me, I'd be seriously taking him home. Oh yes.

Yes acting that you are awed will not work. Be yourself although u make think she is your dream girl. Could be the worst thing that ever happened. Don't expect anything have fun and if things are right things will occur. :winkwink:

My problem is everytime I see a guy who steal my breath, he's either gay, married, or completely uninterested. *sigh*

oh the club night's, i like to remember them...but do not want to do them ever again! LOL

anyways,
Just say hey, I seen you dancing next to me the other night, I really think your a great dancer. Find out what she likes to do outside the club and make some plans
with her.
Don't try to play to many games, be real and she will feel it :-)

Those were not the right one!

Don't look to hard and it might just slap ya in the face :winkwink:


P.S. I bet this guy's passed out!
:1orglaugh

It's when they slap me in the face that I punch 'em in the solar plexus.


Besides, I'm not looking. I just happen to catch a good view from time to time. IF I find one, it'll be a shock.

Tala, please . . . with all due respect, that is what the chick wants to hear, but not what he should say.

You noticed that since she probably thinks you were ignoring her, she started getting closer and closer to you. Acting aloof is the best procedure.

You played it perfectly, unintentionally perhaps, but perfect.

Next time she will probably initiate the conversation. No worries. But please, do yourself a favor and don't make comments like "you take my breath away."

No, Tala is a chick. Your response was perfect, if I had read it, I probably wouldn't have bothered making mine, I would have just quoted you . . . until you pussied out. :1orglaugh

:1orglaugh

niggah, please

^ chick ^

:1orglaugh HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA :1orglaugh


Oh man . . . . I can barely type I am laughing so hard.

She better be professional if you plan on using that line.

your post is too long for me to read.

Baddogg I feel left out now. How about some criticism or props my way.....LOL

:thumbsup

:1orglaugh
Case in point - don't do what I did and over-analyze shit. That's when the Vaginitis kicks in. Follow your GUT, you know what you need to do.

:2 cents:

Baddog you crack me up man,

-P

I have a better idea. After reading my responses to the others, what do you think my response to you would be? :)

^ pussy ^

Say "I want to fuck you HARD - I can't think of anything else to say"

I can go along with that. Will eliminate a lot of bullshit. :thumbsup

Cut the bullshit. Just say "fancy a fuck?
Because life is to short. If you dont have have her, someone else will.
No bullshit

hey yall thanks for the reactions and shit.
judging by all the posts about the hard to get part i know now that i didnt fuck it up as i first thought, and im glad to hear that!

And about the tips; i must say i like the point of view of big red, baddog and everyone else with the same kinda post; sucking up to the chick and say corny romantic shit is not an option - thats definately not me.
thanks yall :pimp

"I just need to fuck her"

you fucking pig. ever try venturing beyond the thought processes of your dick and, HA, maybe strive for something more?

My first thought exactly, lol.

Nico..Every once in a while in life, we meet someone who maybe should not be let go, you know what I mean? Yeah, there are tons of skanks and dogs good for just screwing..But sometimes someone passes thru our lives who may be worth more than just a one night fuck. Follow your gut and go with it.
It happend to me many years ago and I let him go..I acted like a female dick, you know? Was too good to let him see the me inside..I still think about him..

indeed, but the chances of some "stunningly hot" girl who frequents clubs being anything worthwhile as far as a true relationship is concerned is practically next to 0.

I totally agreed with ya :thumbsup :winkwink:

just say "Say hello to my little Friend" :P

let me say this before baddog does: "chick" :1orglaugh

i've been a shy dude too... or maybe still am

Why? He is obviously young. Too young to even begin worrying about "something more."

It is all about the pussy at this point in a young man's life.

Thank you.

that is a somewhat flawed mentality.

if you find yourself a keeper, you KEEP HER. (i just made that up, i'm good).

you don't go from girl to girl like a whore simply for the sake of doing so, simply for the sake of your age. of course the encounters where you really feel you've met someone worth while and worth not letting go are rare, but when it happens you don't use your age as an excuse to brush them off.

believe it or not, there have been many people who met at a young age and died together old and happy. and of course there are many people who end up getting divorced - but the point is is that your age shouldn't have ANY baring on anything in your life - regardless of whether or not you or people you know regretted not being a fuck-everything-in-sight type of person earlier on.

yeah, it's true that he could still "keep her" even with an initial intention of having sex with her - but i personally feel that you should always try to at least get to know the person first for awhile before you act so typical and fuck like animals on a first date. i guess that doesn't work for most people though since so many are on such a one track mind. i don't like the whole one night stand deal, it really shows you the girls character and how really slutty she is, makes ya think how many others before you? i have too much pride to let some slut fuck me on a first date. "pussy is pussy", you can find it anywhere if ya look, makes the whole situation more intriguing seeking out a girl who you can relate with first and get to know.

Before I respond, I must know . . . are you a chick or a guy?

As far as your assertion that many people meet young and die together old and happy, that shows the flaw in your logic.

That was then, this is now. Back then we did not have a 50% divorce rate either.

Ahhh. To be young and horny again.

Suck it up. Be yourself. Don't wear too much of your heart on your sleeve. Talk sloooow. Look her in the eye when you talk. Listen! Give her time to ask you questions. Don't worry about about getting her number. Just have fun.

And in passing when you part... say you liked talking to her and if she would like to do it again.

By the fourth date you'll be going balls deep anal as she yells out your name!

typical response from a dirty scruffy old porn webmaster.

you can't use the excuse that "this is a new era, a new society, times have changed" to act out differently, or to avoid commitment. as a whole, humans have not changed, we still have the same genetics as we did thousands of years ago. the only difference from 80 years ago and today, is that society makes it easier and acceptable for people to run around like whores.

but i can assure you, most women who "participate" in one night stands have a fucking low self esteem - and what they really want is just one guy who will make them happy. i'd rather not contribute to it... i know i know, how foreign, a GFYer who actually has a sense of morale. (and please, GFY chicks don't respond to this paragraph particularly, you are the few exceptions to this rule)

i don't expect you to understand anything i say, or to agree with it. probably 99% of the people here won't agree with me, but those are my opinions and they've held me over quite well.